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HippoTooth

14whitney said:

Ok, OP. 

I need your help. I've been TTC for 14 months and despite the doctors saying I'm healthy and DH's SA in normal range, I can't seem to get pregnant. What ever shall I do? Also, can you clarify something for me? The penis can go in any hole and I'll still have the same chances of getting pregnant, right? 

I wish @14whitney was here to find out about butt-baby. It's like she knew it would happen.

HippoTooth

LittleMrsW said:

14whitney said:

Ok, OP. 

I need your help. I've been TTC for 14 months and despite the doctors saying I'm healthy and DH's SA in normal range, I can't seem to get pregnant. What ever shall I do? Also, can you clarify something for me? The penis can go in any hole and I'll still have the same chances of getting pregnant, right? 

Since OP isn't coming back, I heard that you are 25% more likely to get pregnant from anal sex. The moar you know!

@LittleMrsW‌ predicted a butt-baby too!

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fmf5

@aditigirl‌ I am so so so sorry!!

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Mysh

@Jodie159‌ I leave you Buzzfeed, to teach you the importance of proper comma use

https://www.buzzfeed.com/jessicamisener/commas-save-lives?bffb&utm_term=4ldqpgp&s=mobile#34pam4j

Mysh

DaisyCat11 said:

fmf5 said:

@CrazyAunt84‌ Thank you Thank you. HO. LY. FUCK! OP you need fucking help! To start, if that's your husband why the fuck are you sitting on the floor while some other 15 year old slut is next to him? If you seen him hold the bitches hand and kiss her your basically saying oh yeah babe it's okay that you do this I'll stay with you no matter what. Any man got me F'd up thinking I'm going to stay around after seeing that shit. Wow wow wow wow wow. 

Yes, it's clearly OP's faulth that her husband is into 15 year olds.

WTF is wrong with you?

In the sense that she is condoning it by knowing and not separating herself from him permanently. Of course I think that is MUD on another forum.

 

nandaboob06

Nanda was here, handing out her tits.

Ant&Al2825

@14whitney‌ are you really back or am I seeing things!?!?

wishiwaspreggo

@-)

fmf5

@KawaiiKitsune‌ @14whitney‌ I'm just saying... you think it's okay for a 15 year old to hold hands with some else's husband right in front of her and sneak off to sleep by him and make out with him? He's married. I'm sorry if it offended anyone but that's just how I felt at the moment.

fmf5

@DaisyCat11‌ didn't she say that her husband was holding her hand under the blankets? She has to be real close for that to happen and if she knows that why is she basically just letting it happen? That's why I said what I said. I may be wrong but that's how I took it

fmf5

Yeah I agree @KawaiiKitsune‌ @DaisyCat11‌ I was just thinking maybe the 15 year old still should have known better but I guess it's possible she didnt?

icaughtfire

fmf5 said:

Yeah I agree @KawaiiKitsune‌ @DaisyCat11‌ I was just thinking maybe the 15 year old still should have known better but I guess it's possible she didnt?

Whether she knows better or not, she is a child. He is an adult. It is his responsibility to stop the behavior. Stop slut-shaming teenagers.

ramaholic

fmf5 said:

Yeah I agree @KawaiiKitsune‌ @DaisyCat11‌ I was just thinking maybe the 15 year old still should have known better but I guess it's possible she didnt?

@fmf5 Even if she did "know better", how many teenagers do you know that don't push boundaries?  I don't want to write off her actions, but OP's husband DEFINITELY knew better.  AND, being the adult in the situation, he has the responsibility of appropriateness, not the girl.

I mean, I kind of get what you're saying about OP staying with this guy, but it's not her fault that her husband cheated on her or has the sexual desires that he does.  Saying, "Oh, well you're kind of at fault for staying," is victim blaming; she didn't do anything wrong in this situation.  He made the choice to violate not only the law, but his wife's trust. 

Even if she did leave him, would it change what he had done or probably continues to do?  I highly doubt it.

ChevyLikeTheVehicle

Had he gotten this child pregnant do you think the statutory rape charges wouldn't be filed because she should've known better?

OP is wrong for blaming a child. @FMF5 You are wrong for blaming a child. If this was your 15 year old daughter would you still have thought the same thing?

Or would you be pissed that a grown ass man was talking advantage of the naiveté of a child?

 

fmf5

@ChevyLikeTheVehicle‌ @bibliothecary‌ @KawaiiKitsune‌ @ramaholic‌ I agree with you all. I wasn't just blaming the 15 year old. I know the grown man was more at fault but I was just saying that she did have a fault too. Definitely agree with him being more at fault.

rockopera

fmf5 said:

@ChevyLikeTheVehicle‌ @bibliothecary‌ @KawaiiKitsune‌ @ramaholic‌ I agree with you all. I wasn't just blaming the 15 year old. I know the grown man was more at fault but I was just saying that she did have a fault too. Definitely agree with him being more at fault.

You didn't call the husband any names, but sure made a big point to slut shame a 15 year old girl. In fact, you called her a slut AND a bitch. That is way fucked up.

icaughtfire

fmf5 said:

@ChevyLikeTheVehicle‌ @bibliothecary‌ @KawaiiKitsune‌ @ramaholic‌ I agree with you all. I wasn't just blaming the 15 year old. I know the grown man was more at fault but I was just saying that she did have a fault too. Definitely agree with him being more at fault.

Seems to me like all you did was say the 15 year old was a slut & the wife was stupid for letting it happen. I saw no blame on the husband. But what do I know?

fmf5

fmf5 said:

@CrazyAunt84‌ Thank you Thank you.

HO. LY. FUCK! OP you need fucking help! To start, if that's your husband why the fuck are you sitting on the floor while some other 15 year old slut is next to that stupid mother fucker

? If you seen him hold her hand and kiss her your basically saying oh yeah babe it's okay that you do this I'll stay with you no matter what. Any man who thinks its okay to mess around with a 15 year old got me F'd up thinking I'm going to stay around after seeing that shit. Wow wow wow wow wow.

nandaboob06

fmf5 said:

fmf5 said:

@CrazyAunt84‌ Thank you Thank you.

HO. LY. FUCK! OP you need fucking help! To start, if that's your husband why the fuck are you sitting on the floor while some other 15 year old slut is next to that stupid mother fucker

? If you seen him hold her hand and kiss her your basically saying oh yeah babe it's okay that you do this I'll stay with you no matter what. Any man who thinks its okay to mess around with a 15 year old

got me F'd up thinking I'm going to stay around after seeing that shit. Wow wow wow wow wow.

Just stop. Seriously. It's not helping. The only reason you're saying anything about the husband is because you got called on it.

fmf5

@nandaboob06‌ Yes but just because I didn't call the husband names too doesn't mean I was pinning all the blame on the 15 year old.

fmf5

Also if I was just pinning all the blame on her I wouldn't have said any man got me messed up thinking I'm staying around after he did that. I'm sorry I said what I said maybe somethings was wrong but I'm just defending myself as I was not pinning all the blame on her.

TheGoodFairy

fmf5 said:

Yeah I agree @KawaiiKitsune‌ @DaisyCat11‌ I was just thinking maybe the 15 year old still should have known better but I guess it's possible she didnt?

Oh my dear... this cannot do. I am going to have to turn you into a goon.