Yer a Wizard, Harry.

sjep922 · July 2014

@jessuhmarie‌ FX Tuesday comes quickly and you have some really great news to share when you get back!!

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motherofdogs · July 2014

Oh @meladoriestar‌ see! Good sign! So many creepy hugs on the way!!!!

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AshleighW13 · July 2014

I've been super gassy today, sorry tmi. Anyways DS thinks it's hilarious and has been cracking up at me. He will look up at me and grin and say you tooted Mommy you went (toot sound). Then he will laugh hysterically.

chaysefaith · July 2014

I think that sounds like a great sign @meladoriestar‌ ! LoHerrim was able to have a successful pregnancy with the lovenox after multiple losses

ETA: I just asked her and she said the progesterone made her spot with her take home baby. Hopefully it's one of the two and everything is ok!

chaysefaith · July 2014

Also, every time I type "lovenox" my phone autocorrects to "love box."

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urani · July 2014

estamos_tomamos said:

I feel like we all deserve this.

I'm slightly disappointed there was no clip from the Weapon of Choice video.

But really, that was awesome.

3rdNdone · July 2014

I have been lurking for a while and there is a lot going on. There is some comradery, some funny gif's and post; however it seems no matter what the subject of the thread there is always snarky comments made and most of the time by the same people.

I know that this is an unpopular opinion and I'm sure it will be blasted unfortunately I don't care.

If there were a post about what is acceptable and what is expected I'm sure the threads and post would flow a little better but there is not and to blast people for asking questions or making simple comments is ridiculous. So what if someone uses incorrect spelling or grammar it happens. If you genuinely don't understand ask for clarification, otherwise bypass it all together.

I see a lot of post that don't make sense I don't pay them any mind. I see a lot of repeated post.If something has to be said just let the person know that there is already a discussion and tell them how to search and find it.

Ahem that will be all blast away. Goodnight ladies

urani · July 2014

3rdNdone said:

I have been lurking for a while and there is a lot going on. There is some comradery, some funny gif's and post; however it seems no matter what the subject of the thread there is always snarky comments made and most of the time by the same people. I know that this is an unpopular opinion and I'm sure it will be blasted unfortunately I don't care. If there were a post about what is acceptable and what is expected I'm sure the threads and post would flow a little better but there is not and to blast people for asking questions or making simple comments is ridiculous. So what if someone uses incorrect spelling or grammar it happens. If you genuinely don't understand ask for clarification, otherwise bypass it all together. I see a lot of post that don't make sense I don't pay them any mind. I see a lot of repeated post.If something has to be said just let the person know that there is already a discussion and tell them how to search and find it. Ahem that will be all blast away. Goodnight ladies

We do unpopular opinions on thursdays

chaysefaith · July 2014

3rdNdone said:

I have been lurking for a while and there is a lot going on. There is some comradery, some funny gif's and post; however it seems no matter what the subject of the thread there is always snarky comments made and most of the time by the same people. I know that this is an unpopular opinion and I'm sure it will be blasted unfortunately I don't care. If there were a post about what is acceptable and what is expected I'm sure the threads and post would flow a little better but there is not and to blast people for asking questions or making simple comments is ridiculous. So what if someone uses incorrect spelling or grammar it happens. If you genuinely don't understand ask for clarification, otherwise bypass it all together. I see a lot of post that don't make sense I don't pay them any mind. I see a lot of repeated post.If something has to be said just let the person know that there is already a discussion and tell them how to search and find it. Ahem that will be all blast away. Goodnight ladies

That's because it's always the SAME people commenting. TB is snarky, always has been, always will be. If someone asks a dumb ass question they get a dumb ass answer.

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3rdNdone · July 2014

@Chunkymonkeylvr "QFP" sorry not familiar with the abbreviation

3rdNdone · July 2014

@urani thank you for that bit of in info.

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lifewrite · July 2014

I am a pregnant cliché. I'm sitting here eating a bunch of pickles. Now where's the ice cream?

wendyld · July 2014

If there was a post about what is acceptable here, the people who show up to post their one ridiculous question sure as shit wouldn't read it. If they read other posts, they would know that topic had been covered a million times already.

wendyld · July 2014

And hugs to you @meladoriestar‌ I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I hope you get good news Monday.

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PuppyLove84 · July 2014

meladoriestar said:

wendyld said:

And hugs to you @meladoriestar‌ I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I hope you get good news Monday.

Thanks. Unfortunately the red spotting started again as well as some cramping. I'm feeling pessimistic but I guess we'll know in a couple days.

I'm so sorry.... I hope it is a false alarm!

cherylanddoug · July 2014

meladoriestar said:

wendyld said:

And hugs to you @meladoriestar‌ I'm sorry you are dealing with this. I hope you get good news Monday.

Thanks. Unfortunately the red spotting started again as well as some cramping. I'm feeling pessimistic but I guess we'll know in a couple days.

Thinking of you and hoping for the best. Sorry you are going through this.

FrecklesInside · July 2014

estamos_tomamos said:

3rdNdone said:

I have been lurking for a while and there is a lot going on. There is some comradery, some funny gif's and post; however it seems no matter what the subject of the thread there is always snarky comments made and most of the time by the same people.

I know that this is an unpopular opinion and I'm sure it will be blasted unfortunately I don't care.

If there were a post about what is acceptable and what is expected I'm sure the threads and post would flow a little better but there is not and to blast people for asking questions or making simple comments is ridiculous. So what if someone uses incorrect spelling or grammar it happens. If you genuinely don't understand ask for clarification, otherwise bypass it all together.

I see a lot of post that don't make sense I don't pay them any mind. I see a lot of repeated post.If something has to be said just let the person know that there is already a discussion and tell them how to search and find it.

Ahem that will be all blast away. Goodnight ladies

It is nobody's job to educate anyone about the culture or the tone of these boards. There is zero point in writing some sort of BMB manifesto because nobody is owed one, and the people who would benefit the most from it wouldn't deign to read it in the first place. You want to know how things work? Lurk. Want to change the way things work? Participate in the way you would like to see everyone else participate. Or, you could realize that this board isn't a good fit for you and fuck off to wherever it is you came from. Your choice.

I love you.

FrecklesInside · July 2014

Well, @estamos_tomamos‌ had said what I would say really well already, but I will add my haggard, ugly troll opinion anyhow.

There is a shit ton of support on this board and support isn't just for regs, it is for anyone who honestly needs it. You'll notice that no one picked on the spelling, grammar, or myriad extra letters in the young mom post, because she legit needed support.

TB has a particular tone and vibe. There are some "mean girls", but I don't think there are any on M15. For the most part, the expectation is that you act intelligently, are honest, generally open, observant, and good humored. I think it is easy for someone to not get the tone, or perhaps it isn't right for everyone, but that doesn't make the people here cruel or unsupportive.

I'm sorry TB isn't what you want it to be, but you can't change it to suit your needs. Lurk and get the feel, jump in and become a part of the group, or go somewhere else. And I mean that as kindly as possible.