Nightly Confessions

Poppy715

It's not night here yet but I thought I better get this started. We haven't had some confessions in a while. Let's hear some good stuff! Here's the place to confess your sexploits. ^:)^

rslh10

@HoldingOutHope‌ ditto!

rslh10

Well..........I guess I can speak in a general about what I like/do

We have a few (5) toys. I have a foot fetish (I love my dh's big toe? lol) . I love to "give", and I also like to be uhhh...came on...in multiple places!  )

Don't Judge! 

You guys have to have SOMETHING! @holdingouthope @ktlovess, nothing?! 

paintdadanta

No toys here, but I'm definitely a giver too. My drive has always been annoyingly high and DH's is rather low so I try to get him into the shower with me in order to hook him with some "give" and then move to bed. But I do like when he takes control, guess that's my real adventurous side  

paintdadanta

@CFearsy‌ - I have lingerie like that, but I think it's in the attic now as I got tired of fighting to get it on for it to only last a few minutes. I'm not sure how yours are but anything with more than a few of those little bra type clasps to fasten are a pain, but I am the guilty party that bought them several years ago.

rslh10

CFearsy said:

paintdadanta said:

@CFearsy‌ - I have lingerie like that, but I think it's in the attic now as I got tired of fighting to get it on for it to only last a few minutes. I'm not sure how yours are but anything with more than a few of those little bra type clasps to fasten are a pain, but I am the guilty party that bought them several years ago.

Exactly! I might just accidentally misplace mine the next time we move...does that make me a terrible wife??

Also, we tried the shower thing once. Yeah, once. I totally fell and ripped the shower curtain down with me. I'm completely comfortable with MH but it was still embarrassing! Guess we should buy a house that has a master bath with a fancy seat in the shower.

We're basing our master bathroom remodel on the fact that we like to have sex in the shower ) For ten years, DH and I have showered together almost every single time we shower. Our house now has a shower "stall" so we need to get the move on with the bathroom remodel!

rslh10

Amybunny30 said:

I'm on vacay and lurking... *gets some popcorn* And so that @rslh10‌ doesn't feel as alone... Also a big giver. I think getting oral sex is just okay. We have only one toy but I like it a lot! I always need the real thing to finish though. We like to mix up positions and I encourage hubby to be a little rough. I usually buy lingerie once a year or so and surprise him. It doesn't last long. We aren't acrobats or anything with the positions... The most adventurous I've gotten is the reverse cowgirl which was fun. We have shower sex often... Mostly for his benefit when the urge hits him. I find it awkward but im happy enough to oblige. He loves foreplay generally. Hubby likes to play who can tease who longer and I always lose. Since we have a house to ourselves down here we have been skinny dipping in the pool a lot at night, and I feel like we rekindled our spark. Miss you all!

WHHHAAAAAAT???? It is my ABSOLUTE. ALL. TIME. FAVORITE. EVER. I beg dh for it! Usually I make him finish inside of me once I'm close enough! Thanks for chiming in and making me feel less alone I hope you guys are having a great time!!! PM when you get back lovely!

rslh10

CFearsy said:

rslh10 said:

CFearsy said:

paintdadanta said:

@CFearsy‌ - I have lingerie like that, but I think it's in the attic now as I got tired of fighting to get it on for it to only last a few minutes. I'm not sure how yours are but anything with more than a few of those little bra type clasps to fasten are a pain, but I am the guilty party that bought them several years ago.

Exactly! I might just accidentally misplace mine the next time we move...does that make me a terrible wife??

Also, we tried the shower thing once. Yeah, once. I totally fell and ripped the shower curtain down with me. I'm completely comfortable with MH but it was still embarrassing! Guess we should buy a house that has a master bath with a fancy seat in the shower.

We're basing our master bathroom remodel on the fact that we like to have sex in the shower ) For ten years, DH and I have showered together almost every single time we shower. Our house now has a shower "stall" so we need to get the move on with the bathroom remodel!

WHAT. You win. ^:)^  I can not imagine sharing a shower with DH every day. I love him but I just need to wash all my folds and crevices and lady lumps in private!

bahahaha this made me laugh pretty hard! I guess the best part is that after ten years, we both still get excited to shower together...and can wash our asses in front of each other )

paintdadanta

rslh10 said:

CFearsy said:

paintdadanta said:

@CFearsy‌ - I have lingerie like that, but I think it's in the attic now as I got tired of fighting to get it on for it to only last a few minutes. I'm not sure how yours are but anything with more than a few of those little bra type clasps to fasten are a pain, but I am the guilty party that bought them several years ago.

Exactly! I might just accidentally misplace mine the next time we move...does that make me a terrible wife??

Also, we tried the shower thing once. Yeah, once. I totally fell and ripped the shower curtain down with me. I'm completely comfortable with MH but it was still embarrassing! Guess we should buy a house that has a master bath with a fancy seat in the shower.

We're basing our master bathroom remodel on the fact that we like to have sex in the shower ) For ten years, DH and I have showered together almost every single time we shower. Our house now has a shower "stall" so we need to get the move on with the bathroom remodel!

I love the shower too! Unfortunately, we are currently renting and our master bath if you can call it that is way little - we had to take the bathroom door off the hinges as it was quite literally a pocket bathroom. DH barely fits in the shower either since he has really broad build which can be quite entertaining. I always joke that a seat would be awesome, especially the bench kind! We almost always shower together unless one of us isn't home or asleep.

stinybean

Oh ladies thank you! This thread made me giggle from top to bottom.

I'm jealous of you shower girls. To weigh in on the lingerie convo... I love getting lingerie, unfortunately MH won't let me wear the same thing twice and has outright said that lingerie isn't necessary because he'd rather me naked. I did surprise him with nipple tassels earlier this year and he really loved playing with them... just a suggestion.

Oh and I love couch sex! And that is the most adventurous we've been. We don't have toys.

Thanks a bunch ladies!

Poppy715

I hate shower sex. Ours is small and we can't move much. The water also washes away all the good stuff. I like starting in the shower and moving to the bed for the good stuff.

DH is a giving magician.

Toys are good and can keep things fun, especially during the sex on a schedule weeks.

That is all.

mrandmrsv

This thread was just the pick me up I needed today. Thank you for the giggles ladies!!

My two cents...

I love my toys but shower sex is a little awkward for me as well. Hubby is kind of tall and I'm kind of short...mix that with a slippery floor and I feel like we might be asking for a trip to the ER! I'm sure we could have a great time though if we had one of those fancy showers with a seat in em...  )

LittleMrsW

@ktloves Drunk sex?

DH is a foot taller than me so shower sex isn't really an option unless he picks me up, but I would never risk that!

jennadesigns

Wow, I'm impressed ladies. Apparently I'm totally lame when it comes to sex. We rarely have sex outside of our bed. I guess we just got lazy over the years. In fact, last night my SO was so irritated I didn't want to have sex because it was too hot in our bedroom that he slept on the couch. I guess I've got some work ahead of me!

That being said, we do have a couple of toys that we use on occasion.

uromys

Nice thread ladies! Glad I decided to stopped back in.

I'm jealous of all the shower sex that goes on in here! The height difference between the two of us make that a bit of a challenge as a daily activity. I don't mind a little climbing since the set up in our shower has a bit of a lip on either side make it easy to stand on. Now that I've brought it up though I'll fall.

DH is a giver. I selfishly don't mind. I have to admit though his sex drive is much higher then mine. We are more of a spur of the moment, side of the road, bathroom stall, nightly park raid kind of lovers. Love a sense of thrill for my quickies! Typically that's all I need.
However I am a toy fan!!! @lav17‌ hands down my favorite toy is the 'we vibe 4'. DH and I love it! I've had both the original and the second. The fourth generation is even better!

Great thread ladies! Hope everyone is having a great weekend.

dawnstar898

My DH has this thing with having sex in different states/countries etc.  It's a little game he likes to play.  So when we went on a European cruise we had to make sure we had sex in Venice (obviously) then every Greek Island we went to and every different sea (Adriatic, Ionian, Mediterranean), lol, he's so weird, but it's fun!  We are about the same height so shower sex is great.  I've definitely given him a BJ while he was driving and he's "pleasured" me with his hand in the car as well.  We were on the highway and just had to be careful of the truck drivers who could easily see into the car!

natalie115

I'll play


Both our night stand drawers are full of toys (in our defense we've accumulated them over almost 12 years). Shower sex is a little awkward for us due to a 3ftx3ft shower and an 8 in height difference. In our younger days (ie high school days) we had sex everywhere including both our schools. DS was conceived on the hood of our car.




I have to be really in the mood to enjoy "giving" but I love foreplay. I love when DH is a little rough and a little "take charge". I'm a dirty talker too...


Now that you know my sexual preferences don't judge

merc5411

I'm a little late to the party, but I'll jump in. We have a swing that we love. We screwed the bolt into the ceiling of our bedroom. We take it down when we aren't using it. We're getting ready to sell our house and had friends of my dh's parents, who are realtors, come check out our house. When we got to the bedroom, they noticed the hook and asked us what it was for. I turned bright red and my dh mumbled something, but they knew it was for something "weird". I wanted the floor to swallow me up.

Mills0401

lav17 said:

@momentomori, "herbal refreshment" LOL  ) My friend swears by it, but we've never done it... maybe it should go on the list of things to try

I have to agree with @momentomori‌ the best I've had with my DH is after "herbal refreshment" it really made me more in tuned with everything.