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n2ifr- my poor sil

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Im so upset beyond belief for my poor sil.
She's having such a horrible experience! I hate being so helpless and not able to do anything for her.

My nephew lost 7 oz when weighed this morning, he was 8 lbs and like 9 oz when born. The nurse took it upon herself to say "we can't have that, you need to supplement with formula" and basically forced them to bottle feed A. Afterwards the dr made rounds and asked why she formula fed, and she explained what happen, and he said not to again cuz he can lose up to 14 oz and be prefectly fine. THEN
He went to get circumsised, and they freakin cut too much skin and they had to sign papers to put a couple stitches to fix it. My heart hurts so badly :/ I'm so frustrated for them, I can't even imagine how they must be feeling....

I'm sorry ladies, dh just doesn't completely understand why I'm so upset for them, men are wired differently i guess... I think when i go Sunday to take his newborn photos, im doing something extra special. Maybe take them dinner or something, idk. I'm just beside myself.

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  • Bananappeal145Bananappeal145 member
    Oh no! That's horrifying. I'm so sorry your family is dealing with this. Your SIL and her little man are in my thoughts.
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Ughh, I just saw this and your other post. I'm so sorry to hear that this poor little baby has to go through this trauma. I hope he will be ok. So sad. 


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  • GraceyandTroyGraceyandTroy member
    Oh no!  I will be praying for him and your family.  I can't imagine what a terrible experience they're going through.  It should be a happy time, not like this.  
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    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
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    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
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  • FrenchteachermamaFrenchteachermama member
    This is my greatest fear about having a boy (is we are ever lucky enough to have another baby). I am praying for your nephew! Please keep us posted!!



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