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Rough Time

pink*sheeppink*sheep member
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I just wanted to say that the way so many of you ladies care and support each other, and to me included is and has been phenomenal.

I do however need to be realistic with myself and to others on here, as I'm not in a position to offer the same support to help others. I'm dealing with my loss a lot differently than I expected, so I will be taking a break from the board.

I thank all of you once again from the bottom of my heart, and pray that we all have happier days, sooner than later.
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  • KS0510KS0510 member
    Take care of yourself, okay? I hope everything is/will be alright.
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  • BethKate2BethKate2 member
    I'm sorry you're having a rough time. Take care of yourself.


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    Sorry things are rough. Take care. We're here when you're ready to come back! ((hugs))
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Be kind to yourself! Big hugs! 
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • mrsjg2013mrsjg2013 member
    Take care.  Big ((HUGS))
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  • uromysuromys member
    (((Hugs))) I'm so sorry that this has been so rough on you. Please remember that you are not alone. I understand your pain and am always here to talk if needed. Never hesitate to check back in or even PM me. I'd e happy to talk. Take care!!!

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • Km380Km380 member
    I'm sorry you're having a rough time. Take care of yourself, we'll be here when you're ready to come back
    Hugs

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • Rocks526Rocks526 member
    Please take care of yourself. We will be here when you are ready.  Feel free to PM me if you need to talk.
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  • eliidaeliida member
    (((hugs)))
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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    It's ok to take a break. (((Hugs))) we will be here when you are ready.

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    edited August 2014
    As Lav17 said, you don't have to step back necessarily because you are in a fragile place right now and don't have as much to give. If you feel stepping back will help you heal, though, we totally understand. It is a really rough thing to go through, one that no one who has not been through it can really understand. We get it. I found that the first month after was the hardest for me, and actually I didn't join this board until around that time, but the support is great to have. Know that we are here for you when you are ready.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • dawnstar898dawnstar898 member
    (((hugs)))  We are here for you whenever you need us!  Take care of yourself.

    Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011,  TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
    BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
    Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
    Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC!  Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case.       Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal.  Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities.  Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!

    BFP #3 December 11, 2014!  Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!

            Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15 :)

    ***Everybody Welcomed***  :)  

    EDD 8/21/2015 Team Green!

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  • Buttercup509Buttercup509 member
    I am so sorry you are having a rough time. Please take care of yourself. (((Hugs)))

    TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 11/22/13 EDD 7/31/14
    MMC 13 weeks - discovered 2/13/14 at 16 weeks - Trisomy 13 - D&C 2/14/14
    BFP #2 10/9/14 EDD 6/22/15
    ~Everyone is welcome~
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  • natalie115natalie115 member
    I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time, please be patient with yourself. I hope we'll see you back here when you're ready.

    Started TTC Nov. 2011 

    1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm sorry you are having a rough time right now. Take all the time you need and come back when you feel ready. (((Hugs)))
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • jennadesignsjennadesigns member
    ((Hugs)). Know that we'll be here for you whenever you need. Best wishes as you start to heal, take all the time you need.
    BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
    BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
    BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15

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  • mrandmrsvmrandmrsv member
    So sorry you're going through a rough time. Take care of yourself and I'm wishing you brighter days ahead. **Big Hugs** 
    TTC since March 2011

    1st BFP - June 5th, 2014 
    (EDD - Feb 8th, 2015)
    MMC/D&C - July 17th, 2014

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  • MrsPhD83MrsPhD83 member
    ((hugs)) take care of yourself
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    Me: 31, DH: 30, Married July 2013
    TTC since March 2014
    BFP#1  5.17.14, EDD 1.26.15, MMC (measuring 6w3d at 8w3d), D&C 6.26.14
    BFP#2  9.19.14, EDD 5.29.15, AF on 9.23.14 CP
    BFP#3  12.17.14, EDD 8.25.15, AF on 12.21.14 CP#2

    Current plan: TTC while waiting for RPL results to come back
    Stalk my ute
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