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Here we go again..(Spoiler Alert-BFP)

SassFrassSassFrass member
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Hello my sweet girls!

First of all, I want to update everyone on my nephew! He is doing well, he finally peed on his own so they aren't worried about his urethra. Much of the swelling has gone down, and it is looking better by the day, however we still won't know much until next week when he goes to the doctor, which is Monday I believe.

Secondly... Thank you ladies for being such a tremendous support group. I love you all! I have learned so much from each of you! Without you, this past year would have been hell.

To end all of the suspense here is my big news...

I decided to test , because DH would not stop pestering me to POAS since I was a week late. I went out and bought cheapies from the dollar store. To my absolute surprise... BFP!! I literally was not expecting it at all! We had sex MAYBE 4 times all month, and 3 days before O at that... I was, and am beyond shocked. We went to the Dr this morning for confirmation. I opted out of a beta, because DH was already stressing out and said that waiting for numbers would stress him even more... I feel pretty confident with this decision, as I haven't been spotting at all, nor have I been cramping. nothing at all like the last two pregnancies. I am taking things a day at a time, and trying not to stress too much... right now I just want to cautiously enjoy the fact that we FINALLY made a baby. All when I had literally given up hope and said F it all I'm done.

Again, I would not of made it here emotionally without you ladies! I am sad to leave, but at the same time I am excited for our new journey... Nothing but THE best of wishes to all of you!

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  • FlamingemuFlamingemu member
    How am I the first person responding to this? Congrats! FX that baby keeps sticking.

    Kid #1 - 09/03/12
    Kid #2 - maybe???
    Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans 
    Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
    #11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
    1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
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  • MoFreeMoFree member
    FX for a happy outcome
    TTC since 3-08 IVF # 1 Dec 2011 BFP DD born at 31 weeks 6-24-12

    FET #1 Dec 2013 BFN

    FET # 2 Feb 2014 BFN

    No more frosties

    IVF #2. September 2014

    PGD yielded 2 perfect 5d blasts

    SET November 9, 2014
    Nov 23, 2014. Another BFN

    Not sure where to go from here.

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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    I'm glad to hear your baby nephew is doing better, congratulations on your BFP. Good luck with everything. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • Bananappeal145Bananappeal145 member
    That's great Sass. I'm really glad to hear both of these pieces of news. HH 9 months :)
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  • FrenchteachermamaFrenchteachermama member
    Best of luck!



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    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


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  • jen4nyjen4ny member
    Congratulations! Good luck and fx that everything works out. 
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    Me: 35, DH: 40
    TTC # 2 since 8/13, Dx: unexplained secondary infertility
    Clomid cycles 7/14 & 8/14= BFN
    IUI # 1 (clomid) 8/27/14= BFN
    IUI # 2 (clomid and follistim) 9/25/14= BFN
    IUI # 3 (femara and follistim) 10/23/14= BFN
    IUI # 4 (femara and follistim) 11/20/14= BFN
    12/12/14- saline sono shows two polyps
    2/15- two uterine polyps and "schmutz" (RE's words) removed
    8/15- surprise BFP! Beta #1 70 Beta #2 150 
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  • Steph1673Steph1673 member
    Best of luck to you.

    Can I ask how the doctor confirmed the pregnancy without a beta? I ask as I sit here in beta hell...
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Steph1673 said:
    Best of luck to you.

    Can I ask how the doctor confirmed the pregnancy without a beta? I ask as I sit here in beta hell...
    Most Drs don't do betas without a reason, so she just POAS at the office. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • sailorgalsailorgal member
    potatocastillo said:
    Most Drs don't do betas without a reason, so she just POAS at the office. 

    Ah interesting, mine does bloodwork if you opt to come in for an appt, otherwise you just come in around 12 weeks. 
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    DS #1: April 2010
    DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    edited September 2014
    sailorgal said:
    potatocastillo said:
    Most Drs don't do betas without a reason, so she just POAS at the office. 

    Ah interesting, mine does bloodwork if you opt to come in for an appt, otherwise you just come in around 12 weeks. 
    First pregnancy my place just did a POAS, but I was already like 11wks at that time anyway. It's weird some places like to see you early like 6wks, other places won't see you until after 10wks, etc. This last pregnancy I called a new OB because my old one shut down- they wanted me to come in at 6wks, I was like DAFAQ FOR? lol 


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    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • lawmom747lawmom747 member
    Congratulations on the BFP!  H&H 9 months.
    Me: 35 DH: 35 - Married 10 years
    PCOS and MF
    Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
    IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
    FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
    FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
    IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
    11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
    12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
    Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15

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  • iheartsippycups2iheartsippycups2 member
    Congrats- h&h 9 months to you
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    My History:
    Lots of BFN's & failed IUI's w/clomid and/or femara
    Finally BFP with femara & t.i.- son born 6/17/2010
    Started TTC again around when DS was 3ish
    Lots of BFN's with femara & t.i & ovidrel
    Tubes clear, S.A came back low motility but high count
    About to switch to injectables w/femara, did one last cycle with just femara & an IUI with ovidrel- stupid motility was fantastic in the sample, but count was 700,000 AFTER wash! Had to sign a paper to even still do IUI- BFFP (big fat freaking positive) Go figure!
    1st Beta 13dpiui 54, 2nd beta 48 hours later 115, 3rd beta 48 hours later 310, 4th beta 72 hours later 1748.
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  • BDevereauxBDevereaux member
    Congratulations!  That's great news!  Good luck!
    - DD born July 2010 -
    - TTC #2 since January 2013 -
    - Clomid cycles February - May 2014, all BFN -
    - HSG July 2014, all clear! -
    - July '14: IUI #1, w/Femara & Ovidrel= BFN -
    - August '14: cycle cancelled -
    - October '14: IUI #2 w/Femara, Bravelle, & Ovidrel : BFP!-
    -November '14:  Discovered MMC @ 6 wk. ultrasound-
    -February '15: IUI #3 w/Femara, Bravelle, & Ovidrel: Success!-
    -Due November 2015-
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  • SassFrassSassFrass member
    yes, what @potatocastillo said, I just poas at the ob office.

    She said unless I start having complications there is really no reason for me to... so we are going with it.

    Thank you all for the well wishes! FX I see you all soon!

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  • phishgirl29phishgirl29 member
    Congrats!!!

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    EDD 6/9 lost one angel at 9w3d :( 
    Baby boy arrived 6/1/13
    FET #1 10/14, BFP -Chemical Pregnancy :(
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  • ScarletBegonia79ScarletBegonia79 member
    Congrats and good luck

    TTC #2 since 8/2012

    IUI #1 April 2014: BFN

    IUI #2 July 2014: BFN

    IUI #3 August 2014: BFN

    BFP: September 15, due May 22nd 2015

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  • lupineauralupineaura member
    Congrats!!
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  • tortuga47tortuga47 member
    Congrats!! H&H 9 months :D
    Sept 2013 started TTC#2 (never got PP period so hoping for the first egg to drop)
    Jan 2014 - diagnosed POF (Premature Ovarian Failure) and told pregnancy not possible without egg donor because my ovaries would never function again with my hormone levels (FSH 136, LH 98.6, AMH <.03, estradiol 0, HCG 7) - using acupuncture, chiropractic care and TCM herbs / supplements
    March 11, 2014 ovulated despite every doctors prognosis!!!
    Oct 2014 hormones (FSH 48, Estradiol 89, HCG 1) not good, but heckuva lot better!

    Nov. 16, 2015 FET of single adopted 5AA embryo - BFN
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