TTC After a Loss

4th Non Consecutive loss - +MTHFR PAI-1

Was 11 weeks yesterday with a seemingly healthy pregnancy only to find out there was no heart beat. Mourning the loss terribly. Anyone else familiar with or have the gene mutation MTHFR? I'm devastated. D n c tomorrow. How to mourn one and try for another?

Re: 4th Non Consecutive loss - +MTHFR PAI-1

  • First of all, I am very sorry for your losses.  You should definitely give yourself time to mourn.  Did the doctor give you a time frame on TTA?  I have no experience with MTHFR, but I know that some of the women here do have that.  I hope your procedure goes smoothly tomorrow.  Welcome to the board.
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    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • I don't have experience with that gene mutation, but just wanted to say that I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope your D&C goes smoothly and wish you a speedy recovery.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss.  Be gentle with yourself.
    3/22/09 - Lily Grace, born at 33 weeks, 2 days
    9/12/14 - M/C @ 7 weeks, 1 day (ectopic)

  • I don't have my follow up scheduled just yet and I can't help but feel like there's something that could have been done. Prior successful pregnancy with lovenox injections that I was told weren't necessary this time around.

    Is anyone trying after waiting only one cycle?
  • So sorry for your loss! I have compound heterozygous MTHFR, but didn't learn about it until I lost my set of triplets at nine weeks! Since our loss my RE switched me to vitamin code raw prenatals for the folate, folgard for the high dosage of folic acid, and baby aspirin to keep the blood clotting under control. I am 60% sure I will do lovenex with a future pregnancy as there is concern the baby aspirin won't do/be enough! I am seeing a RE and I have consulted with a neurologist who specialized in the mutation. Feel free to PM me with any questions!! Many hugs!!
        BFP: 2/24/14 | EDD: 10/22/14 (triplets) 
    US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)

    US (with RE) 4/7/14 No Heartbeats :(  | D&C 4/8/14
    BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta  #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T


  • I guess I need to slow down and trust that my provider will direct me. She did talk about seeing a specialist and having more generic testing. May I ask what an Re is?
  • Reproductive Encronologist (The best of fertility specialists)!
        BFP: 2/24/14 | EDD: 10/22/14 (triplets) 
    US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)

    US (with RE) 4/7/14 No Heartbeats :(  | D&C 4/8/14
    BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta  #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T


  • I'm so sorry for your loss. There are a lot of MTHFR ladies here and on the PGAL (pregnant after a loss) board. I don't have personal experience with it, but I am sure that some of the other Bumpies can lend some insight.
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • Welcome, so sorry for your loss. 

    Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011,  TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
    BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
    Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
    Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC!  Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case.       Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal.  Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities.  Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!

    BFP #3 December 11, 2014!  Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!

            Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15 :)

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  • I don't have any experience with MTHFR, I just wanted to say that I'm sorry for your losses.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

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  • I do not have experience, but I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to a wonderful group of women. 
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    Married my partner in crime 06/11/11
    DH: 29, Me: 28
    Started TTC 10/01/2013
    BFP#1: 03/05/14 | EDD: 11/11/14 | MC: 04/10/14 | D&C 05/01/14 [Molar]
    BFP#2: 10/15/14 | EDD: 06/25/14 | MC: 12/02/14 | D&C 12/04/14 [MMC]
    Current Status: RE appt 01/20/15 & Cleared to TTC
    Plan: Baby Aspirin, More (raw) folate, PNP, Iron, diet
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T, ANA+ Homogeneous, Anemia. Ige sensitivities: gluten, egg, dairy
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. No advice, just hugs.
  • Welcome, I am so sorry for your loss

    DD 15.07.2012

    BFP #2 01.18.2014, MMC 04.10.2014 15w5d

    BFP #3 07.18.2014, MC 07.31.2014 5w6d

    DX: RPL due to submucosal uterine fibroid. Hysteroscopy 12/16. All clear!

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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I don't have experience with MTHFR, but wanted to wish you healing and a good recovery. Be patient with your self and don't blame yourself!! I found that i did (and still do on occasion) that and it's not helpful or warranted.

    When we lost our little bean in Feb, i had to go in for a sonohysterogram as it was my second. Once that was done, after the first cycle, we got the green light and started trying again. My SO just told me a few weeks ago that he's now to the point where he's excited to try again, which now looking back, is obvious as to why we really didn't try very hard the first 6 months. So my advice is that once your doc gives you an ok, just make sure you're both ready.

    Love and prayers to you. Hope all goes well tomorrow. <3
  • Sorry for your losses. I also would suggest meeting with a RE and pushing for RPL blood work. Hope everything goes smoothly tomorrow.
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

  • Everything went well and the new OB has a plan :) Gave me hope. He's also going to check my homeocystein (sp?) levels and prescribe the lovenox as soon as we have a positive pregnancy test. He suggested waiting one cycle so we will play it by ear with regard to emotional preparedness. He said that unfortunately, I am considered high risk at this point however, this just means closer monitoring. Today is the first day I haven't woke up bawling... Progress. Thank you ladies for the support!
  • @holdingouthope has a MTHFR mutation, but a different one I think. She's on vacation right now, but maybe she can weigh in if she has a minute. (hi HOH!)


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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • I am oh so sorry for your loss. Sending big hugs your way!!
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  • @HoldingOutHope Are they having you do baby aspirin in the meantime? I do folgard and baby aspirin until a BFP and then will move to folgard and lovenox!
        BFP: 2/24/14 | EDD: 10/22/14 (triplets) 
    US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)

    US (with RE) 4/7/14 No Heartbeats :(  | D&C 4/8/14
    BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta  #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T


  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
  • @HoldingOutHope‌ thanks for sharing!! It's reassuring to hear our doctors are on the same page. I feel like MTHFR is still a new diagnosis so I've heard of different ways that OBs/REs want to treat it.
        BFP: 2/24/14 | EDD: 10/22/14 (triplets) 
    US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)

    US (with RE) 4/7/14 No Heartbeats :(  | D&C 4/8/14
    BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta  #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T


  • Hey there - I'm late to this as I was traveling last week.  I do have PAI-1 mutation.  My doctor didn't think it was a huge factor into our losses (they can't tell me what was though).... They do have me on low dose asprin as a precaution, but haven't felt the need to do anything more than that.  

    I'm sorry for your loss.  I would definitely recommend a fertility specialist (though I miss my OB terribly).  Hopefully they can find something that will give you a plan to move forward. 

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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