TTC after 35

TTC>35 weekly check-in 9/17

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1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.


2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?

3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?

4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?

5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)

QOTW: What is your favorite holiday?

Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
Me: 37                                               
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • I have my fx so hard for you @jimbobcooter!  Keep us updated.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
    imagerainbows
              
    All welcome                                   
                              
  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
    flylice from CO

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    Not officially trying since June, trying harder now. working on #2

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE? 
    I've been doing a lot of opks and hpt trying to figure out what my body wants to do with itself since I'm still waiting for AF to show up after a mc in mid/late august

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    I have no idea where I am in my cycle. According to FF, based on my previous cycles before the mc, I had a 26-ish day cycle. I'm currently onto day 29 with no period in sight. 

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    Honestly? kind of annoyed. We didn't feel the need to be safe since the doc said we had the go ahead to get pregnant again right away if we wanted (no need to wait for the first cycle), so of course we listened. I had some spotting about a week ago which got me kind of excited that AF was showing up, but then I just had some cramping for a couple days along side 3 days of nasty heartburn when I never get heartburn. Of course every test is telling me that I'm not ovulating nor am I pregnant so I refuse to test again for another couple days. At this point, I'd rather my period just start so I can clean the slate and begin anew.

    QOTW: What is your favorite holiday?
    New years. I grew up in a state where this was the biggest bestest holiday and it's still my favorite. 

    Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
    you all rock. I've only been on this board for a couple weeks now, but I like you all already.
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    @Davie813: Wow--your second IUI is tomorrow! I'll be sending positive thoughts your way. >:D<

    @lcwed: You are so sweet to welcome all of the newbies.



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  • @lcwed, what dollar store do you shop at? When we first had our mc, I went to the family dollar store and the tests they had were more expensive than what I ended up grabbing at Safeway! I eventually ordered a 20 pack from amazon but feel like I'm using them all up already haha.
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  • @flyliceandcoffee‌ Dollar tree. It's one test for a dollar. Just make sure you get the pink dye ones. Buying wondfos bulk from Amazon is a good way to go too. I didn't need that many, only a couple because I had O pains and wanted to check when AF didn't come 2 weeks later. Of course AF came the day after I took the test.
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    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • Bearfootz, WI

    Gearing up to ttc #3

    QOTD: I love Christmas but have a new appreciation for Thanksgiving since we get to have the wonderful time with family (and the food) without the stress that can sometimes go with gift buying.  I also love the 4th of July - parades and fireworks!

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    About me  2007: Started TTC. 2008: OB prescribed clomid, went to RE and was Dx with PCOS. 2009: IUI #1 w/follitsim and trigger = BFP. B/G Twins born at 33 weeks. 2012: TTC #3, Round 2 of Letrozole w/TI = BFP, missed m/c at 8 1/2 wks. Currently on the bench as we make plans for a new home. Anxious to start TTC #3 within the next year!

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  • @flyliceandcoffee walmart also has their first signal brand for 88 cents.
    @lcwed we are cycle twins.  Don't forget -2 is actually the single best day to hit!
    @URmysunshine77 thanks for the support this week and I really hope this is both our cycles and we can avoid starting testing.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
    imagerainbows
              
    All welcome                                   
                              
  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.

    Melissa FL

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?

    Cycle #1 TTC #4 for me #3 for him and #1 for US :)

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE? 

     Just going with the flow on the first couple of cycles.

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?

    CD33.  5 days late for AF. Still BFN.  
    Phantom symptom: Complete utter exhaustion. I could fall asleep right now.  Bouts of extreme nausea and gagging.  Hunger and increased appetite.  Headaches.  

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)

    Discouraged.  Waiting for AF to start the next cycle

    QOTW: What is your favorite holiday?

    Thanksgiving.  I love that time with the fall season (though I am in FL now) and the family time.
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    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • @tlc35 Thanks for the -2 info.  I didn't know that.  Puts another spring in my step.  FX we get to become PGAL girls together.
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    Me 36 DH 39

    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • @lcwed, @tlc35 are those dollar store ones (or walmart ones) better than the amazon (wondflo) ones?
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  • @lcwed, @tlc35 are those dollar store ones (or walmart ones) better than the amazon (wondflo) ones?

    I didn't have wondfos with my last + but I have seen several posters get evaps with wondfos. It hasn't happened to me but it would suck to get your hopes up. Plus if you don't want to wait for the order it is nice to have an option you can go get right away.  I still use wondfos, especially if I am testing early but if I ever get a + on one I won't really believe it till I confirm with a FRER.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
    imagerainbows
              
    All welcome                                   
                              
  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
    Schrutebucks in Oregon

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    TTC #4, cycle 2

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
    I chart and we're doing the "Sperm Meet Egg" plan this cycle.  Which is sex EOD starting on cd 10, then every day for three days when you get a + OPK, rest one day, then one more try. 

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    I'm still just spotting, but I'm considering this cd 1 since I'm sure my period will start today.  So, I'm waiting for AF then I'll be waiting to O :)

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    I'm bummed we weren't successful last month, but feeling hopeful since this cycle has only just begun!

    QOTW: What is your favorite holiday?
    Christmas!

    Good luck to everyone!
    Me 41  DH 33  Married 09/03/2011
    DD1  EDD 08/18/01, born 08/03/2001 ~ 9lbs 10oz, 21.5 in
    DS1  EDD 4/30/2004, born 05/04/2004 ~ 10lbs, 22 in
    mc 02/14/12 @ 5 weeks
    DD2  EDD 12/25/12, born 12/30/12 ~ 10lbs 11oz, 21.25 in
    mc 12/05/15 @ 12 weeks
    Cautiously expecting 12/02/16



  • mindaamindaa member
    edited September 2014
    @tlc35
    Sorry you are not feeling excited about Christmas - I'm with you and it's a terrible place.  
    EDITED to add: I hope by December you've been able to regain your normal excitement :) 


    1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
    mindaa, Phoenix

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    TTC #1 - since 2012

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE? 

    Clomid, progesterone cream, lots of vitamins plus charting/temping. Made a good healthy effort this month, and had good BD timing. I'm about ready to be done and move one, but didn't want to stop without one last good try.

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    8dpo and zero symptoms. Got a early BFN, wanted to POAS before making travel plans  
    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    Good question... I'm kind of a mess of mixed emotion

    QOTW: What is your favorite holiday?
    Easter. I love spring and new life. And flowers
    Me-37, DH-38
    Married in 2006, TTC #1 since Jan 2012

    Baby Boy born June 1, 2015

    He settles her in her home as a happy mother of children, praise the Lord! (Psalms 113:9)
    And the peace of God, which surpasses all understand, will guard your heart and mind in Jesus Christ (Philippians 4:7)

  • @flyliceandcoffe The wondfo I used showed a faint line @ 10DPO the same day my FRER showed a faint line.  I had the wondfo one because it came with the Wondfo OPK.  The dollar store ones are very accurate from the day your period is due.  Just like a regular pregnancy test, but not as sensitive as a FRER which is used for very early detection. 
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    Me 36 DH 39

    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • 1. Kindershlitz/MI
    2. TTC #2 cycle 14
    3. pnv, opk, progeterone post + opk, clomid w/ultrasounds
    4. 7DPO- looks like I have a couple cycle friends in this group!
    5. I feel really good about our timing and the results of our ultrasound last week.  So I am anxious this week to see if anything happens

    QOTW: Another Christmas fan. But I like all federal holidays since those are days DH actually gets off- company has cancelled lots of his vacation time due to 'urgent' matters and it sucks.  

    @Davie813 Hope things are going well and thanks for the shout out!
  • 1. BaytoSA, TX


    2. TTC #1 and this is our 2nd month

    3. We are in the middle of a week of sexy times.  We'll probably continue in to next week just to be extra sure.  I'm not currently temping, just watching CM and having lots of sex.  We are giving it 6 months of trying to ramp it up and add in more things like temps and OPK's

    4. I'm hoping already ovulated.


    5. I'm hopeful and anxious. 

    QOTW: What is your favorite holiday?

    My favorite holiday is Christmas.  I just love the whole time of year and the spirit of it all.

  • 1. radiantly, from Brooklyn NY

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    TTC#1 since August honeymoon last year.

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE? 
    Natural stuff... started daily meditations for TTC from Circle and Bloom (thanks to poster who mentioned that website a while ago!) and daily arvigo massage. Acupuncture, chiro. temping and OPK only around my O days.  Saw an RE in July, I have 1.8cm endometrioma on my R ovary and R tube is blocked. Considering surgery for it later this fall/early winter. 
    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    CD5 Going away this weekend w/o DH so happy won't miss the fertile week!  

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    Getting serious... hope this is the month - was not too hopeful last month b/c it was likely O on my closed side. Hoping this month I O on my left open side and my visualizations work.  I saw an astrologer for the first time - really impressive - looks to her like next August will be very joyful in the family realm, it could be an Aug BFP or a baby... hope its a baby and I don't have to wait another year.
    QOTW: What is your favorite holiday?
    Probably thanksgiving b/c I love cooking, food.  I also would say anything to kick off the summer -- Memorial Day weekend? Summer Solstice? July 4th already feels too late. I like when the summer is impending and full of hope.
    TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
    12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 
  • 1. Christina;
    Living in Los Angeles, originally from NJ

    2. TTC #1 since December 2013
    3. Started seeing RE 2 weeks ago. Been temping, charting, acupuncture, and even started going to chiropractor (yes for fertility. Who knew?)

    4. CD7, Going in for my HSG in 1hr...

    5. Right now I'm nothing but anxious

    QOTW: Favorite holiday had always been Christmas, because of being with family etc. It's going to be weird this year not traveling back to NJ for the first time. We just bought a house and TTC we thought we should spend our 1st Christmas in our house.
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



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    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • @Teenie16  Best wishes with your hsg!
  • @HeathandJas Before you hit enter, type this "<br><br>" (not the quotations obviously).  That's the html code for double space.  One "<br>" is single space.  If you want to fool with it.  Don't blame you if you don't.  It's a pain.
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    Me 36 DH 39

    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • ^^^ @lcwed you can do a <p/> as well. that's like a bigger line break. sorry, nerd alert...
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  • no thank you.  typing 2 br on ipad is time consuming.
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

    Me 36 DH 39

    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

    TTCAL Siggy Challenge
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  • pinkishrabbitpinkishrabbit member
    edited September 2014
    1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from. 
    PinkishRabbit from NM 

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.? 
    TTC #1 for a couple months 

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE? 
     Charting/temping, Testing. 

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww? 
    2WW 

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc) 
    Emotional, anxious 

    QOTW: What is your favorite holiday? 
    Halloween. The costumes and decorations and seeing all the kids, I love it.
    Pregnancy Ticker 


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