It was sad seeing some women mocked and laughed at and of course they were new ladies to the board, just like myself. Thats what hurt. Coming here for support and seeing other women mocked. That's all. I hurt for a lot of people all the time. Never said anyone was an angry drunk. Look at all my posts. Never once said that. But anyhow, thanks for your concern. I've for a counselor and a wonderful one at that. He's everything a grieving women could want in one. I never singled any one of you ladies out at all. But I understand I'm the new woman here and all you "oldies" stuck together. It wouldn't matter what I said or who or what someone here would be upset about it. I could say the sky was blue and get berated for it just because I'm new here.
Seriously. Why do you keep attacking members of our board who were nothing but nice to you. You have told people to get off the board, called people alcoholics and never once showed us evidence of how we are so horrible. You were also very judgemental to anyone who drinks alcohol while TTC even though my doctor said it was completely fine. I am on my period and going on a plane and will definitely have a few drinks while traveling. There is no reason for me to live like I am pregnant when there is zero chance that I am. You have made your point and pissed off enough people so you will not be accepted here. Goodbye.
It was sad seeing some women mocked and laughed at and of course they were new ladies to the board, just like myself. Thats what hurt. Coming here for support and seeing other women mocked. That's all. I hurt for a lot of people all the time. Never said anyone was an angry drunk. Look at all my posts. Never once said that. But anyhow, thanks for your concern. I've for a counselor and a wonderful one at that. He's everything a grieving women could want in one. I never singled any one of you ladies out at all. But I understand I'm the new woman here and all you "oldies" stuck together. It wouldn't matter what I said or who or what someone here would be upset about it. I could say the sky was blue and get berated for it just because I'm new here.
Maybe you should talk to your counselor about why you feel the need to judge others. You are also projecting your anger/hurting on everyone else. We are not "oldies" vs "newbies". I am new and don't have any problems here. I have only been here for about 1.5 months. So stop making up thinks in your head and accept that you hurt people. Apologize and move on. If you can't do that, then leave. No one is making you stay.
Since I have no idea who you are talking to since you are too cool to quote or tag, I will say yes yes I am the Queen Bitch. Question asked and answered. Now move along.....FOR GOOD
Have a nice one ladies. I'm off to my other boards. I won't be "attacking" you all anymore. Cheers!!!
You seem like you will be much happier there yet you keep responding here. You know you were out of line. Calling someone who is disagreeing with you a Queen Bee is just absurd. We've all had enough of you prayers, heartbreaking and general bs. I suggest you mosey in over to Babygaga and go talk shit about how mean ALL the girls on TB are.
Also I just can't get over your outrage over drinking while TTC. I'm not knocked up so what do you care? Get over yourself and have a good one.
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be ourR AI NBOWtake home baby BOY
Can I just say that there are an hysterical amount of awesome gifs in this thread? Major ((((hugs)))) to @ktlovess you are awesome. Also ((((hugs))) to all those who needed to get out a TP today and they got lost in that hot mess of nonsense.
So, so much love and hugs @ktlovess. I am so pissed that I'm in tears for you.
We are the lucky ones, because we do know how awesome you are, and that we will get to continue to enjoy you, your humor, your support and your overall beautiful self. Don't let one horrible person affect you because we know how incredible you are and we appreciate you. ((Hugs)).
Perfectly said. Lots of hugs to @ktlovess and all the ladies here. None of us needed this today.
((Hugs)) @Megdowntheshore I'm sorry your doctors are dropping the ball. Deep breaths- it's going to be ok, I promise.
GL tomorrow. I will be thinking of you and wishing so freaking hard for a successful FET. xo
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*I am no longer regularly posting on TB because of the fucked up debacle of Jan 2015 when administrators banned long-term members and mods with no notice and completely dismantled a community full of women who cared about each other. If you see me posting it's only to give support to a poster who needs it or to post something important enough that I need to say. I am no longer responding to anything other than issues that affect people who I care about*
37 years old, MH is 42
TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor
August 2012 through June 2013: 6 IUIs with clomid and trigger shot, all BFNs
7/2013, Pregnant! Unmedicated--we were on a treatment break
8/20/13 no heart beat; 8/23/13 d&c
3/15/14 IVF #1: Lupron/Follistim/Menopur; ER 3/10 resulting in four transfer grade blastocysts, transferred one pretty blast and froze the remaining three. BFN.
Natural FET in May cancelled because the universe hates me my hormones were not cooperating.
6/24/14 FET #1: transferred two pretty embryos; BFN
8/28/14 FET #2: BFP, ended in Chemical pregnancy
Done with medical intervention and getting used to the idea of CFNBC.
@Megdowntheshore, I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. WTF is up with these offices lately?! Please go easy on yourself tonight, and best of luck to you tomorrow! I"ll be thinking of you!
TTC since July 2012 BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13
RE consult: June 2014
DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube
Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN
@Megdowntheshore so sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully tomorrow will be better for you and things will go smoothly. I hate dealing with Drs. because they think everyone knows all the names to medicine and that we can fully understand their lingo. After all we did all go to med school right? No? ((hugs)) to you and sending positive vibes your way
@megdowntheshore I'm so sorry and good luck! I hope it all works out, and if you possibly can go take a bath or read a book or take a walk just to try and help you relax and sleep. Nothing like incompetency to make your life worse right?
@ktlovess Well I'm sure that just made your day peachy! So sorry! You have been nothing but awesome! (hugs)
@EurydiceNymph I'm sorry about your day and the pharmacist! I swear some people are just at their jobs for the money and don't care to actually do their job!
Ladies know that the gifs and the ridiculousness of someone who needs to come down a few pegs has in the end made my day. Pink wine is the best....
Sending you lots of (((hugs))) @Megdowntheshore I'm so sorry you were left feeling forgotten. Reread your insomnia post before bed tonight, hopefully something there will help you sleep well tonight. My fingers are crossed so tightly for you!!! Many +++ vibes your way.
@Megdowntheshore I'm so sorry for the added stress! Hopefully when you call in the morning it will calm you a little. Sending lots of calm and positive vibes tonight and tomorrow
PgAL welcome
Married 6/11/2011
Me & Hubby: 34
TTC journey started 12/2012
BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks
BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)
Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.
Also have hypothyroidism
Started TTC again 12/2013
IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN
IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN
Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.
My H was looking at me funny due to all my facial expressions while reading this thread. I love you ladies, especially @ktlovess!! You rock my socks off.
@Megdowntheshore oh lady. I am so very sorry you're dealing with this. I am sending you giant hugs! I hope you can calm yourself tonight, and get some sleep!
I will never understand why people think that kind of behavior is going to accomplish anything. @ktlovess Lots of hugs for you and everyone else that had to deal with this today.
@megdowntheshore I am so sorry your doctor's office dropped the ball. I hope everything goes smoothly tomorrow. I'll be thinking about you.
TP supposed friends. I had a friend tell me after i told her i lost the baby that "this hapoe for a reason, you didn't honestly expect getting pregnant to be easy, now you need to just get over it and more on." Wtf!!!! Oh did I mentioned she wants o he together thus weekend to get drunk and vent?? (She is currently going through a divorce) I would rather see my husband who has been working of town than spend time with you and your man hating rant!!!! TP Fake friends!!!
First, to the ladies who got lost with real TP's I'm sorry you had to deal with shitty people and situations. ((Hugs))
Second, @ktlovess I've only interacted acted with you a few times, and you were more caring, genuine and supportive to me, a complete stranger, than my closes friends have been through all this. You are amazing! Awkward, appreciative ((Hugs)).
Third, to michiganbitchface. I know you're banned now, but... Who the mother fucking hell do you think you are? Coming in here insulting people in the name of 'protecting' the newbies and other internet strangers, from the oldies, then saying you'll 'pray for us'. I grew up Baptist, it roughly translates as giving someone the middle finger. We don't need your help. Crawl back in the hole you came from and stay there.
((HUGS)) & drinks all around. You ladies are amazing!!!!
Re: Wednesday Throat Punch
You were also very judgemental to anyone who drinks alcohol while TTC even though my doctor said it was completely fine. I am on my period and going on a plane and will definitely have a few drinks while traveling. There is no reason for me to live like I am pregnant when there is zero chance that I am. You have made your point and pissed off enough people so you will not be accepted here. Goodbye.
Hugs @Ktlovess and @EurydiceNymph
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
Also
Since I have no idea who you are talking to since you are too cool to quote or tag, I will say yes yes I am the Queen Bitch. Question asked and answered. Now move along.....FOR GOOD
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
Also I just can't get over your outrage over drinking while TTC. I'm not knocked up so what do you care? Get over yourself and have a good one.
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
TTC since April 2012
BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013
BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013
6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)
IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab
IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!
FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN
Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus
IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos
Everyone welcome on my posts
What even sparked this shit show in the first place?
(I'll be honest, I didn't fully read all 5 pages of responses...)
TTC since July 2012
BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13
RE consult: June 2014
DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube
Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN
November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!
BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
Blogging to stay sane
Ha! That must be it. (as I open a bottle of wine...)
I saw that she jumped in ranting about how badly newbies are treated, but was there a thread before this?
TTC since July 2012
BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13
RE consult: June 2014
DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube
Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN
November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!
BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
Blogging to stay sane
TTC since July 2012
BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13
RE consult: June 2014
DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube
Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN
November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!
BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
Blogging to stay sane
GL tomorrow. I will be thinking of you and wishing so freaking hard for a successful FET. xo
TTC since July 2012
BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13
RE consult: June 2014
DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube
Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN
November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!
BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
Blogging to stay sane
EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI
Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW
**ALL AL/IF Welcome**
My Chart
PgAL welcome
Married 6/11/2011
Me & Hubby: 34
TTC journey started 12/2012
BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks
BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)
Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.
Also have hypothyroidism
Started TTC again 12/2013
IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN
IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN
Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
My Blog
BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013
Please be our rainbow!!
**All AL Welcome**
TTC since March 2012
BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13
BFP #3 8/11/14 EDD 4/22/14
Me-27 DH-29
TTC#1 January 2013
BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C
Working on our rainbow!
Curious about my ute?
First, to the ladies who got lost with real TP's I'm sorry you had to deal with shitty people and situations. ((Hugs))
Second, @ktlovess I've only interacted acted with you a few times, and you were more caring, genuine and supportive to me, a complete stranger, than my closes friends have been through all this. You are amazing! Awkward, appreciative ((Hugs)).
Third, to michiganbitchface. I know you're banned now, but... Who the mother fucking hell do you think you are? Coming in here insulting people in the name of 'protecting' the newbies and other internet strangers, from the oldies, then saying you'll 'pray for us'. I grew up Baptist, it roughly translates as giving someone the middle finger. We don't need your help. Crawl back in the hole you came from and stay there.
((HUGS)) & drinks all around. You ladies are amazing!!!!