Baby Daddy Drama

MommyOfAMiracle

@primrosemama - I love reading your comments.

SnowWhiteandBaby

I like that people that are not even pregnant are hanging out in these chat rooms.. If your baby is over the age of 1 how about you stop hanging out in pregnancy chat rooms and spend time with your baby or your spouse. It seems immature, a term that has been thrown around loosely, and somewhat neglectful. And as far as the mental stability thing goes that is interestingly enough my line of work and I tend to notice people that like to consistently point out perceived mental illness is others stems from their own insecurity of their own mental state. A person who is empathetic and genuinely cares for another human would realize that a public forum is not the place to express these concerns especially if they wanted the person the receive help. @PrimRoseMama‌ I did have a conversation with my baby's father and everything has worked out the day after my original post. I have no qualms with moving in with him and I will still have a job just not one that keeps me working for 10 hours a day 5 days a week. Whatever you think of my situation my child will still have a loving home regardless of if the father and I end up married or not. Thanks for all the responses to this post. It has convinced me that it is better to speak to people that actually know things on the matter then to throw out questions to a random audience, some of which clearly are miserable people. Thank you @firsttimeaussiemum‌ for your response.

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BrandiJMatteson

As I read your first "question" and saw all of the nasty comments, I was almost speechless! I understood what you meant right away! I have been with my boyfriend/fiancé for 10 years now and have a 5 year old daughter with him and one on the way! I know exactly how you're feeling! I felt that way when I was pregnant with my daughter, Paytten.. I think it's normal.. And I also think you're having a girl!! (I don't feel that way with this pregnancy, I'm almost 19 weeks.. And I think this one is a boy!)

Meery82

SnowWhiteandBaby said:

I like that people that are not even pregnant are hanging out in these chat rooms.. If your baby is over the age of 1 how about you stop hanging out in pregnancy chat rooms and spend time with your baby or your spouse. It seems immature, a term that has been thrown around loosely, and somewhat neglectful. And as far as the mental stability thing goes that is interestingly enough my line of work and I tend to notice people that like to consistently point out perceived mental illness is others stems from their own insecurity of their own mental state. A person who is empathetic and genuinely cares for another human would realize that a public forum is not the place to express these concerns especially if they wanted the person the receive help. @PrimRoseMama‌ I did have a conversation with my baby's father and everything has worked out the day after my original post. I have no qualms with moving in with him and I will still have a job just not one that keeps me working for 10 hours a day 5 days a week. Whatever you think of my situation my child will still have a loving home regardless of if the father and I end up married or not. Thanks for all the responses to this post. It has convinced me that it is better to speak to people that actually know things on the matter then to throw out questions to a random audience, some of which clearly are miserable people. Thank you @firsttimeaussiemum‌ for your response.

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Meery82

BrandiJMatteson said:

As I read your first "question" and saw all of the nasty comments, I was almost speechless! I understood what you meant right away! I have been with my boyfriend/fiancé for 10 years now and have a 5 year old daughter with him and one on the way! I know exactly how you're feeling! I felt that way when I was pregnant with my daughter, Paytten.. I think it's normal.. And I also think you're having a girl!! (I don't feel that way with this pregnancy, I'm almost 19 weeks.. And I think this one is a boy!)

I think this deserves one, too...  )

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PrimRoseMama

please show me, @SnowWhiteandBaby‌ , where we have to have an occupied uterus to post anywhere?

SnowWhiteandBaby said:

I like that people that are not even pregnant are hanging out in these chat rooms.. If your baby is over the age of 1 how about you stop hanging out in pregnancy chat rooms and spend time with your baby or your spouse. It seems immature, a term that has been thrown around loosely, and somewhat neglectful.

Lo-fucking-L. Ok, I really appreciate you trying to tell me how I should be living my life. Thank you! As luck would have it we just got back from French Story Time at the library, & some fun at the splash pad! My husband is asleep & the kids are too. Do I have your permission to post anywhere I want on a public message board NOW? #eyeroll
Please explain how it's neglectful to allow kids time to play/draw/whatever on their own without me hovering? During the week I bump mainly in nap jail (baby on the boob) or after my chores are done. Please call CPS!

SnowWhiteandBaby said:

And as far as the mental stability thing goes that is interestingly enough my line of work and I tend to notice people that like to consistently point out perceived mental illness is others stems from their own insecurity of their own mental state. A person who is empathetic and genuinely cares for another human would realize that a public forum is not the place to express these concerns especially if they wanted the person the receive help.
Wait, what? Expressing the genuine belief that you could benefit from speaking to a real therapist is in no way wrong. You really sound like you could use help no lie. I'm perfectly secure & mentally healthy. That's how I'm able to tell you need help. Seriously.

SnowWhiteandBaby said:

I did have a conversation with my baby's father and everything has worked out the day after my original post. I have no qualms with moving in with him and I will still have a job just not one that keeps me working for 10 hours a day 5 days a week. Whatever you think of my situation my child will still have a loving home regardless of if the father and I end up married or not. Thanks for all the responses to this post. It has convinced me that it is better to speak to people that actually know things on the matter then to throw out questions to a random audience, some of which clearly are miserable people.

Please explained how a happily married mother of two beautiful babies is miserable? Please use your "professional" skills in your "field" to explain to me why you think that. You asked me if I felt the same way you did. I didn't & explained why. Just because I disagree & think your situation is jacked up doesn't make me miserable. Talk about projection!

I call BS on your talk & everything being honky dory. I think that's a crock of shit.

Thank you @firsttimeaussiemum‌ for your response.

PrimRoseMama

wickedsugar said:

Uhh, @SnowWhiteandBaby can you please stop blowing up the Mod Queue with your false flags.

@wickedsugar‌ : oh that sucks for the mods! Nothing said here violates TOU @snowwhiteandbaby .

I'm stick waiting for you to tell me how I should parent. :::giggle snort:::

PrimRoseMama

Also, the report feature doesn't alert us to who is reporting anymore. That makes me sad. :P

PrimRoseMama

WashingtonQueen

kyliedaniellexx said:

One day people will figure out the 'report for abuse' button isn't a 'dislike' button, right?

Isn't false flagging still against TOU and grounds for ban?

Well, let's just say that 23 false flags isn't a good thing.

WashingtonQueen

NariaDreaming said:

WashingtonQueen said:

kyliedaniellexx said:

One day people will figure out the 'report for abuse' button isn't a 'dislike' button, right?

Isn't false flagging still against TOU and grounds for ban?

Well, let's just say that 23 false flags isn't a good thing.

I think I love you WQ

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allrightmeow

kyliedaniellexx said:

I like how drama llama OP is now lurking instead of forming a coherent response. 

Then again, I don't think coherence is her strong suit... 

LOL @ drama llama!  There's a couple of gimme pigs around here to.  We should capture them and build a zoo.  

firsttimeaussiemum

Lol @SnowWhiteandBaby‌ is "immature"? Look at how the rest of you are acting

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firsttimeaussiemum

Haha lol. You must be quite board with your life.

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firsttimeaussiemum

I'm starting to wonder how old you actually are. You kind of act like your 15

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firsttimeaussiemum

Well that answers my question :-bd

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thejucheidea

BrandiJMatteson said:  Paytten.. 

... paytten.

ArgyleBride

thejucheidea said:

BrandiJMatteson said:

 Paytten.. 

... paytten.

No making fun of kids!  That includes their names imo.

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PrimRoseMama

ArgyleBride said:

thejucheidea said:

BrandiJMatteson said:

 Paytten.. 

... paytten.

No making fun of kids!  That includes their names imo.

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Holy shit I thought it was a typo?!