DS is 10 months old and up until now under the care of my MIL when DH and I are at work 5 days a week. We've just enrolled him in daycare part time (2 days a week) primarily to give him some exposure to new people and kids his age as opposed to all day grandma/grandpa. Selfishly, this will also allow me to work from home two days a week and pick-up/drop-off DS and get to spend more time with him than the typical 1-1.5 hours I lose each way on commuting. Also, there has been a lot of tension between me and the ILs as a result of our setup and I think space will do everyone some good.
So yesterday I took him to the daycare for a playdate where they allow the parents and children to spend an hour or two at the facility, interact with the kids and caregivers, etc. I was encouraged to leave the area for a little while to see how DS would react. I expected him to be upset, but he was WAILING non stop until I returned to the room about 20 minutes later. The experience was emotionally draining, disheartening, and has me really worried how he'll acclimate once he goes there on his first day in a week. Since he is only there two days a week I expect it'll take him a little longer to adjust. DH is already talking about pulling him, but I want to give him time.
In your experiences, how long did it take your little ones to adjust? How old were they when they started? Were they part time or full time? Essentially I'm looking for some (realistic) encouragement to stick with it Thanks!!
Re: Daycare adjusting
I think it's going to be a lot harder for a baby at this age to get used to the new arrangement now that separation anxiety has set in for a lot of the babies. Maybe ask the DC teacher what they expect for a 10 month-old as far as an adjustment period?
Also, I think the fact that he is only part-time is only going to make the transition period longer. Does he have a lovey you can leave for him at DC?
We had the "play date" one day last week and again this morning. Cried her eyes out. Then she was sooooooo mad at me when I came back in the room after 20 minutes and basically hasn't left my side all day/night. Breaks my heart.