I had similar responses on here and that is why I have moved to a different site primarily. I like the idea of a pregnancy community but this one isn't what I thought it'd be. I understand everyone has their own opinion but if someone asks a question and you disagree with the content, move on. There is no reason to go out of your way to upset people. I can't seem to find your original question though, if it concerns a shower or "sprinkle" or anything celebrating your pregnancy, I am having a second shower because, although I still have a crib and changing table and things like that I don't have all the smaller items. So I am having a party, not necessarily a shower, to celebrate the baby and it's also a becoming a big sister party for my daughter. Everyone in my family has had a shower for each of their kids and my family and friends see no issue with it. Do what works for you and your family/friends. Here for advice if need be!
Okay I usually just lurk on this forum, but I have to say @MrsMuq that "twatwaffle" is the best name I have ever heard. It will become part of my vocabulary.
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