TTC After a Loss

~*~*~ August Angels Check-In 7/22/14 ~*~*~

August Mommas

This check-in is for mommas who lost a baby due in the month of August (any year), and any late loss mommas who gave birth and lost their precious angel in August.

New to the check in: Welcome. I'm so sorry you find yourself here but hope you find the love and support you need from the amazing women on TTCAL. Tell us a bit about yourself, where you are in the TTCAL process, and don't forget to include your August EDD or birth date.

Current members: Let me know if you have any updates to the information below, or if you get a BFP please send me a PM with along with your EDD!

For everyone: How are you lovely ladies doing this week? Where are you in the TTCAL process this week? Any appointments coming up?

If you don't have a special message below, it just means you weren't able to check in last week or haven't checked in for a while. So, let us know what's up with you TTC and otherwise so I can include it next week!

The List:

sfazar: EDD 8/4/14

lundlebean: EDD 8/5/14

katib77: EDD 8/7/14

NoeliaV: EDD 8/23/14

mara005: EDD 8/27/14


@katib77: How are you this week?

@NoeliaV: How are you?

@sfazar: Where are you in your cycle? Have you O'd yet?

@lundlebean: Hope you've got your scatter brain together, how are you? What is going on this cycle?


Ladies, I'm so sorry I'm late, we were traveling yesterday.


QOTW: Do you do any monthly mail subscription boxes?



"Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
**All After a Loss Welcome**
BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
 

BabyFruit Ticker


Re: ~*~*~ August Angels Check-In 7/22/14 ~*~*~

  • Hi, @mara005 :) Hope you are well.

    I'm just running home from work but will be back later. Hugs to everyone who needs them  >:D<
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
    BabyFruit Ticker
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  • sfazarsfazar member

    Hello August ladies,

            I hope you are well!  Things are super busy for me right now.  I had a great visit from my BFF on Saturday. I am tutoring lots of kids for $ on the side, so they all want to get in sessions before school starts back up.  It's good because all this activity keeps my mind off the TWW.  I O'd on Sunday.  And I have an appt on Thurs for a progesterone check.  This is my first round of Clomid. 

            I'm enjoying my garden immensely now, especially since my new countertop went in, and I can use my sink and dishwasher.  We did butchblock on part of the kitchen (my husband cut and installed it), and a small area of marble.  My husband did all of the plumbing--I was so impressed!!  Now it's up to me to paint cabinet doors--I don't know why I find that so daunting.

    QOTW--no subscription boxes for me.  But I do subscribe to some magazines like This Old House, plus some other home mags.

     

    Send news!!

     

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Where is everyone?  :P   :x

    In spite of FF's shenanigans, I think yesterday was O day. I can hardly believe that today would have marked one month out from our EDD. I don't think DH realizes that yet.

    QOTW:
    No subscription boxes for me. No magazines either at the moment. I used to enjoy getting InStyle and Runner's World, but I really don't have a minute to read much of anything at the moment.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • @NoeliaV - FX you O'd yesterday, how was your timing if you did?

    @sfazar- sounds like you have a very handy man there! Hopefully you can get the motivation to paint.

    And Ladies, like NoeliaV mentioned our EDD month is quickly approaching, please know that you can always PM me if you need support or anything else.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • @mara005
    FF is being banana cupcakes still, but when it ends up moving O to CD15, we'll have good timing. O-2, O-1 and O. We were supposed to HIO yesterday, but ended up not. I'll kick myself for that if this is another unsuccessful cycle.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • sfazarsfazar member
    mara005  How are you doing?  Where are you in your cycle?  Did you have a nice vacay?! :)

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @sfazar How nice to have some kitchen renovations! Congrats to you and DH!  Glad you're able to keep busy during 2ww.  It's so hard to keep the mind off things sometimes.
    @noeliaV  Good luck this cycle.  Sorry FF is being wonky.
    @mara005  Thank you for the offer of support.  I am thinking of you all as the month approaches.

    I started using OPKs today to track O for a natural FET.  My tentative transfer date is currently one day before EDD due to a short cycle last month.  I'm still stressed and a bit scatter-brained, but putting off cycling wouldn't have made me any better.  I need to keep moving.
    DH just called a bit ago to tell me he was promoted to a benefit-eligible position. Not sure when that'll officially start, but it'll be nice to have more options with our benefits. (We're currently on my benefits for insurance, but his should be better than mine.)  He will, however, be changed to night shifts so that'll be a big change. (7pm-7:30 am).
    Siggy Warning BFP/Loss Mentioned
    Me: 30, DH 30 Started TTC 7/2009
    9/2010 SA=Normal 9/10 HSG Dx Both tubes dilated; Rx bilateral salpingectomy & IVF; 9/2010-12/2012 Financial break
    1/2013 Bilateral Salpingectomy 5/2013 Recent SA shows borderline morphology
    5/2013 IVF w/ ICSI #1 6/25/13 ER=11R 9M 9F  6/28/13 3dt of 2 embies (8B & 6A-); no frosties: BFN
    10/2013 IVF w/ ICSI #2 11/12/13 ER= 9R 6M 6F  11/15/13 3dt of 2 embies (8A & 8A) 3 frosties (2 day-5, 1 day-6)
    11/22/13 (7dp3dt) +hpt  11/26/13 (11dp3dt) BFP Beta=141 11/28/13 Beta 2= 372 EDD 8/5/2014
    3/20/14 Fetal Demise 20 wks F/L 17 wks D&E attempted 3/21/14 & 3/22/14 Born Still 3/23/14  I love you B.T.
    "Sometimes you try your hardestbut things don't work out the way you want them to." –Nani (Lilo & Stitch)
    “All I can say is, it's a sort of kinship, as though there is a family tree of grief. On this branch, the lost children, on this the suicided parents, here the beloved mentally ill siblings. When something terrible happens, you discover all of the sudden that you have a new set of relatives, people with whom you can speak in the shorthand of cousins.” ― Elizabeth McCracken
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    8/2014 FET 8/7/14 Transferred 1 5-day blast (4AA): BFN
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    TTCAL September Siggy Challenge:  Animals in Clothing

    Will add soon

    **All AL/AIF Welcome**
  • sfazarsfazar member

    LundleBean   Congrats on your husband's news!  That's fantastic!  My DH also works nights occasionally.  It's actually not too bad when you have a whole string of nights.  I know that he'll wake up at 6:00 pm, we have an hour for supper together, and he sometimes wakes me up in the morning when he comes home :)

                Good luck with the OPKs.  I know people complain about them, but I have found them pretty accurate.  I always get my positive 14 days before AF.

     

    It's funny, but I am really not consumed with the EDD.  My husband brought it up the other day, and I sort of shrugged. I've been working really hard at thinking that my past doesn't determine my future, so I'm approaching this new cycle with a lot of positive energy, and it feels good.

     

    I hope that all of you ladies have lovely weeks.  Sending tons of positive vibes your way.

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

    Pregnancy Ticker
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