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Bummed about BFN

lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
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Tested today 10dpiui.  BFN.  And big temp drop.  If it was just BFN I could hold out hope but the temp dropped bummed me out.  I know that it's my first IUI and that I shouldn't be bummed but for some reason this one is hitting me HARD.  Crying in my car this morning. My body was doing all sorts of wacky things that gave me hope.  The meds did what they should, we timed it right according to tests, DH's sample rocked - my body just failed.  Again.  I know you ladies know this disappointment and thanks for letting me share. 
DS: Born November 2011
TTC #2 since April '13
DH 35, Me: 34
DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • cait613cait613 member
    I'm so sorry. Don't lose hope!
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  • tigerlynx31413tigerlynx31413 member
    Hugs!

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  • littlecookielittlecookie member
    Hugs! Thinking of you.
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  • nittanyllamanittanyllama member
    Hugs and better luck next time.


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  • lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
    Thanks ladies!! I really truly appreciate it.  @BethandBen that's exactly it! I feel like I am doing everything we can.  If this doesn't teach us that we are not in control what does, right? 

    Thanks @Lemonblossom! When do you start? Hopefully you have a successful cycle!

    @dani_Brewer- thank you!! 

    I knew you ladies would get it.  Thanks!! 
    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
    Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
    March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
    @Lemonblossom - yay for last day of clomid! Good luck on Friday!! 

    I guess we will just do this party again....my body did respond to the meds so guess we will just hope for a better result?
    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
    Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
    March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
    Thanks, Lemon! 

    When I told her I got AF, My doc said "Really? That's not supposed to happen.  Your numbers were great.  Are you SURE?"  Didn't exactly inspire confidence. :/ I am 99.9999% sure it's my period but darn it I don't want to have hope. I just want to move on :(
    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
    Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
    March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • MillimeterMillimeter member
    I'm sorry!

    This whole thing makes us feel broken!
    When you do it all exactly right and it doesn't work it is heartbreaking.

    That's ridiculous what your doctor said!

    I'm hoping the next cycle is it!
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