S/O Say something nice about H (or sign.other)

huzzahuzza

After reading about many of our issues with our partners in this parenting game, I think it would be helpful to say something nice about them.  Maybe a small step in the right direction? 

(After all, I have completed one quarter of my masters in school counseling so I am an expert now )

huzzahuzza

DH is a wonderful father and very supportive of all the things I do.  I have been extremely busy this week and it has been 3 weeks since we've had sex but he's there for me and totally supportive.  

MamaMD

My H does a ton around the house - all yard/house maintenance, all the cooking, emptying/taking out the trash, most day-to-day cleaning (we have a cleaning lady once a month for the major stuff), most car maintenance.

He can (and will) research the sh*t out of anything - what carseat to buy, what contractor to hire, what hotel to stay at etc etc.

He is not afraid to make awkward calls, demand that refund, better deal, extra perk etc.

He is super supportive of my career and what I need to do to further it.

He's not bad to look at either!

@huzzahuzza Thanks!  It was nice to think about my H's good qualities for a change!

bumpuser3155624

He is an amazing dad. Loves his lil girl so much.

Dh is also a great husband. Good listener and advice giver when needed. Not sure what I would do without him!

caden1206

My SO has really been working hard to be a better partner. His communication is much better and he makes me feel.special. He has always been.a great partner, but over the last few months he has really worked on being the whole package. I am pretty lucky.

It also doesn't hurt that he just dropped a shit ton of money on ring tonight. We are officially getting married! Hopefully now people will stop pestering us about our unconventional ways.

c-elizabethf

Dh is my best friend, it sounds corny but he really is. He knows how to make me laugh no matter what mood I'm in and he knows what to say to cheer me up. And he is such a wonderful husband and father, he accepts me for everything I am and listens to me even when I ramble on like a crazy person lol. I'm truly blessed to have a husband like him. He does so much for dd and I and I'm so thankful for everything he does. I honestly don't know what I would do without him. :x

emmy236

Two days ago I would of had a ton of nice things to say. After one epically stupid thing (mainly his buddy's fault but he isn't here for me to scream at) I'm just trying to not rip him a new one.

....trying to be the bigger person......

..... I guess I'm thankful he's tall and can reach things up high.....and he kills bugs in the house

Lolalipsy

My H is the funniest person I've ever known. He makes me laugh at myself especially when I'm being highly strung.

He's very intelligent and learns without effort or work. It's quite frustrating if you're one of those (like me) who has to work at it.

He's incredibly kind and thoughtful. In short he is my measure and makes me want to be a better person.

Angela183

He's a great father. He's my best friend.

CNJ4EVA

My H is very handy and technically/mechanically inclined. He can assemble anything and fix a lot of things, so he's valuable to have around the house.

Personality-wise he's very secure. He tells me he loves me/compliments me in front of his friends. He's romantic, although that's understandably fallen off since LO was born.

He is a great Dad. It's a joy for me to see because the father/daughter relationship can have such a special dynamic, one I didn't have that growing up.

pnutg

My H is very hardworking and always trying to better himself. He honestly loves me, even when I'm unlovable.

He is the only other person who could possibly love C as much as I do.

He's really handsome.

kelseyhh

@caden1206‌, congrats girl! That's so exciting for you guys. Any thoughts about when you'll have the wedding?

About my DH, he's the harder working man I've ever met. His family doesn't have any money, so he worked all through college to pay for his insanely expensive flight training and graduated with hardly any school debt. He's worked himself up the ladder with his airline, getting promotion after promotion to support our family. When he not working, he's gone back to school, so he has tons of class work to do.

He's also super handy. He does all of the work on our cars and house. If he doesn't know how to do something, like install a sprinkler system, he researches it and figures it out.

He's the best father to Emmett. Since he's home with him often while I'm at work, he feels totally comfortable as a parent. He know his schedule, routine, likes/dislikes, etc even better than me sometimes. He is so patient with him. He'll stay up with him all night if he's not feeling well, and never loses his patience. That's something I have never been good at.

As much as we've struggled lately, I'm so lucky to have him!!

caden1206

@kelseyhh‌ I think we will do something small before the baby is due. We, of course love each other and are excited, but one main thing is we trying to time it right with insurance. The plan is for me to just work PRN after the baby comes and my son has to qualify on his insurance. We also need to talk to the Rabbi and see if he will marry us without me converting.

caden1206

His synagogue isn't very Orthodox. If the Rabbi won't marry us, we are pretty sure a specific Cantor will.

We are raising them Jewish, but also exposing them to Christianity. Really we have no hard and fast rules and want our children to decide for themselves in the end.

coffeeandbooks

H is good company, despite our struggles, I still love being with him.

jmevol

H is currently driving us through a horrific rainstorm on our way back from a work trip where I got to bring him and LO along. While I was working he took care of LO all day and didnt complain at all.

I also realized he rarely if ever says no to me. For example, he may have plans for his weekend but if I suggest we go do something different he will drop his plans for me. Makes me feel very spoiled (in a good way). When we find the time to have sex we are pretty good at that too! Haha

telicious2

DH was great last week. I started my third shift hours and where he does not have a job yet, he got up to take care of DS (as planned) while I slept. And I did not have to wake DH to tell him DS was awake either!

littlewest1

He is very smart, very handy and very hard working.  He's also funny and compassionate.  He would do anything in the world to make me or M happy.