Feeling sorry for myself needing to vent!

amstevens78

I know everyone else is probably feeling pretty rough right now too, but I just need to vent! I just started back to work last week I am a teacher. I just turned 33 weeks today. The last few days have been extremely hard. I can't sleep at all, I have been having BH just about every night, my feet and legs are hurting and swelling so bad, I have to pee like every 10 minutes, my back is killing me, and I just can't get comfortable. I know it could be a lot worse, and I know all of you are probably getting really uncomfortable too, but like I said I just needed to vent to someone. Thanks for listening! I am just so over being pregnant.

Sockgnome78

Deep breaths and know that it is almost time to hold your LO on the outside.

amstevens78

Thanks! I keep telling myself that. Like I said just needed to vent. Thanks for listening.

amstevens78

Thank you! I have to work everyday through the week and by the time I get home I am so tired I don't feel like doing anything. My next few weekends are already booked for birthday parties and other family events. I will try to think of something to pamper myself with. Again I am sorry for sounding like a whiny baby, I just needed to talk. I know it will be worth it in the end I just so darn miserable right now. Thanks again for listening.

amstevens78

Thanks! That means a lot! I will just do that!

Leysin97

I'm sorry you're feeling bad. I am a teacher too and I start back tomorrow. The beginning of the year is always rough and being pregnant doesn't make it easier. Try to sit and elevate your feet as much as you can during the day. That might help with the swelling. It's ok to rant especially if it makes you feel better. Hopefully the rest of your week goes by smoothly.

serenbach

Sorry to hear your feeling this way, rest assured you are not alone! I sometimes feel like I'm not coping well and should be glowing and full of energy but I am far from it! I only work 6 hour shifts now and it drains me so much, I know I'm on my feet for 6 hours but I used to be able to work 14.5 hour shifts and night shifts in the first few months now I feel like a sloth!

It will all be work it though- we're nearly there!

cozybluebear

Hang in there!!

Starfish17

With my last pregnancies, I remember feeling totally miserable right around 7 months.  But when I hit 8 months, I actually starting feeling better - I don't know if it was psychological because the end was in sight or what.  But hang in there - it's worth it in the end.  Oh and try support hose for the leg swelling/ pain if you haven't already, and maybe a maternity support belt for the back pain.

mmorga15

I'm a teacher as well and start back next week. I know physically it is going to be exhausting being 8 months pregnant going from not working to working full time (I've already prepared husband for all of the whining that will be taking place). Be easy on yourself, sit as much as possible, and definitely clear some weekend time for yourself. Just remember a few weeks of work and then we will get a good bit of time off with baby  

bennikki

I'm not a teacher, but my SIL is, and she dealt with major swelling in her legs and feet.  She ended up getting a prescription (so insurance would pay for them) for compression socks to help her get through the day on her feet.  They were ugly and made her look like an old lady, but they certainly helped with her swelling and comfort.  I have a desk job, but I can convert it to a standing or siting desk as I need it, and that really helps me stay comfortable throughout the day.

themiss

You're not being whiney! I say all of those things everyday. It's hard, especially as we all get closer to the baby coming, to stay positive and not have days where you just want to melt into nothingness and enjoy some peace and rest and quiet.

Even do something simple when you get home, like take a warm bath. Cuddle up with a cup of tea and a good book. Warm a cloth and put it over your eyes (heavenly!)

amstevens78

Thanks everyone! You have all been so supportive! I feel much better after I got that off my chest.

MuffinMom14

I feel the same way, sister! And I SIT all day at a desk. I don't have to be on my feet teaching. No one told me you'd feel like a 90-year-old woman as soon as 3rd tri starts. I feel lied to.

meggiev123

I have a lot of respect for all you teachers and others that need to be on their feet all day! Hang in there and take it easy when you can!