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Induced Lactation Check In (August 5)

edited August 2014 in LGBT Parenting

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@Jalara48

@karlamo

 

It’s been about a month since our last check in…just wanting to check in with everyone and see how things are going!

 

As usual, I would love to hear how everyone’s experience is going. Anyone else who is interested in inducing or thinking about it, please feel free to chime in as well!

 

@jalara48 – have you started pumping? How’s that going?

 

@karlamo – hows it going? Have you started weaning for your FET?

 

@amandag47 – how are things going? Are you still breastfeeding? How are the twins?

Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013

C began IUI's
7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140....  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!

1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.

Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!

 

Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/

 

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Re: Induced Lactation Check In (August 5)

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    My update is, I don't have much of an update :-)

     

    I start pumping september 1, I have purchased my herbs and started eating my oatmeal...other than that I'm still poppin' my pills and waiting to pump!

     

    There has been a lot of talk around the board about bio moms having difficulty pumping and that makes me nervous as a non-bio parent and not being able to produce enough milk. I know its not the end of the world but it feels that way to me...

    Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
    First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013

    C began IUI's
    7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140....  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!

    1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.

    Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!

     

    Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/

     

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    @jalara48‌ that's great your milk is coming in! I took lots of pictures at various points while pumping. I was so proud to see my supply increase. As for the sleeping yeah I thought that interrupted sleep would help me get ready for baby duty. Ha! Nothing compares to taking care of a newborn. Get your sleep now.

    As for me. I'm 5 months at breast feeding and going strong. My wife is out of town for the week so this is my first time doing 100% of the feeding. I wonder if I'll see a jump in supply. R is stating solids soon so I think the 3 oz that I produce will be enough to feed him without a SNS.

    I haven't started weaning. I had an appt with our RE who said I can't bf on the ivf meds but that I didn't need to wean before our FET, just not feed him when I take meds. We're still not sure when we'll do it but probably Oct.

    For those just starting pumping. It's a emotional process and our hormones are so out of whack. I had several breakdowns during those first few months. It takes dedication like no one knows. The first time you get to feed your baby at the breast, you'll forget what it was like pumping every 2-3 hours. Hang in there!
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    edited August 2014

    @jalara48 I just came back to look at your response to the last check in and realized I never responded. I will be pumping for about 3 months. I know this is a little long but I want to be as prepared as possible. I work from home so it is easier for me to get away to pump and I am so scared to get started.

    Thanks for sharing your experience. It is good to know that it was slow moving and you are producing a good gradual flow. Is it still going well?

     

    @karlamo how did it go when your wife was out of town?

    Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
    First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013

    C began IUI's
    7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140....  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!

    1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.

    Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!

     

    Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/

     

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    @firstcomeslove2013‌, the universe must have told you I was thinking of you cause here you are! First off, thanks for asking. I (we) survived!!! I've cut way down on using the SNS. Which I love because that thing can be a pita to deal with. I'm going on 6 months!!
    The reason I was thinking of you is because I started taking mothers milk love plus. It's a herbal blend intended for induced lactation. I've been taking it for a week now along with fenugreek and my milk is spraying everywhere and my supply increased!!
    The herb you can get online I can give you more info if interested. I was doing fenugreek and blessed thistle but swallowing 18 pills plus 8 of the domperidone is nuts! The mothers milk is 1 pill 4xday. Much easier and it contains goats rue and other herbs to build tissue.
    Have you set a date for when the girls are getting hooked up? When the times comes please reach out if you need me. My first week I was a hysterical mess emailing a girl I barely knew who went through it. She was my rock (along with the mrs)
    I'd be happy to pay it forward!
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