TTC After a Loss

~*~*IF check-in 9/21/14~*~*

This is the weekly check-in for TTCALers who are also dealing with infertility. If you'd like to join us please feel free to intro with your diagnosis and history. We've had a few extra challenges thrown at us, ladies. Come here for snuggles from people who get what you're dealing with. 

Fill us in, along with any other updates or vents you need to get out, TTCAL or NonTTCAL related.


If you get a BFP, please PM me and let me know.  If you do not PM me I will not mention you in the check-in.  If we haven’t heard from you in a few weeks please come back in with an update; or are new and want to join please post a brief intro with your DX and current/future treatment plans and then you'll be added to next week’s check in!  



@beckynsean11  How did your appointment go?  I hope you were cyst free!!


@bunnybun4  How was your week?  Did you get your calendar yet?  Hope the spotting stopped!


CandST2014  How was your week?  Any updates for us?


@Frenchteachermama     


@MBJune    How was your week?  Any updates for us?


@O2girl    How are things going?  You’re getting close!!!


@Feegan   How was your week?  Any updates for us?


@Rachaeleigh   How was your week?  Any updates for us?


@Rocks526  Did AF show her face yet?  Hope you had a good week!


@LizBlue   How was your week?  Any updates for us?


@rubysi  Did AF show up?  Hope the heartburn is better!!  



QOTW:  Are you sunrise, daylight, twilight, or night? 




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My FF Chart:
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
TTC #3 since June 2013
BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


Re: ~*~*IF check-in 9/21/14~*~*

  • AFM:  I still don't have my paper calendar in my possession but the nurse in charge finally called me and my FET is scheduled for October 30th.  I'm bummed it's so late in the month but there is nothing I can do about it.  At least I'll be through busiest part of my semester at school by then.  I had to have a heart to heart with DH about helping me more around the house to keep my stress level down.  I feel better now that we are on the same page.  

    QOTW:  I think I would describe myself as sunlight.  Sunlight always makes me feel better and I think that's the kind of person I am, always trying to make people feel better.



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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


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  • @Frenchteachermama- Glad you finally got an appointment for your FET.  

    AFM- AF finally showed yesterday and we are no longer benched!  I will call on Monday to schedule my HSG.

    QOTW- I am more of a daylight person because I enjoy spending time outside. The shorter days makes me feel depressed.
  • @Frenchteachermama‌ , thanks for the check in. I'm glad you finally know a date, even if it seems so far away

    @Rocks526‌ congrats on being off of the bench!

    AFM: DH and I just returned from a wonderful vacation. I'm expecting AF today or tomorrow, then I'll schedule baseline for IUI#4
    I think I'm going to choose femara rather than clomid, just bc it sounds like there are fewer side effects.
    My RE didn't seem too have a preference

    QOTW: I think I'd be daylight

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
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  • Hello everyone,

    @Frenchteachermama Thanks for the check know in. I am glad you got your FET scheduled,  it sounds like it might be good timing even if you have to wait. It is good to be on the same page as dh. Mine still needs to be reminded from time to time about helping out.

    @Rocks526 bye bye bench...good luck with the hsg.

    AFM- I got a surprise this week... AF showed 4 days earlier than usual. Unfortunately it looks like my insurance will no longer pay for my medication so I am going to be on a mostly medication free cycle. I am hoping to get my flex card functioning again and we will be in business again. The first week of MET has gone pretty well. Some bloating, some heartburn but the first benefit is my little beard has started to disappear.  I have had a problem with this since I went off bcp's 10 years ago. I start the next dose tonight. 

    QOTW : I think it depends on the time of year. Right now I am leaning towards twilight or night, mostly because it has been a long and warm summer (which I love) but I like variety and I am tired of sunshine. Around February when the days are super short and we have had nothing but rain for three months I would say I am daylight.


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  • Rocks526 said:
    @Frenchteachermama- Glad you finally got an appointment for your FET.  

    AFM- AF finally showed yesterday and we are no longer benched!  I will call on Monday to schedule my HSG.

    QOTW- I am more of a daylight person because I enjoy spending time outside. The shorter days makes me feel depressed.
    WHOO HOO!!!  Please keep us posted on when the HSG is!!



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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • @Frenchteachermama‌ , thanks for the check in. I'm glad you finally know a date, even if it seems so far away @Rocks526‌ congrats on being off of the bench! AFM: DH and I just returned from a wonderful vacation. I'm expecting AF today or tomorrow, then I'll schedule baseline for IUI#4 I think I'm going to choose femara rather than clomid, just bc it sounds like there are fewer side effects. My RE didn't seem too have a preference QOTW: I think I'd be daylight
    I'm so glad you had a wonderful vacation, you deserve it!!  I can't speak for clomid but I never had a single side effect on femara, I hope you'll be the same way!!



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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • rubysi said:
    Hello everyone,

    @Frenchteachermama Thanks for the check know in. I am glad you got your FET scheduled,  it sounds like it might be good timing even if you have to wait. It is good to be on the same page as dh. Mine still needs to be reminded from time to time about helping out.

    @Rocks526 bye bye bench...good luck with the hsg.

    AFM- I got a surprise this week... AF showed 4 days earlier than usual. Unfortunately it looks like my insurance will no longer pay for my medication so I am going to be on a mostly medication free cycle. I am hoping to get my flex card functioning again and we will be in business again. The first week of MET has gone pretty well. Some bloating, some heartburn but the first benefit is my little beard has started to disappear.  I have had a problem with this since I went off bcp's 10 years ago. I start the next dose tonight. 

    QOTW : I think it depends on the time of year. Right now I am leaning towards twilight or night, mostly because it has been a long and warm summer (which I love) but I like variety and I am tired of sunshine. Around February when the days are super short and we have had nothing but rain for three months I would say I am daylight.

    I'm so sorry about the insurance, I hope you get everything settled soon!  Why do we have to be plagued with weight gain, beards, and pizza faces on top of IF???????  ((hugs))



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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • Good morning ladies!!
    @Frenchteachermama‌ thank you for running the checkins! Also, I'm so thrilled you will be cycling in October. It isn't fun to have to wait.... But your FET will be here before you know it!!!!!

    @Rocks526‌ I hope your HSG comes out clean and both of your tubes are clear. It is a wonderful feeling to burn the bench.

    @Rachaeleigh‌ so happy you can get your show on the road with IUI #4. Fx AF shows up right on time!

    @rubysi‌
    Sorry about your ins! That kinda blows monkey chunks! FX big time for this cycle for you (meds or not)!

    AFM:
    Gosh...... I am getting down to the wire again! The punch to my ute is coming up on Friday and then I start doxy, medrol, and PIO with crinone...... Oh crap! I'm excited and definitively scared. Obviously I'm really hoping that this works this time..... I'm also hoping that we have some good embies at the thaw on Oct 2. I think oct 2 will be a difficult day.

    QOTD: I am a twilight lady. I absolutely LOVE how everything just glows.
    Me: 38
    DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant

    DH: 34
    MFI due to Testicular Cancer

    Married March 2012 <3
    IVF w/ICSI #1
    10 little polar bears
    FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN :(
    FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
    Beta 1= 276
    Beta 2= 662
    4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
    5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
    5/3/14 ~ D&C
    FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
    October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
    Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y



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  • @Racheleigh- Hope you enjoyed your vacation.  I take Femara and the only side effect that I experience is hot flashes.  I don't have any experience with Clomid.
    @rubysi- Sorry that AF showed early.
    @Frenchteachermama- Thanks I will keep you posted.
    @O2girl- FX that you have good embryos on Oct 2nd!  ((Hugs))
  • Happy Sunday everyone! I had my surgery on Thursday. One cyst was removed from each ovary and the tiny amount of remaining tissue was removed from my uterus. The first 2 days were rough but I'm feeling great now. Now I'm just waiting for AF so we can get this show back on the road!
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    Hi all,
      I started joining in on the board last week.   We've been trying for over 2 years and our diagnosis is unexplained fertility. 
    Here's my history:
    Testing:  Day 3, Day 21 bloodwork normal, HSG normal, SA normal

    Diagnosis:  Unexplained infertility

    Treatment:  IUI #1 50mg Clomid + Bravelle + Ovidrel (3 follicles)  3/31/14 =BFN
    IUI #2  50mg Clomid + Bravelle + Ovidrel trigger (4 follicles) 4/30/14=Cancelled due to high LH levels- TI instead=BFN
    IUI #3 50mg Clomid + Bravelle +Ovidrel trigger (3 follicles)  5/28/14=BFN
    Hysteroscopy to remove polyps in the uterus:   7/15/14
    IVF #1  :  ER 8/10/14:  22 eggs, 17 mature, 10 fertilized,  ET 8/15/14: transferring 1 embryo, freezing 8 remaining embryos.
    8/28/14 beta#1 =255 BFP!  beta #2 =752 beta #3=2521
    9/8/14-Heartbeat seen @6w2d
    9/13/14-missed m/c @7 weeks
    9/18/13- D&C



  • @02girl Most of your language is alien to me but I wish nothing but the best for you this cycle.

     @CandST2014‌ I am glad your surgery went well... come on AF. 

     @26summer‌ Welcome.


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  • @rubysi‌ , Damn your insurance! I'm glad to hear that you're having positive effects from the med, though

    @O2girl‌ , fx that everything continues to move forward

    @CandST2014‌ glad to hear that the surgery went well

    @26summer‌ sorry that you have to be here, but welcome

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic

  • O2girl said:
    Good morning ladies!! @Frenchteachermama‌ thank you for running the checkins! Also, I'm so thrilled you will be cycling in October. It isn't fun to have to wait.... But your FET will be here before you know it!!!!! @Rocks526‌ I hope your HSG comes out clean and both of your tubes are clear. It is a wonderful feeling to burn the bench. @Rachaeleigh‌ so happy you can get your show on the road with IUI #4. Fx AF shows up right on time! @rubysi‌ Sorry about your ins! That kinda blows monkey chunks! FX big time for this cycle for you (meds or not)! AFM: Gosh...... I am getting down to the wire again! The punch to my ute is coming up on Friday and then I start doxy, medrol, and PIO with crinone...... Oh crap! I'm excited and definitively scared. Obviously I'm really hoping that this works this time..... I'm also hoping that we have some good embies at the thaw on Oct 2. I think oct 2 will be a difficult day. QOTD: I am a twilight lady. I absolutely LOVE how everything just glows.
    FX for you!!!!!!!  I think that's what is freaking me out the most, the wait to see what makes it through the thaw.  I'm praying for you!!



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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • Happy Sunday everyone! I had my surgery on Thursday. One cyst was removed from each ovary and the tiny amount of remaining tissue was removed from my uterus. The first 2 days were rough but I'm feeling great now. Now I'm just waiting for AF so we can get this show back on the road!
    So glad surgery went well and that you're feeling great now!  What's the plan going forward?



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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • 26summer said:
    Hi all,
      I started joining in on the board last week.   We've been trying for over 2 years and our diagnosis is unexplained fertility. 
    Here's my history:
    Testing:  Day 3, Day 21 bloodwork normal, HSG normal, SA normal

    Diagnosis:  Unexplained infertility

    Treatment:  IUI #1 50mg Clomid + Bravelle + Ovidrel (3 follicles)  3/31/14 =BFN
    IUI #2  50mg Clomid + Bravelle + Ovidrel trigger (4 follicles) 4/30/14=Cancelled due to high LH levels- TI instead=BFN
    IUI #3 50mg Clomid + Bravelle +Ovidrel trigger (3 follicles)  5/28/14=BFN
    Hysteroscopy to remove polyps in the uterus:   7/15/14
    IVF #1  :  ER 8/10/14:  22 eggs, 17 mature, 10 fertilized,  ET 8/15/14: transferring 1 embryo, freezing 8 remaining embryos.
    8/28/14 beta#1 =255 BFP!  beta #2 =752 beta #3=2521
    9/8/14-Heartbeat seen @6w2d
    9/13/14-missed m/c @7 weeks
    9/18/13- D&C



    Welcome!!  I am so sorry you are here, hope your stay is short!!!  Are you going to be doing an FET when you get the all clear from your doctor?



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    My FF Chart:
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/490dd7
    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14

    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


  • Hi ladies!  sorry I am so late to the game again.

    AFM: still don't have any dates...a friend of mine is on the cycle before me and her ER is today so I am assuming a month from nowish will be mine.  the spotting is still going strong...it is so damn annoying...I'm basically having a period everyday and this has been going on for about 3 weeks.  suck suck suck.

    @frenchteachermama - sorry you are bummed about it being so late in the month but everything is crossed for you!!!

    @rocks5260 yay for AF showing up!

    @rachaeleigh- glad you and DH had a nice vacation.  FX for your next iui!

    @rubysi - sorry your insurance is being difficult...hope you get it straightened out soon

    @o2girl- everything is crossed for you this cycle.

    @candst2014- glad your surgery is over!

    @26summer -welcome to the check-in

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)

    -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

    11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

    IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

    12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!!  One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15

    Everyone Welcome.

  • @Frenchteachermama‌ Thanks for the check in! I feel like I haven't been around here in a long time! Things have been crazy with harvest and feeling low about having my last IUI with Letrozole last week. I am not ready to talk about the next step. I am 7dpiui right now and I am on the fence about whether it worked or not. I don't want to know what the next step is yet. I just really want to know if this last shot worked! Huge Hugs ladies! I am so sorry I haven't been around much!

    Dx: PCOS/Unexplained
    July '13 - Mar '14 - Letrozole and TI - BFN
    April '14 - HSG - All clear - Letrozole, Trigger and IUI - BFP
    May '14 - Miscarriage 5w 3d
    July '14 - Letrozole, Trigger and IUI - BFN

    Aug '14 - Letrozole, Trigger and IUI - BFN

    Sept '14 - Letrozole, Trigger and IUI - BFP

    Beta 1 - 87  Beta 2 - 193  Beta 3 - 441
    SA - All good
    ALL Welcome



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