Is it a sign or am I thinking to much?

Elysa15

My name is Elysa and I am very glad I found you guys. I have been struggling with not worrying about having another loss. My husband and I where expecting a wonderful baby boy in April of 2013 but ended up with a still born on December 20th of 2012. I am pregnant again and excitedly nervous. But my EDD is January 20th. Is this a sign maybe that things will work out this time? How do I get pass the fear of losing another baby at 20 weeks? Dose it get better after I pass that marker?

jap618

I'm sorry for your loss ((hugs))  Congratulations on this pregnancy.  Unfortunately no one can answer those questions for you.  As your pregnancy progresses you may start to feel more at ease.  I know my OB & RE are willing to bend over backwards to make sure that my needs are being met (by offering me as many u/s and doppler readings as I want).  I truly hope that this is your rainbow and that you have a boring, happy & healthy 9 months.

Samuelismomma

Sorry about your loss:( congrats on your new pregnancy. I like to believe in signs...like you I had edd of July 20th had early loss and now this baby is due jan 20 . I like to feel everything will go great this time. That doesn't mean I don't have fear but it gives me hope! Good luck!

Elysa15

I definitely have a good OB they are very understanding if my frequent questions and reassuring. My husband asked the dreaded what if it happens again and they reassured us that they would find out what was going wrong. We have no idea why we lost our first baby. I think that makes it harder