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new to board-warning...LC mentioned

prokesh1prokesh1 member
edited September 2014 in TTC After a Loss
hi everyone. Im Jessica. Im not sure how this really works but I will just start by introducing myself. I am 26. my husband and I got married june 2, 2012. Before I was with him I lost 2 babies. One when I was 15 and one when I was 19. We started trying before we were married but I didn't get pregnant with my third child until july 2012. my baby went to heaven the following month on august 8th 2012. We were so devastated. we didn't try again for four months. I got pregnant again and my baby boy was born august 28th 2013. He was a blessing. We wanted another baby so we tried again and 2 months ago we found out I was pregnant. We lost our fourth angel on august 16th. I am so devastated to have lost 4 babies. Its hard for me to comprehend this. I don't know if I can handle another loss or what it means for me having more children. My doctor said they cant pinpoint why its happening. I should mention I have a vascular disorder but they cant say for sure if that's what's causing it..i don't think it is because my mom has the same disorder and she had four healthy pregnancys. It took me longer to reach out for support this time around..maybe because I still don't believe it happened again. I also just got AF and I know mentally it was going to happen but emotionally I wasn't ready to see that...its almost like it confirms and finalizes my loss that I haven't come to terms with yet.(sorry so long)
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Re: new to board-warning...LC mentioned

  • mrsjg2013mrsjg2013 member
    Good morning.  I think you already intro'd on this board this morning?  Maybe combining your detailed info from this post into your previous post would help the ladies provide support in one thread?  

    Again, I am so very sorry that you find yourself here, but whole-hearted welcome to the board.
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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    edited September 2014
    Welcome again.I'm so sorry for your losses. I agree with PP it may help to combine your 2 intros.

    ETA: premature post by my phone
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • prokesh1prokesh1 member
    yea I meant to post the 2nd on the multiple loss check in but I think im confused as to how it works...how do I combine posts
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    @prokesh1 I don't think you can combine them, you might just want to change your title (to the one you want to delete) to something like "ignore- accidental double post" and people will just ignore that one, and go to the right intro :)

    Also, could you edit your intro that you keep to include a living child mentioned warning? Something like "Intro--Living child mentioned" will be just fine. It just helps those who don't have a LC to be warned if they're having a bad day. We don't want anyone to be hurt or blindsided by the mention of a LC. Thank you! :D
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    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
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  • mrsjg2013mrsjg2013 member
    You could just copy/paste what you've said here into the previous post.  Add **combined** to the end of your original thread title.  Delete the text from this thread and just say something like **combined with previous thread-include original thread title here**  Also change the title of this thread to **deleted & combined** or something like that.  
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  • lyndz333lyndz333 member
    Sorry for your losses.  Welcome.
    BFP #1 - 12/7/2012 - EDD 8/14/2013 - DD born 8/17/2013
    BFP #2 - 3/31/2014 - EDD 12/6/2014 - Natural miscarriage on 4/28/2014
    BFP #3 - 8/4/2014 - EDD 4/12/2015 - Chemical Pregnancy discovered on 8/13/2014

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  • eliidaeliida member
    I'm am so sorry for your losses. Welcome, I hope you find comfort here.
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    Welcome to the board! I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope that you find peace and comfort here.
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I think I commented on the other post, but just in case. I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.
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  • stinybeanstinybean member
    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your losses.
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  • uromysuromys member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome.

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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