rant.... ugh..

youngcollegemom

Just leave me alone. I don't want your advice & don't want to listen to how it get worse or how to suck it up.
Just leave me alone & just listen to me.
Sick of facebook, can't post anything without someone telling me to suck it up or giving me advice. Just leave me alone.
*end rant

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leoandethansmom

Just warning you...you may not want to post this on an open internet forum. Your facebook friends actually know you and they're giving unwarranted advice or comments, the internet isn't always as kind and it's from anonymous people.

youngcollegemom

Your right. Sorry. I do read a lot. I just don't have much else to say. Been emotional roller coaster and I feel pretty alone. With school, new job and the father.. just trying to keep going. As much as I just want to hide.
All the advice about the car seats I Have finally picked one.
Baby room is working progress...
Still can't agree on a name.
2 showers in November I guess.
Sonogram yesterday & heart looks fine she just kicks and moves a lot.
Blood pressure is still borderline. And she told me yesterday if it goes higher that she could sooner.
I am due later in December, so i am a little behind.
My Glucose test & Rh- shot isn't till 3 weeks. I am worried about the test.
I am a first time mom and I am worried but I do read everything and I love the advice because it does keep me calm.

chicorojo

I am super confused.

LeviJeans

/deardiary?

gimmeyronionrings

You're not alone! We all have shitty days and there are a lot of ladies going through tough times. You may get a more supportive response on this board if you engage more, rather than just dumping your thoughts. It's hard to know how to respond to posts like this. Just my two cents!

krystrist2014

bvsbabymomma said:

gimmeyronionrings said:

You're not alone! We all have shitty days and there are a lot of ladies going through tough times. You may get a more supportive response on this board if you engage more, rather than just dumping your thoughts. It's hard to know how to respond to posts like this. Just my two cents!

This.

That was actually the perfect response. I sympathize with your situation and I think this board as a whole has sympathized, but it becomes hard to offer support to someone who doesn't provide support for everyone else on the board going through tough times.

drpayne

And also, get used to it

Cryssteen

I just cried in a fucking dressing room. I get feeling like shit. And I don't want to be told it will be ok. I just want to not feel that way.

feeshah

youngcollegemom said:

Just leave me alone. I don't want your advice & don't want to listen to how it get worse or how to suck it up.
Just leave me alone & just listen to me.
Sick of facebook, can't post anything without someone telling me to suck it up or giving me advice. Just leave me alone.
*end rant

(:|

ColeyCannoli

Ainslie325 said:

You'd be amazed how recuperative it can be to offer some support to others in these forums rather than just stewing in your own juices. You may come to learn that in helping others work through their stuff, you're better able to tackle our own.

This is very true.

We all understand how you are feeling but that's because we are all going through the same things. You are not the only nervous FTM by a longshot either. Welcome to the club

Cheekers2010

I am so very very confused.

youngcollegemom

Thanks.
I understand.