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What would you do?
rsp247
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I used to be active on the board and well life has had me preoccupied, so I hope you don't mind me popping in.
Ok a little background: dd father and I didn't work out he was mentally abusive and I left before it became physically abusive ( which I later found out he hit his ex before
me)
Anyway in July before dd was born (she was born sept 2012) after not hearing from him for 5 months he asked to be part of her life. I said I was ok with it but there where some things I had already decided that he wasn't going to change. He agreed. The next day I sent him a text and asked for him to fill out a family medical history and well I never heard from him again.
Ok so now the dilemma: dd has seizures and is also almost 22 months and doesn't speak a word. She is in speech therapy twice a week. I have not intentions of wanting to contact him as he has left the state and has even gotten married. I know his nephew is on fb. Through his nephew I can contact my exs sister and maybe get some medical history. Would you do it? I'm just lost and don't want anymore surprises if anything else happens to dd. Tia
Ok a little background: dd father and I didn't work out he was mentally abusive and I left before it became physically abusive ( which I later found out he hit his ex before
me)
Anyway in July before dd was born (she was born sept 2012) after not hearing from him for 5 months he asked to be part of her life. I said I was ok with it but there where some things I had already decided that he wasn't going to change. He agreed. The next day I sent him a text and asked for him to fill out a family medical history and well I never heard from him again.
Ok so now the dilemma: dd has seizures and is also almost 22 months and doesn't speak a word. She is in speech therapy twice a week. I have not intentions of wanting to contact him as he has left the state and has even gotten married. I know his nephew is on fb. Through his nephew I can contact my exs sister and maybe get some medical history. Would you do it? I'm just lost and don't want anymore surprises if anything else happens to dd. Tia
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Re: What would you do?
My 3 year old just fell out of bed so I popped on here. I have to be up in 2 hours though. Fml
Throwing leaves
Yes, I would absolutley contact at the very least, a family member for medical history. I would try to keep the contact as matter-of-fact as possible, though.
Good Luck!
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12