I was traveling yesterday so I didn't get a chance to post a checkin.
This
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on the main board please do so before checking in so we can "meet" you!
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1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
3.
What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility
specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping?
Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
4.
Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when
will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your
2ww?
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
Me: 37
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.

All welcome
Re: Weekly Check in 7/17
tlc from LA
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.? TTC #1 since March
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
Charting and temping
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
I am 3dpo and just got my CH today. My temp was super high this AM and the last time it was this high was my BFP cycle so that is getting my hopes up even though it is too early to mean anything
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
My hopes are way too high. I need to calm down.
Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
I am the oldest of 4, 3 girls and a boy. My mom had my 2 younger sisters at 40 and 41. My Dad is an only and was born when my grandma was 40 so a long history of big generation gaps.
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
1. Kelley in Georgia
2. 3rd cycle ttc #6, my dh's 2nd
3. We are on our own, I chart temp, cf, cp and occasionally have intercourse
4. 8dpo, lousy timing so not planning on testing
5. I'm irritated but it is what it is... my period will start on or right before my bd which sucks!
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
I was 1st child for my mom, she had two miscarriages prior to her pregnancy with me. My father had 2 children from a previous marriage. My mom was on the older side of normal for a first child (for 1972) 27 and my father was older he was 36.
tlc35 I'm feeling positive for you too!
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2. TTC#1 since Nov 2012
3. I'm so close to IUI I can taste it. I am down 5 more lbs so I only have 10 more to go. Granted most of those five are a result of food poisoning this week. But i'll take it! Otherwise just trying to time it right, which never works for us...
4. 2ww, no symptoms.
5. I'm not too hopeful. I was so sick with the food poisoning that BD was out of the picture; although we did get 2 good attempts before I got sick. I also took ibuprofen because I was so sore, so I'm sure that's going to mess w/ any prospects too!
QOTW: I'm in the middle between my older sister and my younger brother. My mom was younger than me when she had me, 32. But I suppose that's older to be having kids in that era (1977).
Me: 40 DH: 38
TTC since November 2012
Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!
Austrogermokee from MD.
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
TTC#1 since Sept 2013.
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
This was my first cycle with Letrozole and progesterone.
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
Shout out to my DH, he's been a trooper through this whole miserable month.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
2. How long have you been TTC? 8th Month of TTC #2
3. What are you doing this cycle? Been charting for a year and a half, so I'm still charting, temping, using OPK's, preseed, Acupuncture and Chinese herbs provided by my acupuncturist. First RE consult/appt today!!! Does anyone know what I can expect from the first appt?
4. Where are you in your cycle? 2WW, not very hopeful this cycle....just same old symptoms I have had the past 8 months. And my symptoms were pretty much the same with the chemical pregnancy...so yeah, no symptoms. No spotting yet (knock on wood) which is good because I have had a LOT of spotting starting around 5 DPO since my chemical...so I don't know if I have had more (unknown) chemicals or if it has to do with my short luteal phase. I suppose that is what the RE will be there for to find out!
5. How do you feel about this cycle? Anxious, because it's my last ditch effort before the RE.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids? I am the baby (the surprise!) - My sister is 10 years older and my brother is 7.5 years older. My parents had me at 38 so yeah, they were mature. And my mom was "old" for 1979. She said she didn't think she was even fertile anymore. HA! Little did she know....
Surprise BFP# 5 - 9/2/16 - Due 5/13/17
2. How long have you been TTC? 8th Month of TTC #2
3. What are you doing this cycle? Been charting for a year and a half, so I'm still charting, temping, using OPK's, preseed, Acupuncture and Chinese herbs provided by my acupuncturist. First RE consult/appt today!!! Does anyone know what I can expect from the first appt?
4. Where are you in your cycle? 2WW, not very hopeful this cycle....just same old symptoms I have had the past 8 months. And my symptoms were pretty much the same with the chemical pregnancy...so yeah, no symptoms. No spotting yet (knock on wood) which is good because I have had a LOT of spotting starting around 5 DPO since my chemical...so I don't know if I have had more (unknown) chemicals or if it has to do with my short luteal phase. I suppose that is what the RE will be there for to find out!
5. How do you feel about this cycle? Anxious, because it's my last ditch effort before the RE.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids? I am the last baby (the surprise!) - My sister is 10 years older and my brother is 7.5 years older. My parents had me at 38 so yeah, they were mature. And my mom was "old" for 1979. She said she didn't think she was even fertile anymore. HA! Little did she know....
Surprise BFP# 5 - 9/2/16 - Due 5/13/17
2. TTC#1 for 6 cycles, but add 6 more to that for NTNP
3. bumping it up a notch. went to RE last week for consultation, he said my eggs look great (relief) but I have endometriosis (just a little?). doing acupuncture, trying to meditate, cut out most caffeine, taking ayurvedic herbs when i can, maya arvigo abdominal technique
4. ARGH!!!!!!!! CD1
5. I really was hopeful last cycle. We were on vacation, I felt intense ovulation, very romantic BDing on -3, -1 and 0 days. The first few days after O, I thought I had symptoms but then they faded. Hoping for this month, again! Going in for next steps at the RE, bloodwork. DH is getting spermies looked at tomorrow.
QOTW: What is your birth order?
@tlc35 - Really hoping this is IT for you!!
@kelley72 - I giggled at your "occassionaly have sex" comment. lol
@soontobeschrader - You GO girl! You are doing awesome!!
@Austrogermokee - I'm sorry you're feeling crappy this cycle. Hope AF shows up soon.
@katie0919 - When is AF supposed to arrive? The 2WW sucks!
@JimBobCooter - Don't feel that you're being irresponsible. You're not at the casino pissing your money away. You're striving for something amazing!! I hope you feel better soon!
1. TAT2MAMI from Nothern California
2. TTC #2 - 5th Cycle
3. Using the Ovia App. Just bought a basal thermometer and some OPK's.
4. I am on CD13 so I am in my FW. According to app, I should have "O'd" yesterday, but I haven't had the usual cramping. We BD yesterday and on Monday, and probably today and tomorrow if DH has his way. LoL
5. I would love to get a BFP this month. I would have an April baby. Also even though it's silly, the chinese gender calendar says it would be a boy. [-O<
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
I have only one older brother who is 3 years older than me. My mom was 24 when she had me and my dad was 30. Kinda rare for a Mexican couple to only have 2 kids (lol), but my parents wanted to be able to give us what we needed so they knew a big family wasn't do'able. My mom also found out when I was 18 that she had endometriosis and other stuff going on so she had to have a hysterectomy. Dr. said that could be why she never had any other pregnancies.
Surprise BFP# 5 - 9/2/16 - Due 5/13/17
@katie0919 "The 2WW really does blow....like blows big giant, hairy balls."
That just gave me a really gross visual!! LoL
Meredith from (sunny, hot and humid) FL
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
TTC #1, second attempt, since June (second cycle)
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
I had 2 OPK tests left over from January's cycle. I may have gotten a faint positive on the second on which I took on CD13. We did have good timing as long as my O wasn't later than CD16.
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
CD21, so I am in my 2WW. I am pretty sure it is all in my head, but in have been mildly nauseated in the mornings (they do say that is not a PG symptom until 6 weeks, supposedly and I would barely have implanted, but one does like to conjecture) and I got a headache last night (which was one of my most common symptoms in Jan). We shall see.
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Cautiously optimistic, but also a little scared. PGAL brain is kicking in before I even POAS.
Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
@tlc35 @tat2mami and @katie0919 FX for you this month
@soontobeshrader Good for you (sorry about the food poisoning, though)
((Hugs)) to everyone else. I am sorry you aren't where you want to be with your journey this week.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
I am the oldest of 2. My mom was 29 when I was born and my dad was 30. My mom had 2 MCs between me and my brother. She was 33 when he was born and my dad was 34. Somewhat older parents for the late 70s.
ETA: fixing spacing. Sometimes iPads suck.
My Ovulation Chart
TTC#1 since June 2012
This month was a natural cycle with acupuncture and herbs
11 DPO - big dip in temp this morning so my guess AF will show up tomorrow
Not surprised but always disappointed. I'll go in on CD3 for IVF work-up (blah)
QOTW: I'm the oldest; my brother is 2.5 years younger than me. My mom was 25 and my dad was 26. It's always crazy to think of the age difference and what my mom would think of me TTC at this age. Hopefully she's sending me good vibes from heaven.
TTC#1 since June 2012
Dx: Unexplained Infertility / AMA
BFP after 4th IUI cycle with Gonal F + Ovidrel on March 2014 | EDD 12/7/14 | MMC on 4/14/14
IUI#5 with Gonal F and Ovidrel trigger on 6/6 - BFN
On to IVF #1 with a new RE. Started Gonal F and Menopur on 8/15. Added Ganirelix on 8/24. Trigger on 8/26 for ER on 8/28. 8R 7M 3F. Transferred all 3 on 8/31. BFP on 9/11 | EDD 5/20/15 - Beta #1: 56.7. Beta #2: 97. Beta #3: 1148. Beta #4: 3559. Beta #4: 7678. MMC confirmed on 10/13. D&C on 10/14 at 9w. Confirmed male with Trisomy 14.
On to IVF #2 in March. CCS Testing on 2 embies. No go. Waiting to start IVF #3 in July. Surprise BFP on 6/14! EDD - 2/20/16 - Beta #1: 121.4. Beta #2: 236.4. Beta #3: 2014.
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
TTC #1 since January, 2014
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
Went in for CD3 bloodwork, all came back as good as can be, given age. Got go ahead to have polyps removed next friday and start estrogen after that. Wow - might actually be starting IV.
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Hopeful that next month great things will happen!
Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids? I'm the oldest of 2 girls. And my mom was 26 when I was born, and 29 when my sister was born. Probably considered "older" for the 70s.
Me: 43, DOR FI: 44, SA normal
TTC Since Nov 2013
01/2014: Meeting with RE to discuss options
02/2014: Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
03/2014: on the bench
05/2014: meeting with RE to discuss Donor IVF options
09/2014 - IVF#1 - converted to IUI - BFN
2. TTC#2 for five months since PP period.
3. Charting temping, acupuncture 1x or 2x a month, prenatal vitamin, decaf green tea before O, may take B-complex after O to try to lengthen LP.
4. I'm CD13 and expect to ovulate on CD17 or CD18
5. I feel hopeful because DH returns from a trip tomorrow morning, and he knows that this weekend is an important one. My birthday is this week, so just feel positive that this might be our month. I saw a hummingbird last week. ;;)
I want to send a big hug to @lcwed this week.
QOTW: I am the oldest of three girls. My parents were relatively young when they had me. My mom was 26 and my dad was 31.
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
@jimbobcooter I'm sorry that things are so frustrating. I am rooting for you and sending hugs.
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
2. TTC #1 since 3/14
3. Charting and temping.
QOTW: I am the baby of 2; my brother is 7 years older than I. My dad was 38 and my mom 36 when I was born. Mom was told she couldn't have kids. Hmmm...
Paige from PA
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
TTC #1 since January
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
RE, charting/temping, clomid, steroid, IUI with donor sperm (if there's anything there!)
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
CD10, see RE Monday for US to see if follies
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Longer clomid so I'm going with hopeful!
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
I am the youngest - having two sisters 15 & 18 years older than me. My parents were teens when they had my sisters and my mom turned 35 and my dad turned 40 and thought, "hey, our kids are all but grown, let's have another!" That would be me!
TTC #1 with IUI and donor sperm
First IUI May, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
Second IUI July, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
Third IUI Dec, 2014, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = BFN
Fourth IUI Feb 2015, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = C/P
@URMySunshine - We are on the same cycle day 13!
One app says I should have O'd yesterday. Another app says my most 'fertile day' is tomorrow. I started having my cramping just this afternoon so perhaps that means I'm getting ready to O.
Best of luck to you this month! Love it that you saw a hummingbird!!
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.? TTC#2 since January
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
Doing 1st IUI with injectables this month.
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
CD 7, 4th day of Follistim shots.
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Up and down. My CD3 antral follicle count was only 7, which I found very depressing. I seem to be responding to the meds, however. It was 20 today, although they're all still small. We shall see.
Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
@lcwed, I'm so sorry. Hugs.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
I'm the oldest (one younger sister). My mom was 26, and my dad was 27.
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.? TTC#2 since October 2012 (with two losses).
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
I finally miscarried and I'm getting weekly blood work to track my HCG down to zero. Otherwise, we're holding off TTC for a couple of cycles.
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
This cycle is a healing cycle. I am focusing on my health and weight loss. I am changing the way I eat and I am attempting to focus on nutrient-rich real food, and cut out the sugars and foods with a high-glycemic load. We'll see. I've got to make a change, whether we are able to have another child or not.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids? I am the youngest child and only girl. My parents had me when they were 39.
**siggy warning**
Current Age 35, DH 33
Married 9/2011
BFP 8/2012, Miscarried 9/2012
BFP 9/2012, DS 6/2013
BFP 6/2014, Miscarried 7/2014
BFP 7/2014, DD 4/2015
maybebaby3 from MS
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.
1st official month TTC #3
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility
specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping?
Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
Using app to track cycle. Haven't temped & charted yet. Will start next cycle if this one wasn't successful.
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
AF due today. Breasts have felt fuller and sore last few days (slightly different from AF) and I've fought to stay awake past 9 PM this week. Work has been crazy, though, so that might be the culprit of my exhaustion.
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc) Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
ANXIOUS. Want to test but don't want to be disappointed. DH is gone for a couple more weeks and doesn't even know I suspect PG this month. (He just enjoyed the extra ::ahem:: attention he got this month.) If it's not positive, I don't want him concentrating on that. He's already worried that our ages are going to hinder us.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
I'm the baby of 4. Oldest sibling is 16 years my senior. Parents were 37 & 40. I was the surprise so they obviously didn't have any problems conceiving at a more "mature" age.
2. TTC #2. I feel like last cycle and this cycle were throw aways for different reasons.
3. Charting and temping, being more careful about temping at the same time each day and also charting CM this cycle.
4. CD11 today
5. Not hopeful at all. AF was totally weird, starts and stops and then super heavy then spotting for days. CM seems weird like boogers now and has me worried (sorry for tmi). I don't know if this is weaning or something is wrong with me or it's nothing at all.
QOTW : I'm the youngest and my parents were late-30s. I see a trend here!
Ciara - Indiana
2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
TTC #1 since Nov 2013
3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
Went back to temping. Decided to go back to the philosophy "drink till it's pink" - obviously I'm not getting wasted, but I do enjoy that glass of wine.
4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
Well...timing this month was off - it will be off next month too since i'm traveling the week I "O'" (booo).
Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
I've stopped calling my parents every week. Every time I call, they ask if I'm pregnant yet, then give a sad face when I said "no". Then they say, well you shouldn't work so hard (um, okay, are you going to send me money? no, well then...), don't drink (already tried that) etc.
QOTW: What is your birth order? Were your parents on the "mature" side when they had kids?
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt