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drunkindonuts

Hey there, new to this part of the bump (or a return after 3 years). I'm having baby fever so bad these days. My husband and I only have one child, who just turned two. Before Caroline we said we'd probably have 2-3 kiddos, but now my husband is hesitant. My pregnancy with Caroline was pretty complicated (bed rest, biweekly appointments, weekly ultrasounds, and lots of monitoring), which ultimately ended in me having HELLP syndrome and an emergency c/s. My husband is paranoid that I will have HELLP again, this time more severe and put my life and the babies life at risk. I have fears too, but not as bad, and still really want another child. Anyone with similar experiences?

DenaMaree

All you can do is have constant communication and make sure he is 100% on board when you are ready to start your TTC journey! I don't have any experience with where you and your H are, but wish you the best of luck!

drunkindonuts

Well my doctor doesn't seemed too concerned. They said they would monitor me closely since it wouldn't come as surprise this time. That's my dilemma, I won't ever have another child unless I get 100% from my husband (because that's not fair), but on the other hand I really want another child. Like yesterday.