Consider this deleted

bibliojen-2

Sadly, to some, a post seems no more than an invitation for people to skim, one person to mis-read & comment, that person to be quoted repeatedly, and so-forth in a devolution of what started out as an attempt at something positive resulting in off-base negative assessments of the poster's personal character. Since none of the responses seemed to be from anyone who had to deal with a 2nd Trimester appendectomy, I can only deduce those people were trolling message boards hoping for an opportunity to "contribute" what amounts to high levels of negativity and low levels of content. 

BookitBoo

I'm very glad you're ok, that sounds terrifying.

MrsLaLaBug

I'm confused as to why you would search through a multitude of posts on a public Internet forum in the first place... Only to come and shun the entire community for advice no one gave you in the first place? Yeah, ok.

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PrimRoseMama

"But if I'd listened to the most common advice I found among all the message boards, which is in keeping with my usual creed, my appendix would have ended up bursting & putting both mine & my baby's life at risk..."

@jikimbro‌ : Common Sense 101 don't take your medical advice from the internet. You should not attempt to place any potential blame on internet strangers. That's lame & it's ridiculous to try to even hint that we could be liable for giving you our opinion.

Your situation was unique. I'm glad y'all are ok but maybe you should take a break from the internet? The righteous indignation is kind of tired.

Especially since a) I have no idea whoTF you are b) why you are flipping out over what didn't happen.?

Also deleting your original message is pointless because then this whole post just looks whiny & judgmental. What are you hoping to accomplish?

Shame on us?
Don't listen to these [people who act like] fuckers?
Give us the finger?
Cautionary tale?

All I get from this post is pure butthurt from nothing! :-??

PrimRoseMama

jikimbro said:

Sadly, to some, a post seems no more than an invitation for people to skim, one person to mis-read & comment, that person to be quoted repeatedly, and so-forth in a devolution of what started out as an attempt at something positive resulting in off-base negative assessments of the poster's personal character. Since none of the responses seemed to be from anyone who had to deal with a 2nd Trimester appendectomy, I can only deduce those people were trolling message boards hoping for an opportunity to "contribute" what amounts to high levels of negativity and low levels of content. 

What does this even MEAN?!

You are arm-flailing like a butthurt on fire, yo.

motherboy

msspeedymarie said:

You actually looked up responses to other peoples posts, decided we would give you similar advice, and then got mad at us when the advice we didn't give you turned out to be wrong? That's nuts.

This is really well put. OP you didn't ask a question, assumed people's responses, and now you're getting your panties in a twist over it.

By the way, the ONLY reason I clicked on this thread is because of your whiny "consider this thread deleted" title.

Meery82

One of the many reasons one shouldn't ask for medical advice on the Internet. Don't be so fucking stupid.

526SadieSadie

Kimbus22 said:

RedheadBaker said:

I'm stuck on the part where you said you could feel your baby's heartbeat.

Yeah.  That's....special.  And impossible.

I wonder if she's going back to the ER to help her with her case of the butthurtz?

#1 - You're awesome @KimBus22

#2 - Congrats on baby #2!  You only had Joey the last time I was around these parts!

shellybean3788

RedheadBaker said:

I'm stuck on the part where you said you could feel your baby's heartbeat.

I just laughed so hard I'm pretty sure my co-workers are CERTAIN I'm not doing anything on Excel.

schnitz9

@jikimbro I am active on my BMB and lurk many other boards.  Please give me an example of any one saying never to go to the ER?  I have never ever seen anyone say that.  Not even in response to the cramping or bleeding post.  We always say call your OB ASAP.  The only time I have ever seen someone say not to go the ER, is when they said they actually did go to the ER and the ER told them they didn't need to come.  TB is not webmd.  We are not medical professionals.  I come here to get to know the other ladies, laugh and scratch my head at crazy post (yours actually), and ask advice on life experiences. I am sorry for what you have gone through, but taking your frustration out here really isn't helping your cause.

HerHighness

ASmallWonder

Wait, you DIDN'T post?  You took answers to other, completely unrelated questions and deduced that you'd be given the same information and that the (non)advice was...wrong?  I gotta say, in all my years here, I think that's a new way to catch butthurtitis.