So, I am 13 weeks and pregnant at 43, first time. After my next sonogram, Oct 2, I plan to send out my announcments about the birth of our healthy baby girl. ( Matern21 results came back great). I have several friends and colleagues who I know our struggling with getting pregnant and some are up to 15 years younger than me. I know I shouldn't feel guilty about getting pregnant so quickly and easily at my age, I actually think it is miraculous! But, I know if I was in their shoes, it could sting a bit. I don't plan to be proactive with a conversation, I think I will wait until the announcments go out, let those friends process the info, and take it from there should they reach out.
Anyone else deal with this on either end? Would appreciate any advice.