Loss

snickersforeveryone

We went in for our nt scan today. I should have been 12 weeks. It looks like the baby stopped growing at 8 weeks. They scheduled my D & C for Thursday.

I think I'm going to bow out for a while, perhaps for good. I haven't felt as comfortable posting here since the whole "catfish" thing. I'm not upset with anyone and I'm not saying that to make anyone feel bad, so please don't. I just feel disconnected and sad. I'll probably lurk every now and then because I really do care about you ladies.

All the best to you all.

Barefoot84

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers your way. I understand your need to bow out for a while, but I really hope you come back. We're here if you need support.

lewispm

Oh girl, I am so sorry! I am at a total loss for words. Take all the time you need, and please, feel free to come here for support. I must have missed the whole "catfish" thing, but I know you are a valued member of this group and you will definitely be missed. My heart breaks for you. Hug your little ones tight and try to focus on your incredible blessings right now. Hugs to you and your little family. I will be including you in my prayers. I am so, so sorry

SallySunrise

Please PM me if you need an ear; you don't have to go through this alone. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers.

Pleione

I am so very sorry for your loss.

lkamenko

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you and your family lots of T&P. You will be missed here. Hope you will come back.

sarahandeddiejune212008

I am so sorry for your loss. Praying that you find peace and comfort during this sad time.

aylafsu88

Hugs! I am so sorry for your loss. We are always here, so stop back in when you are ready.

Tink522

I'm so sorry for your loss. I also hope that you don't leave for good. I understand taking some space but if you need us we are here.

ThePinkSuperhero

I'm so sorry for your loss 

pinkangelmoon

I am so sorry for your loss. Hope you find the comfort you need during this time. Take care.

APendola

I'm sorry for your loss.  I'm also sorry that you don't feel comfortable posting here right now.  This should be a place where we can all feel comfortable posting and getting support from other moms.

Take the time you need.  Big hugs!  

bumpuser1509193

I'm so sorry for your loss.

hokiemama06

Oh man, I am so sorry.  What a roller coaster ride this pregnancy has been.  I will be sending up some prayers for you and your family, especially on Thursday.  Take the time you need, but please feel like you can come back whenever.  I too missed the catfishing, but I know all the support I've received from you over the years has felt genuine.

Hugs.

versed

So sorry for your loss!

nesenotes

I'm so sorry about the loss take care of yourself eaf. Come back when you are ready you are always welcome

julymommy12

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Hope you are doing ok.

C&Csmommy

I am so sorry for your loss! I always looked up to you as a poster and must have missed the whole cat fish thing. I will be praying for you and know you are always welcome here

snickersforeveryone

Thank you everyone for your kind words and for understanding.

snickersforeveryone

@summergirl1211‌
I didn't want to leave with you feeling bad. I really, honest to God, understand why things went down the way they did. I'm not upset with anyone, especially not you. You seem very sweet.

This board was my rock and my solace through a lot of hard times. I'm not forgetting that, and I feel so much love for everyone here. I tried really hard to laugh the catfish thing off. But right now I'm hurting really badly, and it hasn't been that long since the whole fiasco. I can't share that kind of pain with someone who thinks I'm lying...and many people still do.

I'm an over-sharing person by nature, and it was so easy to vent about my struggles here without filtering (ah, the ease of the internet) or considering what people might think. I have no one to blame but myself. Like I said, if I wasn't living it, I sure as hell wouldn't believe it. I wish I didn't have to live it.

Anyway, that got longer than I intended. I just wanted to say that you had every right to be confused/concerned. I don't hold it against you or any of the others. I wish every single one of you nothing but the best. I'll try to check in and see how everyone is doing from time to time.

zyas

I'm really sorry to hear this Totally understandable if you need to leave here for awhile but I do hope you come back. We are here for you. Hugs!!!

lada85

We are here for you Jo matter what. I'm so sorry for your loss.

ashleynaka

So very sorry to hear about your loss. I missed the catfish thing since I am only able to be on once in a while, but just know that 99% of us are genuine and are here for you if you need.