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♥ ♥ April Mommas Check-in ♥ ♥ 8/11

April Mommas Check-in

Hello my April mommas! How is everyone? ((hugs to those who need them))

This is a check-in for anyone with a loss or EDD in April. Join us and tell us a bit about yourself.

Here are some siggy badges – feel free to use!

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April Mommas:

@sunflwra 4/2/14 Baby boy~

@Poppy7154/9/13 Addie~

@MrsWiseone4/9/14~

@rubysi 4/21/14~

@megrae124/27/14~ On Bump Break

If you become a graduate please PM me! I try to check PgAL, but don't always catch every announcement.

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TTCAL Updates: Anything new to share?

      THE DARK SIDE IT IS

 and GBCB

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BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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~All AL always welcome~

 

 


Re: ♥ ♥ April Mommas Check-in ♥ ♥ 8/11

  • I'll check back in. How's everyone doing? I'm finding myself struggling a little more this time of year. My BFP was 7/31/13 and am reliving the joy of what it felt like to be newly pregnant one year ago. We have an annual kickball fundraiser that we participate in and all I could think of was, I was pregnant last year at this time. I find myself thinking back a lot. I'm trying to focus on the fact that it was a gift to feel so joyous last year, even if it was for only a short time.

    Thanks for the check in @Poppy715‌ I needed it today. I hope you're doing ok.

    Hugs ladies.
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    *I am no longer regularly posting on TB because of the fucked up debacle of Jan 2015 when administrators banned long-term members and mods with no notice and completely dismantled a community full of women who cared about each other.  If you see me posting it's only to give support to a poster who needs it or to post something important enough that I need to say.  I am no longer responding to  anything other than issues that affect people who I care about*
    37 years old, MH is 42
    TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor 
    August 2012 through June 2013:  6 IUIs with clomid and trigger shot, all BFNs
    7/2013, Pregnant! Unmedicated--we were on a treatment break
    8/20/13 no heart beat; 8/23/13 d&c
    3/15/14 IVF #1:  Lupron/Follistim/Menopur; ER 3/10 resulting in four transfer grade blastocysts, transferred one pretty blast and froze the remaining three. BFN. 
    Natural FET in May cancelled because the universe hates me my hormones were not cooperating.
    6/24/14 FET #1: transferred two pretty embryos; BFN   
    8/28/14 FET #2: BFP, ended in Chemical pregnancy

    Done with medical intervention and getting used to the idea of CFNBC.  




    All welcome
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  • @LizBlue I'm so sorry you are having a hard time. I was thinking about my BFP the other day too. it is hard to believe it was 2 years ago. :'( I'm sorry you have such a stark reminder for that timeframe. ((hugs)) hopefully this feeling passes. It can be really difficult during these 'reminder' periods. Thinking of you!

          THE DARK SIDE IT IS

     and GBCB

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    BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

    BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    ~All AL always welcome~

     

     


  • I know I'm not technically part of this check in, but I so feel the same way as both of you @LizBlue‌ and @Poppy715‌. I went in to set some furniture in my classroom today and all I could think about was how I was pregnant when I did this last year. ((((Hugs))) to both of you ladies.

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • kate6214 said:
    I know I'm not technically part of this check in, but I so feel the same way as both of you @LizBlue‌ and @Poppy715‌. I went in to set some furniture in my classroom today and all I could think about was how I was pregnant when I did this last year. ((((Hugs))) to both of you ladies.
    Do you want to be? You are more than welcome to join. I see you had an EDD of 4/26/14. You are totally welcome to hang out here. It's a hard time of year for us all. ((hugs)) ladies.

          THE DARK SIDE IT IS

     and GBCB

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    BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

    BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    ~All AL always welcome~

     

     


  • Hello Ladies,

    @poppy715 Thanks for the check in. How are you?

    @LizBlue I am sorry you are having a rough time. I woke up this morning that a year ago I didn't know my life was about to change its meaning permanately. ((Big hugs))

    @kate6214  ((hugs))

    ASM I am just trying to keep busy in my 2ww. I finally got the floor finished in my greenhouse (a project I ditched last summer when I was too nauseous to look down). My tomatilloes and tomatoes have exploded so I have been looking for recipes.  I just woke up from a 4 hour nap and I am trying to get my lazy ass to the store so I can make something.... but really a pint of ice cream in my freezer is calling to me.
    *** hugs for everyone***

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  • natalie115natalie115 member
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    Hi ladies, is it ok if I join you? My EDD was April 8th 2015. I found out I was pg and miscarried within a week and I'm still kind of reeling from the roller coaster. I just keep thinking about how pregnant I SHOULD be and how I SHOULD be excited and looking forward to my first appt.
    I'm sorry it's such a rough time of year for you all. I can't imagine how I will feel a year from now. I started bleeding on DH's bday so there's no way I'll ever forget the date :(

    Started TTC Nov. 2011 

    1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


  • rubysi said:
    Hello Ladies,

    @poppy715 Thanks for the check in. How are you?
    I'm doing ok. Just hanging out at the end of another 2WW. I can't believe how busy work has kept me. It is good though. Thanks for asking!
    ASM I am just trying to keep busy in my 2ww. I finally got the floor finished in my greenhouse (a project I ditched last summer when I was too nauseous to look down). My tomatilloes and tomatoes have exploded so I have been looking for recipes.  I just woke up from a 4 hour nap and I am trying to get my lazy ass to the store so I can make something.... but really a pint of ice cream in my freezer is calling to me.
    *** hugs for everyone***
    Thinking of you. That's awsome your veggies are going crazy! I didnt' plant a garden this year and I really miss it. I love seeing the progress of everything.
    *****siggy warning******

    Hi ladies, is it ok if I join you? My EDD was April 8th 2015. I found out I was pg and miscarried within a week and I'm still kind of reeling from the roller coaster. I just keep thinking about how pregnant I SHOULD be and how I SHOULD be excited and looking forward to my first appt.
    I'm sorry it's such a rough time of year for you all. I can't imagine how I will feel a year from now. I started bleeding on DH's bday so there's no way I'll ever forget the date :(
    Welcome to April Mommas. I'm so very sorry for your loss and that you are joining us. My EDD was the 9th but back in 2013. (Gosh it feels like so long ago!) It is really hard thinking of what could have been. I still find myself doing that. It's a hard practice to get yourself out of. Please let me know if there's anything you have questions about or ever need to talk. I'm here for you. ((Hugs)) Also, you really don't need a warning for a ticker. It's pretty unnoticeable, the warnings are more for pictures or mentioning your living LO. Thanks for being thoughtful with it though!

          THE DARK SIDE IT IS

     and GBCB

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    BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

    BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    imageimageimageimage
    ~All AL always welcome~

     

     


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