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Can I join? Intro (losses mentioned) *Updated*

cm312rncm312rn member
edited August 2014 in TTC After a Loss
Hi ladies!  I've been lurking around since late last week, I don't think I've introduced myself this go-around.

I'm 30, (almost 31).  DH is 32.  We have been married 3 1/2 years and have been TTC for 2 years.  We had a CP in March of 2013, a molar pg in December 2013 and are currently in limbo with our 3rd loss. As of now we know that it is not a viable pg and hoping that it will pass on its own and that I won't need another D&C.  

My Gyn wouldn't refer me out to a specialist until after my 3rd loss.  So, here I am with loss #3 and we are looking forward to seeing a RE and hopefully get some testing and maybe some answers.  My Gyn has never tested me for anything outside of hCg and progesterone.  Right before we found out we were going to lose #3, I found out my progesterone was low (7.4), but my Gyn didn't do anything about it.  Reading up on stuff, this upsets me.  7.4 is very low!  

That is my story.  I look forward to getting to know you ladies!

Happy Monday!

**Update**
Thanks everyone for the support!  My beta from yesterday was at 2800 (last Monday it was 1090).  I had to go in for an u/s today to determine if it was in the uterus or ectopic to make a plan of action.  

They believe that it is in the uterus and I am scheduled for a D&C tomorrow morning.  I am so nervous.  I've had a D&C before, but I was under general anesthesia, this time I will be (medicated but) awake.  

I'm so sad to be going through another loss, but am grateful for an action plan.  Being in the "limbo" stage definitely put me in a dark and anxious place.

Thanks for all the hugs, thoughts, prayers and FX from before, please keep them coming through the next few days.
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Re: Can I join? Intro (losses mentioned) *Updated*

  • rslh10rslh10 member
    I am so sorry for your losses. I truly hope that you find some answers when you see your RE. Welcome to the board. 
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Hoping you find a good RE and start getting some answers. ((hugs)) welcome to the board.
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    I'm so sorry for all you've been through. I hope you'll find this board to be a supportive place.
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • Km380Km380 member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Good luck with the Re. Welcome to the board

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Welcome.  I'm so sorry for your losses and hope that the testing provides you with some answers and a game plan moving forward.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • cm312rncm312rn member
    Thanks everyone!
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    Sorry for your losses. Welcome.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • jennadesignsjennadesigns member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. I hope you find comfort and support here, as well as some answers from your RE.
    BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
    BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
    BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15

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  • jms627jms627 member
    So sorry for your losses - I hope you get the answers you are seeking!!

    ***Siggy Warning - loss mentioned***

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    ME: 32   DH: 38

    BFP#1 - 7/18/14; EDD 3/23/14; MMC 8/11/14 (passed naturally on 8/17/14)

    BFP#2 - 12/29/14; EDD 9/10/15 *PLEASE BE OUR RAINBOW!*

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  • Tablefor5Tablefor5 member
    So sorry for your losses ((hugs))
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome! I hope you pass everything naturally, and that you get some answers now!
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • lyndz333lyndz333 member
    I'm so sorry for all your losses.
    BFP #1 - 12/7/2012 - EDD 8/14/2013 - DD born 8/17/2013
    BFP #2 - 3/31/2014 - EDD 12/6/2014 - Natural miscarriage on 4/28/2014
    BFP #3 - 8/4/2014 - EDD 4/12/2015 - Chemical Pregnancy discovered on 8/13/2014

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  • CreechMommyCreechMommy member
    So sorry for your losses.  Hopefully you will get some answers with your RE.  Welcome and I hope you find support here. 

    Ashleigh (26) and Darren (26)
    Married 8-10-13
    TTC since February 2014
    BFP #1 4-22-14  EDD 1-1-15
    8w u/s 5-22-14 Baby measuring 6w1d. Heartbeat detected
    Went to Dr. 5-30-14 due to bleeding. Prescribed progesterone
    Went to ER 6-1-14 2:30 AM - diagnosed with incomplete m/c
    6-6-14 natural m/c completed
    10-24-14 BFP #2 EDD 7-6-15 **Please** be our Rainbow 

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  • kittymeowbarkkittymeowbark member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1~  EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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  • mrsjg2013mrsjg2013 member
    I'm so very sorry for your losses.  I've just had my third as well- it's incredibly heartbreaking, but this group has offered me so much comfort and support.  I hope you find this as well.  Best wishes for a natural passing and for some answers from the RE.  Big ((HUGS)) to you.
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  • Campow83Campow83 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses! Seems like the RE is going to be exactly what you need and hoping you get answers!!
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  • negritosmaminegritosmami member
    sorry for your losses.

    ~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
    ~BFP #1 6/2014      EDD 2/11/15
    ~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014  

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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I am very sorry for your losses.  I hope you are able to get in and see an RE soon to get some answers.  ((((HUGS))))
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope you find the support you are looking for here. Hopefully the RE will be able to give you answers soon. Welcome.
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    I'm sorry for your losses. I hope that you can find some answers with your RE.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

    Working on our rainbow!

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