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Having a rough day...

Do you ever have one of those days where you just wish you could just go back to bed and start all over. Yeah, I am having one of those days. It started this morning when my car broke down on they way to work and my husband had to come get me. While he is on his way to tow my car home from the gas station I left it at he calls and said his sister has gone into labor and they are headed to the hospital.

It literally felt like I had been punched in the gut. She was scheduled to have a c-section in about a week and a half, so I wasn't prepared at all.  We had already talked about this and decided that he would go to the hospital, but I preferred to stay home. He picked up our son and head out on on the 2 hour trip to the hospital his sister is delivering at. They were gone about an hour when I get another phone call from my husband asking if I can look up the number for our insurance company b/c a rock hit his windshield on the interstate and cracked the glass. FML. Sorry if I was rambling I just needed to vent. I just want this day to be over.

Asher born February 5, 2011.

Baby #2 born sleeping at 20 weeks. May 6, 2014.

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  • Oh @AshersMom11 I a so sorry your day has been so rough. Hang in there! Sending you lots of hugs:)
  • sorry you are having such a sucky day and you were caught off guard by your SIL.  big ((hugs))

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  • I'm sorry. Do you have time to do something for yourself? That might help you feel a little better.
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  • I'm sorry. Do you have time to do something for yourself? That might help you feel a little better.
    Yeah. I'm thinking a big bottle wine, some chick flicks and a good cry are on the agenda for tonight.

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    Sorry you're having a rough day :(

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  • ((Hugs)) to you... I am sorry you are having a sucky day. Hope tomorrow is a little better.

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  • ((Hugs)) sorry it's been rough.
  • Ugh, what a rotten day! I'm sorry! I hope today is better!
  • Thanks ladies. Yesterday was really hard, but today is much better. Thanks for listeing.

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  • That sounds like a really crappy day. I'm glad today was better.
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    We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.

    Our IUIs
    with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.

    Our IVFs:
    IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response

    IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
    BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
    2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
    BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
    1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

    ***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***

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    Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)
    BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.

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    I am so glad today was a better day but am so sorry yesterday was so hard. Sometimes, a good cry, some wine and some chick flicks really does make things better for me - hope that helped you, too. **hugs**


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  • I'm glad you had a better day yesterday! You're a strong woman for getting through.
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