Feeling the need to RANT?! Join me!

*blue*flower*

I'm so pissed off right now and I have no one to talk to. We're out of state visiting family. I had to deal with my parents being upset and hurt over the fact we went 7 hours away with DH's family for 5 or 6 days of our 15 day trip. I'm talking I had to deal with them lashing out and really hurting my feelings, and I am pretty sure things will be crappy attitude wise when we get back and that makes me very sad. So before we left I thought DH and I had come to an agreement about if the accommodations became too ridiculous we would be staying in a hotel. We both said that if it came to us having to stay in a trailer outside of the family's house that we weren't going to do it and would stay elsewhere. Well guess what DH decided to do tonight right as I was about to put baby girl down for the night? We're staying in a damn trailer on a busy residential street. His mom is staying in a huge bedroom alone inside.

So first I had to get the baby down in the pack n play in the trailer. She hates to be cold and the ac is blasting and the heat is rising so the pack n play level is FREEZING! She woke up 3 times already. And I am all alone out here while all the family is inside hanging out and eating brownies. Every time a car pulls onto the street the lights shine directly into our window, and the garbage trucks will be buy to pick up the trash from the cans right outside first thing in the morning. I'm so fucking pissed right now. My family is pissed as heck at me AND I know this is going to be a shitty nights sleep. I'm just getting over mastitis. I'm so angry and sad. He thinks because I was home 2 years ago that this vacation is all about what he wants, and that is that. I'm getting more and more annoyed with the whole thing. I never want to come back home. I don't want to fight with my husband, but I'm about to freak the eff out. I'm not going to be able to suck it up much longer!

I hope everyone else is having a good week, but feel free to join me if you need to bitch about something!

chelseyestelle

I'm so sorry. That's rough.

tencheer

I am so sorry you are dealing with this. My husband and I have agreed about things before that he immediately went against when we were around his family and that makes me so angry. Can you guys sleep somewhere else tomorrow?

deedee1017

Check into a hotel first thing tomorrow morning, after the garbage trucks pass by. Then, order room service for breakfast and stay in your PJs all day and nap as you see fit. You've earned it. Hope your trip gets better.

RedZee

Take the baby and go inside. Then say, "she can't sleep out there. It's too cold and the cars keeps waking her up. Should we sleep in the house or at a hotel? " cleanly and nicely. Might be too late for this above though. Keep the peace, sure, but don't suffer.

bkeane619

Hotel for sure

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cassey910

So sorry. I really hope it gets better because as of now that's crap. If he doesn't want to do a hotel call a cab and get one for you and LO.

SHAWNACPA

I hope your night got better... I would say go to a hotel (if you haven't already). Hope it gets better!

ncase2

RedZee said:

Take the baby and go inside. Then say, "she can't sleep out there. It's too cold and the cars keeps waking her up. Should we sleep in the house or at a hotel? " cleanly and nicely. Might be too late for this above though. Keep the peace, sure, but don't suffer.

This. @RedZee - I need your rational and calm input in my brain at all times

*blue*flower*

Thanks ladies! I was pretty raging by this morning! I have since been able to reassess and talk to DH. We're back inside tonight (last night was rough. ) I'm less than thrilled with the overall situation, but glad we got on the same page again. Now if only my family would stop being pissed I could enjoy myself more. And DH wondered why I wasn't excited to come home!

*blue*flower*

Oh and I was half asleep snuggling baby and accidentally whacked DH in the face. I didn't even feel bad.

*blue*flower*

Combination of his and his mother's idea :-q His mom planted the seed. He went with it after that.