Our chosen first name is Lydia. We love the middle name to be pronounced "ah-lease". How would you spell it? We don't want it mistaken for Alice. -Alise? -Alyse? -Aleese?
I have a friend who is Elise, and it's pronounced a lot like you've described, with a little more "eh" sound instead of "ah". So I'd vote for Alise.
Our DD's name is Annelise, and we went back and forth on whether the first e should be an a. But I think we say it so quickly now that now it doesn't really matter a whole lot.
English teacher's perspective (who sees a lot of alternate spellings and also knows something about phonetics): Alise and Alyse come off phonetically as 'ah-liss'. The other phonetic interpretations of these two utilizing the silent 'e' would be 'ah-lice', or possibly 'ah-lize'. Aleese is phonetically 'ah-lease', or possibly 'ah-leez'.
My daughter's middle name is Alyse... said the way you want it pronounced. I got the name/spelling from a girl I used to babysit whose middle name was the same. If you want one of the spellings that you have listed and not Elise, I wouldn't post this Q on the BNB, because they will recommend you to use the original spelling.
Eta that I work with someone whose name is Lyse pronounced "lease'.
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Definitely Elise. I agree Alise looks like a misspelling and will be unfamiliar to most people so is far more likely to be mispronounced (I think I would pronounce it 'ah-lies' like the end of realise). Alyse is ugly to me, and I have no idea how to pronounce it.
Re: How would you spell this name?
Our DD's name is Annelise, and we went back and forth on whether the first e should be an a. But I think we say it so quickly now that now it doesn't really matter a whole lot.
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Alise and Alyse come off phonetically as 'ah-liss'. The other phonetic interpretations of these two utilizing the silent 'e' would be 'ah-lice', or possibly 'ah-lize'.
Aleese is phonetically 'ah-lease', or possibly 'ah-leez'.
Eta that I work with someone whose name is Lyse pronounced "lease'.

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I used to work with an Alice spelled Alyce and everyone mispronounced her name.
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