TTC After a Loss

~*~*~ August Angels Check-In 9/8/14 ~*~*~

August Mommas

This check-in is for mommas who lost a baby due in the month of August (any year), and any late loss mommas who gave birth and lost their precious angel in August.

New to the check in: Welcome. I'm so sorry you find yourself here but hope you find the love and support you need from the amazing women on TTCAL. Tell us a bit about yourself, where you are in the TTCAL process, and don't forget to include your August EDD or birth date.

Current members: Let me know if you have any updates to the information below, or if you get a BFP please send me a PM with along with your EDD!

For everyone: How are you lovely ladies doing this week? Where are you in the TTCAL process this week? Any appointments coming up?

If you don't have a special message below, it just means you weren't able to check in last week or haven't checked in for a while. So, let us know what's up with you TTC and otherwise so I can include it next week!

The List:

LiaMadi1: EDD 8/3/13 and 8/7/14

Sfazar: EDD 8/4/14

Lundlebean: EDD 8/5/14

NoeliaV: EDD 8/23/14

Dawnstar898: EDD 8/25/14

Mara005: EDD 8/27/14


@LiaMadi1:

@NoeliaV:

@Dawnstar898

@sfazar:

@lundlebean:


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Any update you ladies would like to share?


QOTW: What is your favorite thing to cook? Share the recipe?



"Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
**All After a Loss Welcome**
BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
 

BabyFruit Ticker


Re: ~*~*~ August Angels Check-In 9/8/14 ~*~*~

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    Didn't mean to miss last week, sorry ladies.

    On Friday, I have my WTF by phone (a consult with my RE to discuss my failed cycle/what to do next cycle).  My RE actually called me herself, (I hope she knows how much that meant to me) and when I told her I'm ready to go but her appts are really backed up, she said she'd take care of it and I got a call the next day to reschedule me for more than 2 weeks earlier.  I'm hoping we can make some changes.
      Next Monday, I have a financial appointment by phone and hopefully we can find out if my insurance will pay for a fresh or a frozen cycle asap.  Our insurance never covered anything IF before, but it looks like something changed.  CD1 is sometime next week and I don't want to miss starting up again.  I also don't want to get onto the same timeline as my loss so I am aiming to get going long before November, but I'll take what I can get.
      Tomorrow is our 7 year wedding anniversary and our 17 year dating anniversary.  Today, we are cleaning house, packing, and finding a hotel for a couple of days in Lake Tahoe or Reno, NV.  We haven't been as adults and I'm just glad to get out of the area and have fun.
    Siggy Warning BFP/Loss Mentioned
    Me: 30, DH 30 Started TTC 7/2009
    9/2010 SA=Normal 9/10 HSG Dx Both tubes dilated; Rx bilateral salpingectomy & IVF; 9/2010-12/2012 Financial break
    1/2013 Bilateral Salpingectomy 5/2013 Recent SA shows borderline morphology
    5/2013 IVF w/ ICSI #1 6/25/13 ER=11R 9M 9F  6/28/13 3dt of 2 embies (8B & 6A-); no frosties: BFN
    10/2013 IVF w/ ICSI #2 11/12/13 ER= 9R 6M 6F  11/15/13 3dt of 2 embies (8A & 8A) 3 frosties (2 day-5, 1 day-6)
    11/22/13 (7dp3dt) +hpt  11/26/13 (11dp3dt) BFP Beta=141 11/28/13 Beta 2= 372 EDD 8/5/2014
    3/20/14 Fetal Demise 20 wks F/L 17 wks D&E attempted 3/21/14 & 3/22/14 Born Still 3/23/14  I love you B.T.
    "Sometimes you try your hardestbut things don't work out the way you want them to." –Nani (Lilo & Stitch)
    “All I can say is, it's a sort of kinship, as though there is a family tree of grief. On this branch, the lost children, on this the suicided parents, here the beloved mentally ill siblings. When something terrible happens, you discover all of the sudden that you have a new set of relatives, people with whom you can speak in the shorthand of cousins.” ― Elizabeth McCracken
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    8/2014 FET 8/7/14 Transferred 1 5-day blast (4AA): BFN
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    TTCAL September Siggy Challenge:  Animals in Clothing

    Will add soon

    **All AL/AIF Welcome**
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  • Hi!  :-h  Thanks for the check in.
    Nothing too interesting this week.  Like, really I just sat here for a good 2 minutes trying to think of something interesting.  But  look at this recipe!
    brown butter sea salt chocolate chip cookies

    https://www.rusticbrooklyn.com/2013/09/21/brown-butter-sea-salt-chocolate-chip-cookies/

    I've made these multiple times due to popular demand, and make sure to be patient when browning the butter, sooooo worth it!

    Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011,  TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
    BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
    Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
    Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC!  Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case.       Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal.  Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities.  Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!

    BFP #3 December 11, 2014!  Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!

            Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15 :)

    ***Everybody Welcomed***  :)  

    EDD 8/21/2015 Team Green!

    IAmPregnant Tickerrainbows                

     photo Multiple4_zps436a50cc.jpg photo April3_zps882432ab.jpg August 2 

    August 2015 Siggy Challenge: Favorite mean girl from a movie or show:  Kathy Bates in "Misery"

  • Hi August ladies!  I had an AWESOME day at school today and I just am in a great mood overall.  I wore my remembrance necklace for my angels yesterday and really felt good wearing it.  I haven't worn it since my last loss in early August and it brought me a lot of peace yesterday wearing it.  I just really need to get through the end of September when my friend is due with her twins and then I think I should be okay through the holidays.  I hope.  It should be around that point that DH and I should start talking about our future family and how we are going to press forward.  It's so overwhelming to think about right now and I'm at a good place at the moment.

    QOTW:  This is my go-to recipe when I don't know what else to do:
    Baked Ranch Parmesan Crusted Chicken  DH loves it, my family loves it, I love it! It's actually happening tonight!!
    "Once you are real, you can't become unreal again.  It lasts for always." ~ The Velveteen Rabbit

    *8.3.13*  mc @ 6-7 weeks {natural mc at 12 weeks}
    *3.14.14*  mc @ 5-6 weeks DnC {blood clotting disorder discovered}
    *8.7.14* mc @ 6 weeks DnC {uterine septum removed March '14)
    *3.17.15* mc @ 7 weeks DnC {genetic testing & meeting with a new RE in Jan '15}
    *8.31.16* mc @ 8 weeks DnC {genetic testing, new medications upon next pregnancy}
    *7.17.16* praying everyday for my rainbow baby {progesterone supplements, blood thinning injections}


  • @LundleBean, GOOD LUCK with RE call and conversation!  And hopefully your insurance situation has changed and things will work out for the best for you and your future! :)
    "Once you are real, you can't become unreal again.  It lasts for always." ~ The Velveteen Rabbit

    *8.3.13*  mc @ 6-7 weeks {natural mc at 12 weeks}
    *3.14.14*  mc @ 5-6 weeks DnC {blood clotting disorder discovered}
    *8.7.14* mc @ 6 weeks DnC {uterine septum removed March '14)
    *3.17.15* mc @ 7 weeks DnC {genetic testing & meeting with a new RE in Jan '15}
    *8.31.16* mc @ 8 weeks DnC {genetic testing, new medications upon next pregnancy}
    *7.17.16* praying everyday for my rainbow baby {progesterone supplements, blood thinning injections}


  • @lundlebean- I really hope your insurance works with you, I can't wait to hear what they say. And HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

    @dawnstar898- I will definitely try those cookies!

    @LiaMadi1- So, so, SO happy to hear you had a great day! I hope you can keep this upbeat perspective all the way through to the new year. Also, I will be trying this chicken next week!

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


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