Surprise pregnancy

summererobinson

So let me start by saying I am very happy to be pregnant, so that’s not the issue at all. A little backstory, I had my first son when I was 16. His father and I are still together. When we turned 18 we started trying for another baby. We tried for 7 years and were diagnosed with unexplained secondary infertility. We went to Shady Grove fertility, and did IVF to get our 11 ½ month old son. When he was 6 months old I found out I was unexpectedly pregnant. Here is my issue. I just don’t feel as excited this time around. Not that im not happy, but almost like its not real. I have had sonograms and everything, and I can even feel the baby move, but it just isn’t registering in my brain for some reason! Im not as big as I was with my son either ( I think that was the hormones). And I don’t know, its just different in general. Has anyone else dealt with a similar situation? I can’t decide if im still in shock or if the fact that I have such a young baby still is over shadowing being pregnant.