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merc5411merc5411 member
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Hi, I've been lurking for a little bit and I've read the newbie blog.  I got my BFP on 7/10, but went in for an U/S 7/30 due to spotting.  I should have been about 7 weeks, but there was nothing there.  Only a yolk sac and fluid (blood) surrounding everything.  I had a D&E last Thursday.  It was an extremely difficult day for me since it was also the anniversary of one of my closest friends passing.  Plus, my dh was out of town and couldn't come home.  I'm still having cramping and a little bleeding, but physically I'm feeling better.  Emotionally not so much.  I have hours that I'm ok, and then something happens and I feel the pain so intensely.  I'm hoping time helps that.

I read the blog and spoke with one of the regulars so I wouldn't unintentionally hurt anyone.  If I ever say anything that causes pain, please let me know so I can correct myself.  The last thing I want to do is cause anyone any additional pain.  I recognize several SN from March 15 and I'm so terrible sorry to see you ladies over here.  I'm sorry that any of us are here.  

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A little about me:  I'm 34 and have been married for 2 years.  I have a son who is 1 year old and we live in NC with out black lab/hound Stella.  I am a SAHM now, but I'm also an RN.  I've worked in urology (one of the doctors specializes in male infertility so I have some knowledge on that if anyone has any questions) and critical care (I loved the ICU).  My dh and I are building a new house so I'm hoping that will help me through some of this.

I look forward to getting to know you all.



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  • natalie115natalie115 member
    I am so sorry for your loss ((hugs))

    Started TTC Nov. 2011 

    1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.  ((((HUGS))))
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • littlecookielittlecookie member
    I'm sorry for your loss. I think the good moments and bad moments are completely normal. I still have them several months out. Hugs!
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  • stinybeanstinybean member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Speaking from my experience, time helps immensely. It's not that it becomes easier. The pain is always there, but it becomes more factual. There will always be triggers, but they become less frequent. Thoughts and prayers that you heal quickly. Welcome to the board. ((hugs))
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    So sorry for your loss, but welcome. Also, thank you for taking the time to read the blog and get to know the flow of the board. It's much appreciated! :)
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find the comfort and support you are looking for here. Welcome.
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • jennadesignsjennadesigns member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I agree with the previous poster who said time helps. It really does. I still have my triggers, but I have far fewer days where I'm fighting back tears. Be gentle with yourself.
    BFP 3/30/13, MMC and D&C 4/19/13
    BFP 4/8/14, MMC 5/5/14, D&C 5/9/14
    BFP 8/26/14 Due date 5/8/15

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  • herbaveinherbavein member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs.

    TTC#3: started September 2014; BFP on 10/1/14; EDD 6/10/15
    TTC#2: started June 2014; BFP on 7/22/14; EDD 3/31/5; MC 8/3/14
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  • newfmom7newfmom7 member
    Sorry for your loss. Hope your stay is short

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    BFP#1 Oct/19/13, EDD June/27/14, MC began Dec/4/13 at 10w5d, sac measured 6w1d - blighted ovum, Misoprostol Dec/13/13 - nothing, bleeding, slow declining HCG, D&C Feb/6/14, HCG <1 Feb/18/14

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  • dawnstar898dawnstar898 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board :)

    Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011,  TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
    BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
    Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
    Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC!  Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case.       Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal.  Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities.  Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!

    BFP #3 December 11, 2014!  Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!

            Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15 :)

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  • kj808kj808 member
    Welcome to the board. Sorry for your loss.

    If you're interested, there's a "TTC a sibling" check-in on the PAL board. You're welcome to join if you'd like.
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    DS 10.2.07 | DD 7.27.10 | 4 angel babies
    BFP #7 | EDD 5.15.15 | It's a BOY!
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • tigerlynx31413tigerlynx31413 member
    I am so sorry to see another March '15 join this board! Please find comfort and support from these ladies, they are so wonderful and knowledgeable. 

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

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