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PehriePehrie member
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Hello! My name is Pehrie; I am 23 and my husband is 24. We lost our first son, named Jack, to an umbilical cord accident at 39 weeks and 3 days on May 1st of 2014. I thought I was in labor, was told otherwise and had to be induced... Although we weren't trying, it seems I am pregnant again. I am already crazy protective over this baby but am completely terrified of losing it too... I say the mantras, but... Well, I am sure you all know how it goes. I suppose I am just looking for support, understanding, and to give myself some small purpose by encouraging others. My dating scan will be on September 8th, and we will also find out how many are in there at that time. I have the strangest and strongest feeling that "it" is a "they". Thank you and may your pregnancies be perfect. :)
"I hate the term 'we're expecting'. Expecting indicates that there could be more than one outcome. To me, that term could be properly finished with any number of things, like, 'We're expecting a baby, but it could be a velociraptor..."



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  • Yaz14Yaz14 member
    Welcome and congrats! I'm so sorry for the loss of Jack. T&Ps that this pregnancy goes very smoothly.

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    Me(24) DH(26)/Married since March 2013
    BFP#1 February 18th 2014/EDD October 27th/MMC discovered at 10w/D&C April 7th 
    BFP#2 July 24th 2014/EDD April 4th 2015/Please be our RAINBOW!
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  • MrsHamon09MrsHamon09 member
    Welcome and congrats!

    Married DH 3/14/09

    TTC Since Jan 2011
    Diagnosed with PCOS Jan 2013
    BFP#1 June 2013/ EDD 2/23/2013 Blighted Ovum confirmed July 18, 2013
    took Cytotec July 20, 2013

    BFP #2 12/28/2013 EDD 9/11/2014 Its A Girl!!! Rebecca Ann!

    Rebecca Ann born 8/31/2014 6lb 1oz 19 inches long 8:55am!!!!


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  • Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    I'm sorry for the loss of your Jack. Congrats on this new pregnancy.

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     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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  • carlsonbaby2014carlsonbaby2014 member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your Jack. Congratulations on this pregnancy and welcome.
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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  • Mel&John2013Mel&John2013 member
    Welcome!
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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    Welcome and congrats! I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. Wishing you a H&H 9 months and beyond.
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    BFP #1 5/20/10 Natural MC at 5w4d 5/28/10
    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
    "Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience."  Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Welcome and congrats! So sorry for the loss of your son jack. Wishing you a Boring 9 months!
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  • luciddreamer106luciddreamer106 member
    I'm sorry for the loss of your Jack.  Welcome to the board and congrats!
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     TTC #1 since March 2011 
    BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12
    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
    BFP #3: EDD 1/27/15 Please be our rainbow! ...Team Green


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  • Denise91980Denise91980 member
    I am so sorry for your loss!

    Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!
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    BFP #1 1/1/11 EDD 9/10/11 dx:no hb DNC on 2/2/11
    BFP #2 12/28/11 natural m/c on 2/6/12   BFP#3 2/16/13 dx:ectopic on 2/27 (given methotrexate) HSG 6/13-all clear BFP#4 11/18/13 natural m/c on 11/23  IVF #1 (Natural IVF Cycle) May 2014- Cycle failed (embryo did not make it to blast) BFP#5-7/26/14 GROW BABY GROW    IT'S A BOY DUE 4/5/15!

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  • DragonBBDragonBB member
    Congratulations! I'm sorry for the loss of your son. I pray you have a H&H pregnancy!
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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    So sorry for the loss of your son Jack. Welcome!

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • BigbonededBigboneded member
    Sorry for your loss, welcome. Keep us posted on the scan, I've got two- would love to see more twin mamas here :-)
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  • heathersf11heathersf11 member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your son Jack. Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!
    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • summerbld2summerbld2 member
    So sorry for your loss! Def in the same boat at you - Saying the mantras but that pgal brain is sometimes hard to overcome! I have a feeling the my it is a they too! I liked how you phrased that. Either way I'm hoping for a healthy and happy outcome! And I'm finding myself crazy protective too! TnPs!
    Met my husband in 2002
    Married my Husband and Best Friend in 2006
    Our precious son born October 2011
    Found out pregnant with #2 in April 2014
    No Heartbeat found May 2014....
    D&E done May 30th 2014
    BFP 8/20/14 - EDD May 1st 2015! :)
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