Is too much sex okay

HollyNewling

So this is my 3rd pregnancy and 3 rd boy. Well with my last 2 boys I HATED sex. But this pregnancy (I'm 24 weeks) I want sex all the time! It feels so great. My DH and I also like things a little rough (not to the point where it hurts or leaves marks)and we also take our time so sex is a hour long from start to finish. And also we will have sex a few times a day and take a few days break. Is it safe or could we hurt the baby? We do doggie style like recommended but I still can and like to be on top at times. Sorry if anyone is offended or feels it's tmi but I'm happily married and we both have always really enjoyed our sex life. It's only between us and we've grown into being able to get more and more kinky over the years. It's special to us. My DH says I love my freak of a wife in bed but love that it's between us and I'm a mother and wife outside of our bed! Lol

hjenni

I've always heard you can have as much sex as you want unless your doctor says otherwise :-).

rinaealy

You go girl! My doc said sex is fine. He'll I'm out of town away from my DH and after reading this post I can't wait to jump his bones when I get home lol!

absolutelymaybe

Show off.

minibean16

I agree with @absolutelymaybe‌ and Michelle Tanner. The only immediate risk (unless you're bleeding or cramping) is that an entire board of undersexed women will hunt you down and attack you out of jealousy.

Maelara

I'm sorry but you've barely posted before and you're asking highly intimate questions that quiet frankly, you need to be asking your doctor. We don't know you or your history so we don't know if what you're doing is safe. If you guys want to have lots of sex, go crazy! But please don't ask us medical questions.

NunyaBennis

I'm sorry ... What is this "too much" sex of which you speak :-/

HollyNewling

Thanks to all the kind replys.sorry I don't want to make anybody jealous... Trust me with my other 2 o sex was unheard of...I swore I was having a girl cause this pregnancy is so different than w/ my 2 boys. My OB says it's fine as long as it doesn't hurt. So I will keep rocking it! Lol

HollyNewling

And to the comment about posting a very intamte question. Um I thought this was a board about pregnancy? How did we all get pregnant? By having sex! I don't feel it's wrong that I have a great sex life wi/ my HUSBAND also we are Cathloic. I am knew here so what? I've tried a few different pregnancy apps and just got this one. I just don't get why it offends you that I'm happily married expecting our 3rd boy and truly have a blessed life and family. Hey maybe the great sex helps keep me happy! Lol just don't get your rude comment. This is a adult app for pregnant woman!

NunyaBennis

HollyNewling said:

And to the comment about posting a very intamte question. Um I thought this was a board about pregnancy? How did we all get pregnant? By having sex! I don't feel it's wrong that I have a great sex life wi/ my HUSBAND also we are Cathloic. I am knew here so what? I've tried a few different pregnancy apps and just got this one. I just don't get why it offends you that I'm happily married expecting our 3rd boy and truly have a blessed life and family. Hey maybe the great sex helps keep me happy! Lol just don't get your rude comment. This is a adult app for pregnant woman!

Settle down. No one was rude.

PandaCon

And to the comment about posting a very intamte question. Um I thought this was a board about pregnancy? How did we all get pregnant? By having sex! I don't feel it's wrong that I have a great sex life wi/ my HUSBAND also we are Cathloic. I am knew here so what? I've tried a few different pregnancy apps and just got this one. I just don't get why it offends you that I'm happily married expecting our 3rd boy and truly have a blessed life and family. Hey maybe the great sex helps keep me happy! Lol just don't get your rude comment. This is a adult app for pregnant woman!

QFP

Would you walk into a room full of pregnant women and announce how awesome your sex life is?

For the record I'm jealous because sex is practically non existent over here.

Maelara

Oh god. I wasnt rude. I can be though if you really like. I'm super tired today and could turn the bitch on in two seconds flat. I'm actually having a hard time not doing it right now.

Yes, we all had sex to get our babies. I'm not 'offended' that you are happily married and expecting your third child. That's a bunch of ridiculous right there. I am also happily married and expecting our second. Congratulations to us? This is a board about pregnancy, we do talk about sex here. But this is like your first post and it was boardering graphic. Also, I could give two shits if your catholic. Good for you.

lizzielu82

Wait, hold on. This is a board for PREGNANCY?!?! Woah….

AnnieRoo13

I'm a little confused by what you being Catholic and happily married have to do with having great sex. I'm pretty sure lots of non-Catholic unmarried people have fantastic sex lives. Some of them **gasp** with multiple people!

lizzielu82

HollyNewling said:

So this is my 3rd pregnancy and 3 rd boy. Well with my last 2 boys I HATED sex. But this pregnancy (I'm 24 weeks) I want sex all the time! It feels so great. My DH and I also like things a little rough (not to the point where it hurts or leaves marks)and we also take our time so sex is a hour long from start to finish. And also we will have sex a few times a day and take a few days break. Is it safe or could we hurt the baby? We do doggie style like recommended but I still can and like to be on top at times. Sorry if anyone is offended or feels it's tmi but I'm happily married and we both have always really enjoyed our sex life. It's only between us and we've grown into being able to get more and more kinky over the years. It's special to us. My DH says I love my freak of a wife in bed but love that it's between us and I'm a mother and wife outside of our bed! Lol

QFP yo

Jatpa003

Lol what are the chances we are going to get called bullies again... But here it goes seriously you you are commenting on how someone's comment was rude but I find yours downright offensive about how you are happily married and Catholic, are you judging others who aren't? Should I just state right now I lived with my husband out of wedlock and that I slept around before that? (Just so you are aware before you think we could be friends).

CariLS8

... I'm not married, I live with my boyfriend also the father of our unborn baby girl, and we have sex.. obviously. Shit, I think I'm going to hell lol.

HollyNewling

No I wouldn't go into a room an announce that cause that's not anonymous but a online forum is. I'm have a sense if humor when I describe things and that's why the people that matter love that about me but you don't know me. I have more important things to do than have a online battle cause you don't like what that I am happy and also have a great sex life with my husband. Big deal. Who doesn't? And why not?

dbgwife

I thought this was a joke at first... You kinda answered your own original post in your second post... So I'm confused as to why you posted this at all?? 

Jatpa003

CariLS8 said:

... I'm not married, I live with my boyfriend also the father of our unborn baby girl, and we have sex.. obviously. Shit, I think I'm going to hell lol.

Bump crush! I think we can be friends in hell together then:)

HollyNewling

Everybody assumes I'm talking about your post sorry to disappoint you but I was only referring to one person on here.

CariLS8

Jatpa003 said:

CariLS8 said:

... I'm not married, I live with my boyfriend also the father of our unborn baby girl, and we have sex.. obviously. Shit, I think I'm going to hell lol.

Bump crush! I think we can be friends in hell together then:)

Yeeessss, you save my seat or I'll save yours

Jatpa003

HollyNewling said:

Everybody assumes I'm talking about your post sorry to disappoint you but I was only referring to one person on here.

And still no one knows who you are actually talking to... Why not go back to your "fantastic" sex and stop giving us graphic details?

FirstBabyDoyle

Oh cool so your OB answers your question and you still want my non-medical professional advice...here goes: Having seckkks multiple times a day while pregnant can make you have multiples. You need to make sure you use a condom. It also causes stupidity and will make you ask questions when you already have answers. I would just avoid it all together.

Maelara

HollyNewling said:

No I wouldn't go into a room an announce that cause that's not anonymous but a online forum is. I'm have a sense if humor when I describe things and that's why the people that matter love that about me but you don't know me. I have more important things to do than have a online battle cause you don't like what that I am happy and also have a great sex life with my husband. Big deal. Who doesn't? And why not?

Get over yourself. The universe does not evolve around your 'happy' little speck. Your happy... Good for you! Guess what? So am I. Nobody is upset, offended, etc. because you're happy and have good sex. Actually, that's awesome. You just don't need to be so graphic on your first post. Get to know people first. I don't look at this place as 'anonymous' where anyone can waltz in and start throwing their amazing sex life around. I have put in time and effort here and respect it a whole hell of a lot more than that.

Jatpa003

FirstBabyDoyle said:

Oh cool so your OB answers your question and you still want my non-medical professional advice...here goes: Having seckkks multiple times a day while pregnant can make you have multiples. You need to make sure you use a condom. It also causes stupidity and will make you ask questions when you already have answers. I would just avoid it all together.

Umm can she even use condoms? I mean after all she has made it very clear she is Catholic...

Maelara

FirstBabyDoyle said:

Oh cool so your OB answers your question and you still want my non-medical professional advice...here goes: Having seckkks multiple times a day while pregnant can make you have multiples. You need to make sure you use a condom. It also causes stupidity and will make you ask questions when you already have answers. I would just avoid it all together.

I have an even bigger love for you and I didn't think that was possible after the eat dick gifs...

lizzielu82

I mean @maelara she could be talking strictly about shower sex and then…well, meh. Might as well just take a nap... I-)

Maelara

lizzielu82 said:

I mean @maelara she could be talking strictly about shower sex and then…well, meh. Might as well just take a nap... I-)

LMAO!!

FirstBabyDoyle

Excellent point @Jatpa003‌. Silly me I was raised catholic, so I should know the rules.

schrijiver

CariLS8 said:

... I'm not married, I live with my boyfriend also the father of our unborn baby girl, and we have sex.. obviously. Shit, I think I'm going to hell lol.

+ 1 (except for the girl part, this baby made out of wedlock is a boy).  Save a seat for me too?

PandaCon

HollyNewling said:

No I wouldn't go into a room an announce that cause that's not anonymous but a online forum is. I'm have a sense if humor when I describe things and that's why the people that matter love that about me but you don't know me. I have more important things to do than have a online battle cause you don't like what that I am happy and also have a great sex life with my husband. Big deal. Who doesn't? And why not?

Dude, not mad that you have sex and are happy. Not sure where you got that idea.

I just think it is extremely weird to walk into a forum declaring how great it is and how kinky you like to be. TETO I guess.

Also if your OB is fine with it why even ask?

AnnieRoo13

I just want to point out that an online forum isn't really anonymous, especially when you use your first and last name as your username.

sweetbabyrahe

Another instance where I'm ashamed to be Catholic! I could never have sex 3x/day each for an hour . I barely have enough time to vacuum . Insomniac? Vampire? MUD?

missnacholover

HollyNewling said:

No I wouldn't go into a room an announce that cause that's not anonymous but a online forum is. I'm have a sense if humor when I describe things and that's why the people that matter love that about me but you don't know me. I have more important things to do than have a online battle cause you don't like what that I am happy and also have a great sex life with my husband. Big deal. Who doesn't? And why not?

I'm gonna go ahead and guess that your name is Holly Newling?  Heh.

thedjinn88

I'm so happy I opened this thread, all the comments!  Op if you're doc said you are good to go, a bunch of prego ladies don't have much to tell you. I don't think anyone was being rude, just that you put out some personal info to women you don't know and you did it online, also none of us can help you lol you like sex, want it all the time, and your  doc said do it.... well then get on with your bad self little lady, we just don't need to know all the kinky details

MollMoll4

@AnnieRoo13‌ and @missnacholover‌ THANK YOU! That was driving me nuts. @HollyNewling‌ in all seriousness you should try to change your sn. An online forum is not anonymous if I can find you on Facebook in 2 seconds via google.

jj0313

Uh if you are posting a question asking for medical advice but you've already received said medical advice from a doctor....me thinks you're bragging.

HollyNewling

This online forum is full of uptight girls! Really? I gave no graphic details only saying what position we do it in cause everything I've heard says do it doggie style the bigger you get. And yes so what I asked my doctor but still wanted others opinions. I'm not God I don't judge and I never said anybody was going to hell. I actually had my first son at 16 unmarried. My DH and I have been ttc for 3 years with 4 mc... Sorry I wanted other opinions. If you are that crazy to stalk me on google to find out who I am.. Well than I really don't care what you think cause your crazy. FYI I didn't know it should my name as my username. So thanks for letting me know. I just came here so what? I had a question that I would normally do on my other forums but can't download them on this phone. But trust me I will be since I see how most not all of you are and I don't live my life to take a post so personal. It's my life and my choices. I respect others even if it's not what I believe. Spell check on the iPhone is stupid so yes it changed my spelling of Cathloic and possibly other words cause I'm not turning in my college paper.

sweetbabyrahe

If you ever read any other posts on N14 I don't think you would use "uptight". (See previous threads on sex toys, favorite sex positions, fantasies, etc.) Actually we are pretty open but we like to get to know you a bit first?

jj0313

WHY DO YOU NEED MEDICAL ADVICE FROM OTHERS WHO ARE NOT DOCTORS IF YOU ALREADY HAVE ADVICE FROM A DOCTOR?