I'm pregnant and *update*

RedCherry1109

Freaking out cause I don't want to be, I feel guilty for even thinking like this. We are both freaking out because we don't know how we're going to make with 4 kids. We are living with my parents right now, we just bought some land and we're saving to get it cleared and put a house on it. I don't know how to tell my parents. I can't stop crying!! Just when I feel like things are going good, something has to happen to set it back. I had just decided to go to school and now I feel like I can't do that!!

Edit: if your friends with me on FB, please don't say anything!

Update will be in comments!!

riansmommie

Hugs and it will all work out . Also Congrats when you are ready for them.

RedCherry1109

I know it will, just found out a few hours ago. Thank you!

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musicalsilver

*BIG GIANT HUGS*

And like riansmommie said - congratulations for when you're ready for them.

RedCherry1109

Thank you ladies. Just need to wait to see what my parents are going to say about it. Plus waiting for DH to come to terms with it because he never want 4 kids and is really upset about it.

LaBellaVida

I know exactly how you feel. I full ugly cried for DAYS, or longer. It's OK to have these feelings. I had them too and felt so guilty. Have all the feels, and tell your parents when you're ready. ((Hugs))

RedCherry1109

Thank you ladies!

GalLaura

Hang in there. Sending you a big hug.

dmlk413

Big hugs. I hope the conversation with your parents goes well and that your DH is supportive.

RedCherry1109

We told our parents today. I told them happy grandparents day and that they were going to have a 5th grandchild. Everyone was actually happy for us. They are the type of people that they say " everything happens for a reason". But DH cried when we told them since he in still in shock!

kelseypie

Hugs to you. I'm glad your parents took the news well. Hoping everything will work out for you guys!

riansmommie

So glad your parents took the news so well! I'm sure that's a huge relief for you. Hang in there momma I'm sure your hubby will come around to it

RedCherry1109

Thank you ladies, y'all have been a huge help to make me feel better$

lioness13

Glad you are feeling better

cynthia2007

Congrats for when you're ready and sending positive vibes your way that it will all work out.

ColieAnn31

I'm late to the game but I wanted to say congratulations for when you are ready for them! And I'm a believer of things happen for a reason

megaroo64

So glad the announcement went well. I totally understand the initial shock- so lots of hugs for that!