Trouble TTC a Sibling

Intro

I have been lurking for awhile and I wanted to intro so I can jump in. I am beginning to feel more isolated the farther I get into this process and you all seem so supportive. I feel like the infertility process is beginning to run my life. I have become so fixated on the process and the fact that I am still not pregnant. I am also beginning to have a difficult time coping at work as I work with newborns and pregnant women. It looks like some of you have been at this awhile as well. Does anyone have any tips with coping strategies? 
I tried to put my process in my siggy. 

Re: Intro

  • I'm so sorry you have to be on this board! It is a great group of ladies though! It has to be hard working with babies and seeing pregnant women all the time.

    When I start getting discouraged or sad, I try to physically stay busy. I will volunteer in DS' s preschool class or find things to do that would be difficult with a newborn.

    I also drink after DS goes to bed in the evenings so there is that :)

    Welcome and I hope your stay here is short!
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  • I just wanted to say welcome to the group! I hope you find the support you need!

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

    My Chart

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    All are Welcome!

  • Hi and welcome!

    IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge: Animal Snow Interactions 


  • Thanks everyone! Yes so far my coping strategies so far have included wine and food. I am now noticing the pounds creeping on. Hoping to find something a little more healthy.

    It looks like my attempt to put a siggy in has failed (I can't see it anyway). So here is what we have been through so far:

    D (33) & J (32)
    DS#1 born 10/2001- died 01/2002
    DS#2 born 7/2011
    TTC#3 03/01/2013
    Started seeing RE 4/2014
    Natural IUI#1 05/2014 Cancelled- Blood filled uterus
    Cervical Dilation and Saline Sono 05/2014
    HSG 07/2014- All Clear
    Natural IUI#1 (part 2)- 08/2014 BFN
    IUI#2 clomid+ovidrel+progesterone- 09/2014 BFN
  • The only thing I have found is staying busy and that hasn't been working well for me lately. I'm seeing a therapist tomorrow and will let you know if she has any good strategies. Welcome to the board.
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

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