Just looking for some insight without starting a huge debate. I work part time and I find it difficult to make new friends these days. Please don't be offended, but I've found that most stay at home moms are very hesitant to be friends with a mom who doesn't stay at home. What's the deal?
Re: How do you feel about moms who work outside of the home?
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I work PT outside the home, and my advice to you is just don't bring it up when you first meet people. It's sort of awkward to start talking to someone you know is a SAHM about your work outside the home during your first conversation. Just stick to mom stuff when you are looking to meet new mom friends.
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I completely did this when DD was born. OP, it's not always easy to be confident in your choices but just keep reminding yourself, you're doing what's right for your family. If other people judge that then screw them. Dodged a bullet befriending someone petty and judgey.
Dammit, beat me to it.
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ExpectantSteelerFan, I appreciate your honesty. Alli, your comment about leaving out WM status is very true; I usually avoid that too. Thanks for the other constructive comments. It sounds like schedules aligning is the main issue, and lack of common ground/interests is second.
And, YES, I am a real person!! I asked a question hoping to gain some amount of perspective from your angle. I'm relatively new at navigating motherhood. My friends don't have children, have several children, or have children who are significantly older than mine. I'm looking to connect with people who are at the same place life as I am....and to clarify by "same place in life" I'm referring to raising a toddler. SAHM or WM isn't relevant to me, but it feels like a barrier.
Great points @CurlingRocks and @spring_time about my community.
@Spring_time you summed up my issue. It's hard to break into the group and at most public places moms are usually in groups (and it's hard to get in without being impolite).
@nowababy, good point about personalities.
You all have given me some insight. Appreciate the help.