Curious as to what you think I should do...
So when I first told my family I was pregnant (baby number 3) they were all excited. My sister in law (sweet, sweet girl) said "Oh im SO excited to plan another baby shower!" I told her no, no no, no baby shower! That i've already had one for both of my kids 4 yrs ago. She said no, its just a little party for our close friends. Now, I have nothing against having a little sprinkle/shower/whatever you want to call it for each baby, I think its sweet. BUT i dont want one, i dont want anyone to think that i'm tacky or to feel like they have to buy a gift AGAIN for me. Honestly, i truly don't. So then fast forward to us finding out that we are having a girl. My SIL says "ooooooh, a pink baby shower!". Again, i tell her nooo, no baby shower. She just smirks and says yeah, yeah. So, yesterday we were having dinner at my parents house and she asked me what colors i was doing for the babies room, what kinds of things i still needed for her and what size clothes i needed if someone wanted to buy her something. Oh and she kind of let something about a private planning board on Pinterest slip. Again, told her no baby shower! But I honestly don't think she is going to listen. She is the sweetest,most kind hearted person and i love her tons and don't want to hurt her feelings. Would you tell her again that you don't want a baby sprinkle? I dont want to seem ungrateful but I really don't want people to think i'm tacky or to feel put out, ya know?
Audrey- December 2009
Owen- April 2011
Olivia- Due December 24th
Re: Baby Shower for 3rd baby
Also you can keep reminding them you would rather not have a shower, but if they are like my in laws they will do what they want regardless.
Baby 2: EDD: 8/06/14 CP: 11/13
I'm having the same issue right now. I had a baby shower 7 years ago for ds#1 which was more than generous of people. Fast forward to now...I am having baby #3 (girl) after 2 boys. Several of the girls at work mentioned throwing a sprinkle. I just keep saying no thanks. But now I am thinking that I am the one in the wrong by not allowing people to be nice to me.
IDK. I don't like attention and whatnot and I would really rather prefer going out to dinner with them where no gifts are exchanged.
~after 34 cycles we finally got our 2nd little bundle of joy~
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Owen- April 2011
Olivia- Due December 24th
And just curious why the copy and paste? Did I miss something?
Owen- April 2011
Olivia- Due December 24th
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Olivia- Due December 24th
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Olivia- Due December 24th
Owen- April 2011
Olivia- Due December 24th
Owen- April 2011
Olivia- Due December 24th
If you don't want gifts or for people to feel obligated, you could ask them to bring gently used children's coats, blankets, or clothing to be donated to a shelter.