I've been avoiding this, but with no family nearby, I think it's time we find someone we can trust to babysit for date nights, appointments, etc.
What is the going rate for having someone watch two young kids? I am sure it varies based on cost of living but I think NC is pretty average when it comes to that. And what would do you pay when you're just having them get to know the children and you're still there? Or do you not pay them for that? I don't know what the expectations are with this. Of course if/when we find someone, I will ask them what they feel is a fair rate, but I want to have something in mind ahead of time.
Do any of you use care.com? We are thinking of signing up but it costs money to become a member and have access to their people.
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Re: Care.com and babysitting rates..
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The girls we use are college students, not formally educated or trained.