Ugh New BMB

AZMagnini14

I just can't get into my new board... !!!!!!! Its not the same. 

riansmommie

I agree @AZMagnini14‌ I only lurk over there and that's only when our board is slow. June13 has spoiled us and I'm not sure dec14 will even come close.

AZMagnini14

@riansmommie I think I'm staying here! They are all either experts and everyone else's opinion is wrong including the doctors. OR they are so far from even knowing what way is up that its scary.....!!  :-h

PC0909

Yep.  My mod got banned.  Fun times.

riansmommie

Spot on @AZMagnini14‌ I roll my eyes hard on some of the advice they hand out over there! Some of it makes me cringe too, I'm no expert but goodness I'm smarter than that!

megaroo64

@PC0909 - I am on that board too!  I have no clue what went down though and I have been trying to sift through posts to piece it all together.  I am pretty much only a lurker over there anyway. 

AZMagnini14

kari5186 said:

Yep.  My mod got banned.  Fun times.

I'm going to need a detailed story on this. Links = awesome.

^^ What she said! 

LaBellaVida

I felt the same at first. I'm into my new bmb now though.
I just don't click on the threads that are repeat stuff.

I'm over there more then I'm here now.

WasNotWas

I wish I had a new board to yell at. Since I stopped posting on Parenting I have no where to put my crazy feels!

LaBellaVida

@WasNotWas‌

How come you stopped posting on parenting? I will lurk there, I get a kick out of them, but it's too high speed for me.

You can always come post over in Ja15. Some crazies have left, so not much going on.
I did see you over there one day though, along with a fellow June 13 bumpie.

WasNotWas

@LaBellaVida‌ I was pretty shaken up with all the Delores drama and when Mabel left I didn't have much reason to stay. I still keep in touch with the friends I made there though!

@CL8badB‌ I just love yelling at dumb people! And J13 doesn't indulge me in that pleasure I did make someone feel dumb for using the r word at work yesterday which made me feel like a BAMF

LaBellaVida

I clearly don't lurk enough over there. I have no idea what you're taking about.

Come pretend to be a fellow Ja15 and put some people in their place.

Purley for my enjoyment though.

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@WasNotWas‌ Alter ego time!!! Be a sneaky J13 bee and start drama. :bz

WasNotWas

I draw the line at yelling at myself

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megaroo64

majwv8 said:

I still want to know what happened to that mod! I went over there to do some lurking, but couldn't piece it together..

I am actually ON that board - though I wouldn't consider myself a regular at all - and I am still having trouble piecing it all together!!!  

PC0909

megaroo64 said:

@PC0909 - I am on that board too!  I have no clue what went down though and I have been trying to sift through posts to piece it all together.  I am pretty much only a lurker over there anyway. 

I'm also a major lurker.  I usually only post on the GD thread so I'm not sure what happened.  All I know is she's having her baby through a surrogate in India and she was pretty strict.  From what I understand something went down on the FFFC thread last week.

megaroo64

PC0909 said:

megaroo64 said:

@PC0909 - I am on that board too!  I have no clue what went down though and I have been trying to sift through posts to piece it all together.  I am pretty much only a lurker over there anyway. 

I'm also a major lurker.  I usually only post on the GD thread so I'm not sure what happened.  All I know is she's having her baby through a surrogate in India and she was pretty strict.  From what I understand something went down on the FFFC thread last week.

Yeah - I read through a lot of that thread.    I hear that there was a PM suggesting that there be a second mod and I guess exposing on a board what was said in a PM is against the TOU??  Seems like a banning was a little harsh though... which makes me think I missed something...

WasNotWas

libberluru said:

I have dumb people you can yell at @WasNotWas‌ I was wondering about the parenting thing. I have been lurking over there bc of the big brother thread and never see you comment or lovetit. I must have missed all that drama.

and @labellavida I hate vague bumping so I will give you some deets, the bumpie known as missyishere is "Delores" and she basically used everyone's secrets to turn people against each other. She was everyone's best friend so that no one would be friends with each other. She got called out for sharing a secret with one group from another group one too many times and then she crossed a line and shared waaayyy too personal of information and facebook and the bump exploded. I was in one of the fb groups that exploded (well, 2 technically) and we were pretty good friends IRL, like I was planning on visiting her...ugh it makes me sick to think about. I'm a big proponent of when someone shows you who they really are you listen, so while she didn't directly violate my trust (that I know of, I didn't exactly tell her secrets), I can't get over that she would willingly hurt friends...

That was way more info than I had planned to share, I may DD later

LaBellaVida

Say what? ??? I've seen her sound. I know her screen name, just not her obviously.

That's crazy!

Was that her AE? Dolores?

Is she still on parenting?

Why doesn't anyone link the good stuff anymore! ?

LaBellaVida

Seriously sounds like she was in middle school still. I can't even imagine grown woman acting that way!

WasNotWas

@LaBellaVida said:

Say what? ??? I've seen her sound. I know her screen name, just not her obviously.

That's crazy!

Was that her AE? Dolores?

Is she still on parenting?

Why doesn't anyone link the good stuff anymore! ?

Her code name is Dolores on Parenting, so if you see that referenced that's who they are talking about. I'm sure she had AEs but never came clean. She deactivated and quit FB for a bit (but she is back on) and quit snapchat. She ultimately did the right thing. I don't think she is a terrible person, she is just a child.

WasNotWas

@Pitchslap said:

@wasnotwas - is missyishere the girl who had the packers icon pic? (I may or may not have lurked a time or two)

It was her in an Iowa football full outfit with pads and helmet

riansmommie

LimaBeanMOM said:

NaChelleBeck said:

melOHdy said:

Also, @Labellavida I'm still skeptical that Stargirl on Jan15 is even pregnant. Her HDBD pic from today looks like she has a 6 pack at around 20 weeks! 

#superlurker

how the hell is she not somewhat showing at 19wks?

and its her third pregnancy!


I had to go see what y'all were talking about and my gut totally says a lying liar who lies!!!! She wasn't getting enough attention about her body on FB so she brought it here to make herself feel good.

WasNotWas

Can y'all link for us on mobile? Plz

riansmommie

So she eats to look pregnant.... Someone please tell her that's just a good baby!

WasNotWas

Are you fucking kidding me?

riansmommie

Go get her @WasNotWas‌

WasNotWas

@riansmommie said:

Go get her @WasNotWas‌

I totally would but on the off chance she is for real I would hate to body shame a pregnant lady


I've lost my edge

WasNotWas

Ugh I'm going through her old posts and I think she might be kind of cool

momofcatan

WasNotWas said:

Ugh I'm going through her old posts and I think she might be kind of cool

Her siggy says she had an "Unasisted waterbirth" for her first kid and her second was "home waterbirth with midwives". That makes me thing she had no medical professional/midwife at her first kid's birth. I can't get behind that.

WasNotWas

@momofcatan said:

WasNotWas said:

Ugh I'm going through her old posts and I think she might be kind of cool

Her siggy says she had an "Unasisted waterbirth" for her first kid and her second was "home waterbirth with midwives". That makes me thing she had no medical professional/midwife at her first kid's birth. I can't get behind that.


Ew yeah...she's just very mouthy which I tend to gravitate to

WasNotWas

And she lost me at her and her sister have a baby product line. I'm trying to find something to actively flame her for!

That statement might be against TOU...

WasNotWas

And the crazy comes out...p2
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/comment/83807453

WasNotWas

Well she's Canadian. That explains it @momofcatan‌

WasNotWas

She's relentless. And I think I have reached max capacity on my stalking so she is free to enjoy her food baby until next time

GraceInCA

I'm in the minority, but the anti-circ zealotry makes me like her even more. Plus, I can't hate on someone for not showing early.  It's just her body type. I work with someone who announced to the office at 26 weeks, and was barely showing even then.  Some people just carry a certain way.

LaBellaVida

melOHdy said:

Also, @Labellavida I'm still skeptical that Stargirl on Jan15 is even pregnant. Her HDBD pic from today looks like she has a 6 pack at around 20 weeks! 

#superlurker

Thank you! I thought the same thing!
Then I saw the second picture, and I'm thinking it's a food baby, and she's pushing out.... Hard.. to create a bump.

Only time will really tell.

LaBellaVida

momofcatan said:

WasNotWas said:

Ugh I'm going through her old posts and I think she might be kind of cool

Her siggy says she had an "Unasisted waterbirth" for her first kid and her second was "home waterbirth with midwives". That makes me thing she had no medical professional/midwife at her first kid's birth. I can't get behind that.


You are right. She didn't have any medical support or attention after her first baby. She choose it that way. She also refused antibiotics with her 2nd due to having group b strep.

WasNotWas

@GraceInCA said:

I'm in the minority, but the anti-circ zealotry makes me like her even more. Plus, I can't hate on someone for not showing early.  It's just her body type. I work with someone who announced to the office at 26 weeks, and was barely showing even then.  Some people just carry a certain way.

You lose me at circ-ing daughters

LaBellaVida

sctiger said:

melOHdy said:

Also, @Labellavida I'm still skeptical that Stargirl on Jan15 is even pregnant. Her HDBD pic from today looks like she has a 6 pack at around 20 weeks! 

#superlurker

Is she the one you wanted to block? I've seen some of her posts and she seems obnoxious.

Yes. I've blocked her, but sometimes I'm read what she says.