Just getting prepared in case MC doesnt show for court...
I know many times it is discussed about the little things to add...not around boy/girlfriends for a while, dental, insurance, etc.
My question is, what were the circumstances of your agreements and how did you include? Ive mentioned someto my attorney but I kind of feel like thethey've fallen on deaf ears. How is the boy/girlfriend thing even enforceable? What things are worth fighting over/filing an appeal over?
PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
Re: Agreements
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I have been told the girlfriend/boyfriend this is unenforceable.
Something else worth mentioning, which is a debate I currently have with myself, is that I plan to include a bunch of stuff but when push comes to shove I probably won't want to go through the trouble of asking for his portion unless I have to. Other things to consider:
First car, birthday parties, college, life insurance with e as the beneficiary, daycare/preschool/before and after care when in grade school, medical expenses, extracurricular activities and sports, school supplies, claims on taxes, holidays if he gets visitation (sole legal and sole custody could still allow for visitation I believe), religious school, medical, dental, and vision insurance, vacation time of he is allowed to take her, the ability to speak on the phone/FaceTime/Skype if she gets visits with him (and vice versa). Oh and I was recently told to ask about a clause that says he can't keep bringing you back to court for every little thing cause abusers use that as a tactic. Oh and garnishment a through probation. And also notifying you of where he lives and where LO is staying.
I hope I save this list for myself!!!!
@eg214 first right of refusal is what @freeatlast2014 said. Have it in your back pocket as a consideration because most states (Florida is one) will not give sole legal and physical custody to one parent without evidence that having a relationship with both parents would be a danger to the child. To my knowledge been over state lines the best you can really hope for is full physical with visitation and joint legal (in my research since our arrangement will be across state lines as well). Just make sure you consult with your lawyer about this.
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