Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Back to work and feeling like the white elephant!

It's bad enough that I don't know how to deal with all of the emotions of losing our baby. I think that I should have have stayed home from work another day because if I have to hear that "god did this because the baby was probably sick" or "keep moving forward" or "there will be another one when the time is right" I seriously might lose my shit. Sorry. Rant over. Going home to burry myself in my heating pad and eat a gallon of ice cream. Rawr.

Re: Back to work and feeling like the white elephant!

  • So sorry. I think people really don't know what to say and feel awkward so they just end up saying the WORST things! I sometimes dread seeing friends who I haven't seen since my loss because I am worried they will make a comment like that and I won't be able to hold in my rage! I hope you are home in comfy clothes watching junk TV and eating ice cream, I have found that is the cure for stupid comments from clueless people!
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • Wow... How insensitive.

    Stay strong, girl.
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