Depressed, BFN

greenwl

Took two tests over the weekend, both negative.  I still haven't started my period, so clearly my cycle is off despite normally being regular.  I admit, I'm pretty depressed today:(

rubysi

(((HUGS)))

blackbird818

Yea BFNs suck. No shocker.

In the future, vents/frustrations belong in the daily Throat Punch thread or cycle questions on the Crazy Train.

Also we have no idea who you are so maybe an intro would be nice and our motto is 'give support to give support'

Poppy715

I get depressed when I get negatives too. We all do.

The TP is your friend.

*Andplusalso you are sad not depressed. Depression is not something that comes and goes when you get a BFN or have a shitty day.

graceanne927

(((hugs))) bfn's are difficult to see.  we all understand here all too well.  post an intro so we can get to know you!  I hope you find much support & encouragement here.

blackbird818

@wickedsugar seriously?? no bueno OP [-X

Poppy715

PetraStonegirl said:

I'd say something, but Wicked has it covered. I'm getting my BH Bingo card ready...

How will you play if she never comes back and responds?!

Poppy715

PetraStonegirl said:

Damn. Good point. Want to share my popcorn?

Always.

buggirl72

OP, I think everyone has about covered why we don't AW BFNs on this board.

I would like to point out to you that you have started only two posts on this board (neither an intro) and both were very AW poor-me posts.  TTCAL is hard and we get that.  Keep in mind that if you are this emotionally jacked up over your BFN, and were having a really bad day 6 days before, you may not be ready to TTC. There is nothing wrong with taking a month or two or more off to emotionally get your head in the right place for this.

You might think about checking out the Newbie Check-in, reading the first post (because I really don't think you have yet) and reading our blog. You might also want to join the Rainbow Sibling check-in on PAL.


And because I must put my two cents in on this topic:
Don't bump up zombie threads on this board or m/c or any board (even if it makes you feel better). The OP gets a notice (which can be incredibly painful to dredge up old feelings after many months) and many people who posted may have graduated and have tickers and pics in their sigs that will cause pain to others. There is nothing wrong with reading zombie threads, just don't add new comments.