I am 11 weeks and just our best friends know. We plan on telling our families/friends after our ultrasound at 13w2d, just to make sure all is well. We will not do a FB announcement
Our close friends and family all know, but as of right now we're not planning on doing a FB announcement. I'd like to do a cute Christmas card this year which could also be an announcement for anyone who doesn't already know.
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BFP #1 12/31/13, EDD 09/12/14, MMC Discovered 02/20/14 (10w6d) Est. Loss @ 8-9w, MC 02/22/14
We told some family during Labor Day Weekend to those we saw in person and have been slowly telling people when we see them so our parents know and a few family members and one friend.
We are not doing a formal FB announcement until we know the gender at least so it won't be for awhile until "the world" knows.
We told immediate family at 8 weeks. This past weekend we celebrated my 30th birthday with friends and family at a rental home in the "country" of Connecticut, so when people walked in, I kind of just said "hey. welcome to the house. here is your bedroom. oh, also, I am pregnant" It was so anticlimactic. haha. I guess I am just boring, and didn't want to make a big thing out of it.
I work at a college as an academic advisor, and am nervous to tell any of my students. If something happens, it will be so difficult to explain it to 200+ kids. Also, my husband is a wedding photographer, so we are not announcing on FB because we don't want any clients to worry he won't be around when they "need" him. And, we are are in a weird way liking how private it is right now.
Immediate family and a few close friends know. I am waiting for our Harmony test results to announce on FB. But to be honest, I don't really want to announce on FB. Not sure why.
I've told the people that matter. The ones I see and talk to on a regular basis. I see no need to post it on facebook. Other people can find out Iin their own time.
We told some family during Labor Day Weekend to those we saw in person and have been slowly telling people when we see them so our parents know and a few family members and one friend.
We are not doing a formal FB announcement until we know the gender at least so it won't be for awhile until "the world" knows.
Its sex not gender, if you wait til you know the gender you're going to be waiting quite awhile
Making our FB announcement this weekend, if everything goes well with the NT scan this week and we get our Panorama test results in. I'm just over 12 weeks.
I'm 14 weeks and just starting telling immediate family and close friends about 2 weeks ago. I've never been a big fan of facebook announcements (and all the attention) but I'll probably do one in the next couple weeks before some of my more annoying/clueless relatives start posting about it.
We just announced to family on Grandparent's Day, and hubs has told a few friends/random people. Proud Papa Syndrome he says. But we are waiting until after this weekend to tell the "rest of the world." It's my soon to be sister-in-law's bridal shower and I didn't want to ruin it, although she doesn't care I'm still sticking with waiting till after.
We did a really cute Mothers Day announcement a few months ago, but after the loss I'm much more reserved this time. My husband and I have only told a few close friends, but not family and certainly not our daughter as we told her last time and had to explain this to her afterward. i have my 12 week appointment coming up so I will tell them after that.
This is my least favorite part of pregnancy... I don't know why I just don't like telling people, namely our families. A couple of friends know but that's it right now. I made a cute big brother announcement it's just a matter of actually doing it...
We're not making an official announcement. All of our close friends and family know and people at my office are starting to figure it out. Obviously they will know once I pop out a baby but that's about it.
Having 2 previous miscarriages, I have been careful not to tell too many people early. I told my parents and sisters right away and told friends and other family members once our NT scan results went well(12 weeks). I'm telling work today(14 weeks) I'm not really a fan on making a grand FB announcement just because I am still considerate of women having a harder time getting pregnant. Good luck!
Re: Who's still holding out on announcing?
I am 11 weeks and just our best friends know. We plan on telling our families/friends after our ultrasound at 13w2d, just to make sure all is well. We will not do a FB announcement
DD 12.2010
DD 12.2010
We told some family during Labor Day Weekend to those we saw in person and have been slowly telling people when we see them so our parents know and a few family members and one friend.
We are not doing a formal FB announcement until we know the gender at least so it won't be for awhile until "the world" knows.
Me: 29, DH: 30
Married: April, 2011; TTC: July, 2012
Dx: MFI; June '14 IVF w/ ICSI: 11R, 8M, 5F... 1 5dt, beta #1: 213, beta #2: 621, beta #3: 8545!