Advice ?

Ahmarie10

Hi so I found out I was pregnant on Friday . I was so so happy , first pregnancy . I told my hubby and so I got my insurance done as we'll . I had taken 5 different test and different days started on wensday and ended on a for sure note on Friday . All high tech brand test "clear blue digital" and " first response" Friday was the day for me to get my AF nothing so I new for sure I was !:) one of my test told me I was 1-2 weeks so your suppost to add 2 weeks into that so I was 3-4 a month !!! Me and hubby have been TTC for a 7 months now together for a year . Anyways yesterday I went to a free pregnancy screening to determine I was for my insurance it came back negative !!!:( I did not believe her so I came back home tested with a clear blue and also negative ! I read I to it I had no idea what had happened . It seemed that I am going through a chemical pregnancy . Today I woke up with site breast last night I could not even sleep on them because they hurt so bad as we'll as my stomach . I am still bloated , my questions are if any one can relate or have gone through it . Do I have to go to a doctor when I'm going through a chemical pregnancy ? And why have I not gotten my AF or started bleeding ? Why does this happen is it because something is wrong with me or my hubby ? Can we start trying again ? Why am I still feeling the pregnancy symptoms ?

KingLED

Were you testing with FMU and then when you went to the doctor was your urine diluted?

If it is a chemical pregnancy, you don't need to go to the doctor, just call them and let them know. 

catlover790

Everyone already gave good advice, but I'm sorry you are going through this!

Ahmarie10

@EllyD14‌ yes when I tested on wensday it was at 2pm on Thursday morning I did the FMU and it was with a pink dye pregnancy test also wensday . All came out positive then Friday I wanted to see how far so I took a "clear blue digital" came back 1-2 weeks which is 3-4 . I don't know if it was the clear blue being dumb becaus we have heard a bunch of stuff that they don't work . But I tested more with "first response" which are pink dye and had some ladies tweak and it came out positive positive . Yesterday I took it with a clear blue after the pregnacy screening coming back negative and it came back saying not pregnant . I drank so much water it was a few min after I had came back from the free pregnancy screening can it be that it was to early for me to go to the free screening and their don't have the test to do early testing and could t be that the clear blue lied and i got a bad batch of test from clear blue ? And what is urine diluted ?

Ahmarie10

@metandBandP no I have not , and yesterday when I went to the free screening I chugged a water too pee and it was around 4pm and when I came back home to test with a clear blue it was around 5 pm and it was a few min after I came back from the free pregnancy screening . I also chugged water so I can test since I couldn't pee because I had just peed at the clinic. And I have heard a bunch of ladies talking about clear blue not working we'll and yesterday was only 3 days past my AF could it be that I went to test too early at the free pregnancy screening and they couldn't detect it ?

Ahmarie10

@bibliothecary okay thank you and yes I heard about clear blue being bad I will throw them away but I got positives with pink dye test which were "first response" I only used "clear blue blue dye" on Friday to detect how far I was and yesterday to see if the free pregnancy screening was wrong ? Could it be that it lied and it was positive it all happend around 4 and 5pm and I came home right away and tested I chugged so much water to be able to pee . And it has only been 3 days that my period has not shown ? Could it be that the free pregnancy screening could not detect it because it was to early ?

littlewest1

Here's what happened to me.  I got a + FRER on a Tuesday Night, I got a +FRER and - Clear Blue Wednesday afternoon and on Thursday morning with FMU I got a - FRER and - Clear Blue.  On Friday I started bleeding.  I did go in for bloodwork and my HCG was 7.  Different tests use different numbers.  My OB says anything under a 10 HCG is negative.

KingLED

Ahmarie10 said:

@bibliothecary okay thank you and yes I heard about clear blue being bad I will throw them away but I got positives with pink dye test which were "first response" I only used "clear blue blue dye" on Friday to detect how far I was and yesterday to see if the free pregnancy screening was wrong ? Could it be that it lied and it was positive it all happend around 4 and 5pm and I came home right away and tested I chugged so much water to be able to pee . And it has only been 3 days that my period has not shown ? Could it be that the free pregnancy screening could not detect it because it was to early ?

By Clear Blue, do you mean the digitals? Or do you mean the ones that actually have a dye strip with two lines?

Ahmarie10

@Greeneyes842‌ thank you so much yes I will wait then and see .:)

Ahmarie10

@littlewest1‌ we'll if I don't get my AF this week I am going to go get blood work done . thank you

Ahmarie10

@nettje oh okay and red dye is that like "first response " ? And I will test tomorrow with FMU

Ahmarie10

@EllyD14 yes digital , why?

raelynn71109

When I had my chemical pregnancy I didn't start bleeding until a couple of days after my tests turned negative. As PPs have suggested, I would test again with first morning urine to see if you get a positive again. I'm sorry you are going through this.

Ahmarie10

@Joy2611‌ oh okay yes then I will test tomorrow FMU and see what happens thank you for sharing and I'm sorry . Hugs

Ahmarie10

@MetandBandP okay and no I have not tested with FMU today.

Ahmarie10

@Greeneyes842 I will and yes urine and I will test tomorrow with FMU thank you .

KingLED

Ahmarie10 said:

@EllyD14 yes digital , why?

The digital tests aren't as sensitive as dye tests. So if your urine was already diluted, it's pretty obvious that's why it cam back negative.

Joy gave good advice. Listen to her.

Ahmarie10

@Joy2611 thank you so much I will go ahead and take note of this and remember and see what happens this week and thank you for the info. About the test I will go ahead and just buy pink dye from now on and not chug water anymore .:)

Ahmarie10

@raelynn71109 thank you and I will test in a few days with FMU and thank you and sorry you went through it too. Hugs .

Ahmarie10

Thank you @EllyD14‌ I will .

FitMom3510

best of luck hope everything turns out ok!

Ahmarie10

@FitMom3510‌ thank you so much , and me too .