I think a few of you had VBACs?
I need to make my birth plan (mostly stating what I want to opt out of or avoid) and I'm having a hard time thinking of things to research and include. I didn't labor at all so I don't know what to expect. (I was induced at 37 weeks for to preeclampsia and didn't progress at all.)
I'm looking for things you included and websites that aren't biased. I want to keep it safe, but not go for all the unnecessary stuff or textbook labor requirements. (I'm told I have to have a textbook labor and delivery, which I don't agree with. Like not stalling during labor, which they mentioned, but it's totally normal.)
Help!
Re: VBAC research help.
Oh and I always say no eye goop and no bath, immediate skin to skin for the first hour, and all tests and procedure done in room. Obviously excepting an emergency.
I would be a high maintenance hospital delivery in other words.
Between her and my NP, I have been told I have to have a textbook labor and delivery, which I don't agree with. I will also have to wear monitors, but I can still use the labor tub and walk around. I was told I have to have an IV but I already talked her into a hep lock. She suggested reminding the nurses to flush it every few hours so it doesn't go bad.
With my induction, they let me eat and drink until I asked for the c-section. I even got to do skin to skin for a few minutes after they removed him and right when we got to the room and then we nursed. (He was having trouble regulating his temp.)
I'm hoping to be left alone for most of the time and have a nice relaxing labor and delivery. I secretly want to "accidentally" have him in the tub.
Here is the link to my story on the vbac board. I forgot a few details
I also asked for nurses to keep the lights low and speak softly.
I read and really liked natural birth: the Bradley way. Mind set is really important for me
With Logan they had me do skin to skin for at least an hour before visitors so he could regulate. And he had to stay wrapped in blankets and guests weren't allowed to unwrap him. Overall I was very happy with the hospital and the staff I worked with. They even let me sleep with him on my chest, which some places don't.
I didn't know about the meds for expelling the placenta. I'll look into that one.
I'll also look online about VBAC birth plans.
Last time I really liked the idea behind Hypnobirthing, minus the annoying tracks. I liked how peaceful it looked online and the idea of no/minimal pushing. I didn't look into Bradley, though, which is popular. I should.
Reminded me of another question. Breaking waters. Some people are against it and the only reason I remember is it puts you on the clock. I need to ask about this one too. I know it can be helpful after a certain point, I think.
Every time something that you are not fully comfortable with is suggested, ask if it can wait an hour, or even just wait 5-10 minutes. After the allotted time, ask if it can wait a little more.
This can allow you more time to progress on your own, but also help both you and the dr to access how seriously the intervention is needed.(For example the Dr might be saying its time to do another section, but if you ask to wait an hr, he might realize that he was trying to get it done before the nurses shift change or something. On the other hand, he might refuse to let you wait even 5 minutes, which could tell you that yes, the section is necessary and urgent).
If you are stalled using this technique might help.
I didn't even think to put stuff in there in case of a RCS. Our first one was great, under the circumstances, but there are a few things I would change. (Delayed cord cutting, more skin to skin, I would like to watch.)
I think I want to not have continuous monitoring and no hep lock or IV, which might be a battle. I'm going to research the monitoring a bit more, though. With Logan, I have seen how fast they can get an IV in, and I know I don't need that the whole time "just in case".
Last time we went from a homebirth with a midwife to transferring out to a doctor due to preeclampsia. My blood pressure got bad and the side effects of the meds had me begging for a c-section after 22 hours of induction. It sucked, but I tried my best, and have come to peace with his birth.