TTC After a Loss

~*~*~ August Angels Check-In 8/25/14 ~*~*~

August Mommas

This check-in is for mommas who lost a baby due in the month of August (any year), and any late loss mommas who gave birth and lost their precious angel in August.

New to the check in: Welcome. I'm so sorry you find yourself here but hope you find the love and support you need from the amazing women on TTCAL. Tell us a bit about yourself, where you are in the TTCAL process, and don't forget to include your August EDD or birth date.

Current members: Let me know if you have any updates to the information below, or if you get a BFP please send me a PM with along with your EDD!

For everyone: How are you lovely ladies doing this week? Where are you in the TTCAL process this week? Any appointments coming up?

If you don't have a special message below, it just means you weren't able to check in last week or haven't checked in for a while. So, let us know what's up with you TTC and otherwise so I can include it next week!

The List:

LiaMadi1: EDD 8/3/13 and 8/7/14

sfazar: EDD 8/4/14

Lundlebean: EDD 8/5/14

katib77: EDD 8/7/14

NoeliaV: EDD 8/23/14  

Dawnstar898: EDD 8/25/14

Mara005: EDD 8/27/14


@LiaMadi1:

@katib77:

@NoeliaV:

@sfazar:

@lundlebean:

@Dawnstar898:

Updates of the TTC or life in general kind? Special ((hugs)) to Dawnstar898 today <3


QOTW: What is your current beauty or makeup obsession?





"Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
**All After a Loss Welcome**
BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
 

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Re: ~*~*~ August Angels Check-In 8/25/14 ~*~*~

  • I guess I will get the ball rolling! Thank you for the check-in @mara005.  How are you doing this week?  Have you and your DH had any new thoughts regarding your decisions?

    @NoeliaV: Did you call a nurse/ doc to ask about your concerns? 

    I am right now waiting to O (I've been feeling like it's going to happen for a week! I know I need to start temping). My appt to see an RE is on Thursday. I am really nervous--I have been for the past weeks.  I think that my DH can come with me, and he's a doctor, so he should help me get real answers to my questions and to understand what the doctor says.

    I'm working right now on a paper for a conference in Istanbul in 2 weeks, and I'm very excited about that! My grandma will be my travel companion.

    As far as beauty products: I love DevaCurl Gel to make my wavy hair manageably curly and I have this orange blossom scent--not really a perfume but kind of a water. It smells amazing!

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

    Pregnancy Ticker
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  • @sfazar Good luck on Thursday!
    My FET cycle failed miserably, and I am trying to figure out if I have IF coverage to help me cycle again this year.  (I never did before, but the terminology on my insurance has changed and I may actually get some help.)
    Sorry, not much to add.  I feel like work and figuring out my next cycle are my life right now.


    Siggy Warning BFP/Loss Mentioned
    Me: 30, DH 30 Started TTC 7/2009
    9/2010 SA=Normal 9/10 HSG Dx Both tubes dilated; Rx bilateral salpingectomy & IVF; 9/2010-12/2012 Financial break
    1/2013 Bilateral Salpingectomy 5/2013 Recent SA shows borderline morphology
    5/2013 IVF w/ ICSI #1 6/25/13 ER=11R 9M 9F  6/28/13 3dt of 2 embies (8B & 6A-); no frosties: BFN
    10/2013 IVF w/ ICSI #2 11/12/13 ER= 9R 6M 6F  11/15/13 3dt of 2 embies (8A & 8A) 3 frosties (2 day-5, 1 day-6)
    11/22/13 (7dp3dt) +hpt  11/26/13 (11dp3dt) BFP Beta=141 11/28/13 Beta 2= 372 EDD 8/5/2014
    3/20/14 Fetal Demise 20 wks F/L 17 wks D&E attempted 3/21/14 & 3/22/14 Born Still 3/23/14  I love you B.T.
    "Sometimes you try your hardestbut things don't work out the way you want them to." –Nani (Lilo & Stitch)
    “All I can say is, it's a sort of kinship, as though there is a family tree of grief. On this branch, the lost children, on this the suicided parents, here the beloved mentally ill siblings. When something terrible happens, you discover all of the sudden that you have a new set of relatives, people with whom you can speak in the shorthand of cousins.” ― Elizabeth McCracken
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    8/2014 FET 8/7/14 Transferred 1 5-day blast (4AA): BFN
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    TTCAL September Siggy Challenge:  Animals in Clothing

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    **All AL/AIF Welcome**
  • @LundleBean I'm so very sorry about your disappointment.  Huge hugs to you.  I hope that your insurance company will be cooperative and help you get what your need. 

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Mega hugs @Dawnstar898.  You are in my thoughts.

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • dawnstar898dawnstar898 member
    edited August 2014
    Thank you @mara005 for the check in, I hope you are doing well.  Take special care of yourself tomorrow (((hugs)))
    @sfazar I hope you O soon!  Istanbul sounds exciting, I love traveling.
    (((hugs))) @LundleBean, I am so sorry your FET failed.
    Lots of loves and hugs to anyone who needs them this week!

    Yesterday was a beautiful day spent at the beach with DH.  It was awesome and so relaxing.  Definitely kept my mind off things.  Right now I'm about 12 DPO and just holding off testing the best I can.  My past BFPs never showed up until 15 DPO so I figure it's not worth testing yet.

    I am not a huge beauty product fanatic.  The one thing I HAVE to have is Oil of Olay.  My mom has used it for 40+ years, she's 63 years old and not one wrinkle!  So I've been using it religiously since I was around 18 or 19.  Plus it has SPF in it too!

    Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011,  TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
    BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
    Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
    Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC!  Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case.       Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal.  Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities.  Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!

    BFP #3 December 11, 2014!  Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!

            Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15 :)

    ***Everybody Welcomed***  :)  

    EDD 8/21/2015 Team Green!

    IAmPregnant Tickerrainbows                

     photo Multiple4_zps436a50cc.jpg photo April3_zps882432ab.jpg August 2 

    August 2015 Siggy Challenge: Favorite mean girl from a movie or show:  Kathy Bates in "Misery"

  • Thank you for the check-in @mara005 ! I'm sending you hugs for tomorrow, love.

    @sfazar No, I hadn't yet. I thought we would finish this cycle and then maybe call. I hadn't even brought it up to DH yet, although I suspect he would be supportive either way. FX for a good RE visit for you!

    @lundlebean I am so sorry, love :( ((( hugs )))

    @dawnstar898 FX FX FX that you make it to CD15 and beyond. It sounds like you made a lovely day of your EDD date. <3

    AFM: 10dpo with terrible timing and some pink spotting on CD8 and CD9, which I've never had so early before. Last cycle, I had pink spotting at CD10, and previously I only had occasional brown spotting around CD11+. DH was all "maybe you're pregnant" and I couldn't muster any enthusiasm, I was just like " :: shrug :: maybe." I don't want to test until 14dpo because BFNs put me in a horrible mood :P

    QOTW: Um, dry shampoo? Facial cleaning wipes? Sign me up for anything that saves time/cuts out a step, at the moment. I used to spend buckets of money at Sephora, but now, not so much.


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Afternoon ladies, sorry I've been so busy the past couple days.

    @sfazar- two days until your appointment, eek!!! And a conference in Istanbul?!? Wow so exciting!

    @Lundlebean- ((hugs)) sorry for this cycle and I hope you can figure out this insurance issue.

    @NoeliaV- FX this is your cycle. I know what you mean about BFNs, that's one of the reasons why I don't test early.

    @dawnstar898- ((hugs)) sounds like you had a nice day. I hope this is your cycle of a bfp!

    AFM: I'm in a bit of a funk about my EDD tomorrow, trying to figure out what to do, what I want to post on FB about it and hoping I can make it through the day without crying to much.
    I'm still waiting O, gah! I'm on CD 21, I can only imagine that the stress of my hsg has delayed it. But we are at a stand still until AF gets here.

    QOTW: I love chapstick, I can't have enough of them. All different brands and flavors. But honestly the bets one for healing chapped lips is Carmex. Smells awful but you get use to it.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • Hi ladies,
    (((Hugs))) to you @mara005‌ for tomorrow's edd.
    @dawnstar898‌ - glad you were able to get a day away for your edd just you and yh.
    @LundleBean‌ - good luck with your insurance covering another cycle. Sorry about your FET.
    @sfazar‌ -Istanbul? How awesome!
    @NoeliaV‌ - Fx for you this cycle


    AFM now that we're a few months into child free and past our last edd and doing well emotionally, I find myself here less and less. You ladies have helped tremendously so please know while I probably won't be checking in here much at all I hope you all find your rainbow. As I distance myself from this chapter of my life I will post less and less and this check in is my first to drop simply because I've successfully made it through my edd. Much love to you fellow Aug ladies. <3

    TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
    IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
    IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
    IVF w/ICSI Oct. 2, 2012 - 13R, 11M, 7F, 1 frozen blast 4BB grade - - - FET Nov 15, 2013
    BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
    Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
    JUNE 2014 IVF#2;  5R, 2M, 1F Three day transfer 6/7.  Beta 6/18 - BFN
    Child Free Now?
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  • Hugs to you @katib77 and thank you for the crossed fingers. I wish you nothing but the best 

    >:D<

    And thank you and hugs @mara005 . And FX that you get O soon!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Much love to you@katib77. I hope that this new chapter will be a beautiful one for you and DH. Thank you for your advice and guidance in the few weeks that we have crossed paths here. I hope you continue with your photography--your photos are beautiful!

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @katib77- I'll miss you checking in with us, but I know that it needs to happen. I wish you well for your and your husband <3 Please visit any time you want.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


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